Have You Ever Broken Your Own Hymen? Posted: 01-26-06 01:58am
Right now i'm a virgin and have no desire
whatsoever to have some damn penis break
my hymen.
Basically,i just want to get this caca
over with and find and alternative way for
my hymen to break.
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wakkochic17
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Posted: 01-28-06 14:40pm
Try a tampon..
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Re: Have You Ever Broken Your Own Hymen? Posted: 01-28-06 21:47pm
ava_adore
wrote:
right now i'm a virgin and
have no desire whatsoever to have some
damn penis break my hymen.
Basically,i just want to get this caca
over with and find and alternative way for
my hymen to
break.
can I ask why you want it broke..? I've
never heard of anyone wanting to break
their own
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mongirl
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Posted: 01-30-06 14:43pm
Yes ive broke my own hymen when I was like
12 I think and I was in ballet for 8 years
and then just one day I jumped in the air
and landed in the splits just like I had
before but then I felt pain and went to
the bathroom and there was blood and I did
not start my period until about 4 mos
later.
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munky23
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Posted: 02-07-06 17:30pm
Well i've been having sex for a couple
months and I swear my hymen never broke
(just stretched). So if I go a week
without sex, it still hurts a little to
put it in. As long as your first time is
with a guy that goes slow and gentle its
not too bad.
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boomshaka
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hi Posted: 05-02-08 15:49pm
hey i have the same problem.
i want to have sex with my bf
but what if he thinks its gross?
cuz off the blood..=/
we are both virgins.
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boomshaka
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Posted: 05-02-08 15:50pm
i wanna break my own hymen.
how do i know i have one though?
alot of people dont.
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SmilesandSunshine
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Posted: 09-15-08 23:33pm
Wow, I was the same way.
If you don't want a penis to break it then
whats the rush of breaking it, Sex is
something special you share with someone.
If you are nervous about having sex and it
being painful don't worry if you love them
you wont feel a thing. All you feel is
pressure.
if your worried about the bleeding it's
nothing major its spotting and you only
see it when you pee then wipe(that is how
it was for me and many of my friends)
All women have hymens (the cherry) ha ha
so don't think you are lucky to not have
one! People who believe they don't have
them are a little silly and obviously have
not broken them just yet.
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SmilesandSunshine
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^^^^ referring to the post above. Posted: 09-16-08 21:37pm
My last statement may or may not be true.
I have seen on here that maybe women think
that we don't ALL have Hymens. I was
under the impressions as women we all have
one! I know that some women have very
stubborn hymens and ones that will not
break but very unsure if all women have
it!
Sorry. Just wanted to clear that up haha
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Jazzy77
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Re: Have You Ever Broken Your Own Hymen? Posted: 09-16-08 22:01pm
ava_adore
wrote:
Right now i'm a virgin and
have no desire whatsoever to have some
damn penis break my hymen.
Basically,i just want to get this caca
over with and find and alternative way for
my hymen to
break.
hi ava...i think maybe you should
contemplate this for a while before
deciding what to do. from the looks of
your other posts, you have some things
going on in your life that you need to
focus on other than whether or not your
hymen is broken.
while i do understand your sentiment, and
your logic, i think that there may be some
underlying issues that you need to deal
with and get beyond before you consider
having any kind of a cherry-breaking
event.
i'm here to talk with you about this if
you want. many of us are here for you.
please talk with us and don't feel the
need to do something rash like taking your
own virginity. again, like i said, i can
understand the logic and the sentiment,
but you have a lot going on for one girl
and i think you need to work through some
of those issues one-at-the-time.
jasmine
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Re: ^^^^ referring to the post above. Posted: 09-16-08 22:59pm
SmilesandSunshine
wrote:
My last statement may or may
not be true.
I have seen on here that maybe women think
that we don't ALL have Hymens. I was
under the impressions as women we all have
one! I know that some women have very
stubborn hymens and ones that will not
break but very unsure if all women have
it!
Sorry. Just wanted to clear that up
haha
Nope, not every woman is born with a
hymen. A majority of women lose their
hymen by just being active. For most it's
not painful and like you said, there's
barely any blood, so most women don't even
realize its already gone.
Boomshaka, there isn't a lot of blood
involved with losing your virginity. As
long as there's a lot of foreplay, lots of
lubrication, and you can relax, then
you'll have a painless first time with no
blood. If for some reason there is blood,
your bf would be a toad to tell you it was
gross. You can check for your hymen with
your fingers or a mirror, but some women
have less hymen tissue than others, so you
may not be able to see it.
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confused1988
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Posted: 09-23-08 09:41am
so if i do ballet and the splits does it
means that my hymen is broken?is there a
possiblity that is not?i started ballet at
the age of 16.
