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snowygirl

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Im Sooooo Sad And Discouraged =( Help Me Posted: 01-27-06 18:10pm


Hi everyone, guess what I failed to get preggy again this month. I felt a lot of the preggy symptoms and stuff and tried hard getting preggy with my hunny but still failed, just feeling depressed now . Feel like crying too =( I even bought first response test but I guess I dont need it now =(

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Posted: 01-27-06 18:15pm


::hugs:: i'm sorry. I know how you feel. My af was 5 days late and I took 3 tests during that time, all negative (i feel like an fool). I also had some symptoms and was convinced that this was it. Hang in there, it'll happen. I know that probably doesn't help but keep your chin up and try not to think about it too much.

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Posted: 01-27-06 18:17pm


O my god, im in the opposite boat of you. I would kill if I got pregnant./ teaching is definitely good birth control. I cant evem stand the thought of my own kids right now. Thank god for birth control cause im a psycho nut about taking it. Why do you want kids so bad already? How old are you?

Butterfly_05

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Posted: 01-27-06 18:35pm


Snowygirl, its going to happen. It will happen for all of us!!! We just need to relax and realize that it will happen when it happens and by then you and the rest of us will be so prepared. When you and the rest of see that positive sign for the first time we wont know what to do. I would probably go nuts and buy four more just to be sure. Lol. Just try not to get down about it. Think positively and try not to stress over it so much. Well good luck and tons of baby dust to all ttc.

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Posted: 01-28-06 00:24am

sunnyface22 wrote:

o my god, im in the opposite boat of you. I would kill if I got pregnant./ teaching is definitely good birth control. I cant evem stand the thought of my own kids right now. Thank god for birth control cause im a psycho nut about taking it. Why do you want kids so bad already? How old are you?

then why are you posting on the getting pregnant board? You are asking why they want kids, well duh???

Debb75

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Posted: 02-04-06 08:59am


I have been there. Feel stupid sometimes that I wasted all that money on preg test kits. Actually, pms and preg sympotons are similar, just that if you are preg. The sympotons prolong for a long period of time. Snowy gal, hope you are alright now. All the best. Sometimes I just try not to think about it. Have you seen a doc?

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Posted: 02-04-06 15:08pm


We are all there with you snowygirl! How long hav you been trying? I think we all think 'this is it' every mth only to get disappointed. It will happen for you just hang in there! Good luck!

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Try to Relax Posted: 02-04-06 16:57pm


Hey, I know how you feel. I'll tell you want someone told me on this site! Try to relax, make love not sex, it will happen, when it happens! Try not to stress out too much (i know... Easier said than done) but it worked for me my husband and I slowed things down and we only has sex twice and now i'm 4 weeks pregnant. Oh, and try have sex with a pill under your waist. I don't know if it helped for us, but it didn't hurt :) have faith! Lots of prayers are with you... Z...

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Posted: 02-06-06 04:38am


Snowygirl - it'll happen. Just relax and don't get depressed. Try to keep a positive attitude. We tried for over a year, finally got pregnant, lost the baby and then decided to just relax and not worry about it for a while. I got pregnant 2 months later without all the "trying". Of course, now we are trying again and I am really trying to remain calm and not worry so much about it. I know you are disappointed though. It will happen. How long have you been trying? Have the doctors run any tests yet to see if you both are ok?

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Re: Im Sooooo Sad And Discouraged =( Help Me
Posted: 02-06-06 07:08am

snowygirl wrote:

hi everyone, guess what I failed to get preggy again this month. I felt a lot of the preggy symptoms and stuff and tried hard getting preggy with my hunny but still failed, just feeling depressed now . Feel like crying too =( I even bought first response test but I guess I dont need it now =(

hi snowgirl,

we r in the same boat and have not met before. I am also trying n trying every month with failure and now doing it with medicine. I hhope I get pregnant this round. How long have u been trying? Have u seen a doc regarding this? Sometimes there could be something wrong with our ovaries or health that affects us n prevents pregnancy. I just found out I have pcos after 2 years of trying naturally...

So dun loose hope. Try other ways to get what u want? Always remember there is no right or wrong answer n there is always more than one right answer, its how u perceive it or do it...

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Posted: 02-19-06 09:39am


How long have u been ttc?? I fell frustrated too. Ive been ttc for 6 months...Bummer...

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What Worked For Me. Posted: 02-19-06 11:03am


I am currently 7 months pregnant after trying for 5 1/2 years. I had a test done at my obgyn's request and found that I had tube blockage and a plethera of other female issues. I had another tubal test done where they "blow out your tubes" two years before I got pregnant (supposed to be an immediate thing). Using the same concept, I filled a syringe with lukewarm water immediately after sex and blasted the sperm into my egg. This worked.

snowygirl

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Hmm Posted: 02-19-06 17:08pm


I have been trying for about 5 months already, hope this month is the one =) baby dust to all trying ~~~

Debb75

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Posted: 02-19-06 20:52pm


Hi snowy gal, don't worry, it is only been months. If nothing happens after 6 months or so, maybe you may want to see a gynea. Don;t wait too long. I waited 3 years to realised that I have a problem. I think I am not pregnant cos my period is coming. Breasts are less swell up down...So depressed.....