Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 752 Location: :( N.O. Evacuee now in TEXAS
Posted: 01-29-06 18:49pm
Ok I posted my story.... Already I dont
think she is stupid. She dosent make alot
of sense cause first she wanted to have a
baby now she dosen't. Just because you
arent doing anything to prevent the
pregnancy dosent mean u want it. That
just means you dont care. And dont be so
freaked out when you do pop up pregnant.
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hunterjumper
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 203 Location: British Columbia, Canada
Posted: 01-29-06 23:05pm
~rubmybuddahbelly~
wrote:
i didnt see anything of her
saying or asking if it was stupid to be
having unprotected sex if she didnt want a
baby... She posted asking if she was
to young..
read the first page very carefully.
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orlylover15
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2006 Posts: 21 Location: Maine
Re: to Young? Posted: 02-03-06 20:34pm
jennancory
wrote:
ok im 16 almost 17 do you
think that thats too young to have a kid
cuz I really want one and so does my
boyfriend
i know this sounds cheesy but I dont think
age really matters. If ur ready ur ready.
Normally 16 is too young but u might be
ready. Look at the kids having babies at
13-14! I think that is too young period!!
I think if it's gotten to a point to where
you're actually asking people on a forum
if it's too young then it's obvious you're
too young.
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hunterjumper
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 203 Location: British Columbia, Canada
Posted: 02-04-06 02:21am
dalicialynn
wrote:
i think if it's gotten to a
point to where you're actually asking
people on a forum if it's too young then
it's obvious you're too
young.
i second that. I think age doesn't matter
if you have common sense enough to really
consider the situation. But if you have
to ask a bunch of strangers on the
internet then your conscience is obviously
telling you that you're not ready.
I knew at 18 that I was ready, even though
I wasn't in the best situation really. I
just knew. I didn't have to ask anyone, I
knew and that was enough. And sure enough
it's worked out. But you need to go in
to 100% percent, at least. If you're
wishy-washy then it's going to be so hard
on you to go in to parenthood because it
requires so much patience and devotion and
if you're not absolutely sure it's
something you want to do you may end up
regretting/resenting it.
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kkthegirl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2005 Posts: 8 Location: monroe, michigan
Posted: 02-13-06 08:15am
Yes, it is too young,enjoy your life how
it is. I have a daughter and im 16.
After you have a baby your life totally
changes you arent able to do anything
anymore.When you wanna go anywhere you
wont be able to because you would have to
take care of a baby. Im lucky because I
am able to finish high school, but there
are other girls out there who cant even do
that. Another thing you probably wouldnt
be able to support yourselves( babys arent
cheap)!
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curiousbrandi07
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Feb 2006 Posts: 3
Hello Posted: 02-13-06 08:50am
I wul dluv to hav a baby b/c I absoultly
love kids. But I kno the expence, the
time, the patiance, that you need. Its
not like babysitting. Being a parent is a
24/7job.You cant back out of it. You will
be a mom to a baby,are you prepared for
tht? If you think its going to make u and
ur bf be more happy, and have a reason to
be together forvere, I wuld think about
the other options also. Alot of men get
scared off, wen they find out thier
actually going to be raising a human..Were
talking about a real baby now, not a doll.
Can you handle it if the baby has colic.
Its so hard for a 30 year oldmother to
raise a baby with colic, think about being
only 16.With all the stress you will
already have, why add more by a crying
newbord, worrying about wen you need to
feed it, wen u need to change it, and etc.
Yes thier cute, but there is alot that
comes along with raising a kid.Yah it
might be cute, havin a lil baby around,
but wut happeneds in 4 years wen your only
20,and you have a four year old? Just be
prepared, to not being able to get up and
leave, and put urself first, and put a
huge hold on ur dreams and goals.. If
you really love eachother, you wouldnt
want to put urself and ur bf through that
much responsibility. Go out and enjoy the
time you have together!! Im not saying
that its bad if ur a teen parent, b/c I
have a couple friends that are, and I kno
how hard it is for them....
Good luck
