I am 18 and my girlfriend is also 18, and
she says she's never had an orgasm with
any guy she's been with. We haven't had
sex yet but when i'm fingering her, she
says the good feeling increases and
increases but she never reaches a
climax...And I know what i'm doing i've
made girls orgasm before it's nothing
that's been difficult to do in the past,
so when I try to make her orgasm i'll
speed up the stimulation of the clit area
and i'll keep up that speed until I can
tell by her reaction that she orgasmed and
that it's over, but she says the feeling
will increase and increase but will never
climax so she'll get irritated and want me
to stop, so I don't understand why she's
not getting an orgasm. She said she's
tried masterbating and can't get an orgasm
that way either, she said she's tried
before, once for 30 minutes or so and
eventually gave up. So apparently she's
never had an orgasm and I would say that's
true because she would definitely know if
she's had one, you would think.
So should I think that something is wrong
or is this normal? Is it normal to not
be able to give yourself an orgasm when
masterbating? Also is it normal to have
never had an orgasm after being with 4
guys and none of them are able to do it?
Is it possible that every guy is just not
doing something right? Even though i'm
doing what's worked for other girls in the
past?
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viper1234
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jan 2006 Posts: 20 Location: cincinnati ohio
Posted: 01-29-06 21:13pm
Im not an expert but my girlfriend is
somewat like that and its been a while but
there is a sex show on the channel oxygen
and she has explained this several times
and it is normal cause only 31% of females
can reach climax. I hope this helps a
little!
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tasha82
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2005 Posts: 112
Posted: 01-29-06 23:03pm
Ymca, do you know if your girlfriend is on
any medication?
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jessesgirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 2877
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Posted: 01-29-06 23:11pm
A friend of mine has never had an orgasm
and she's 23. A lot of women never reach
it. It is something worth working on
though and then she'll never want to stop.
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penelope67
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 114 Location: NH
Posted: 01-31-06 17:48pm
Get her a vibrator!!!!!!!!!! I think she
is scared because she has never had an
orgasm and she thinks she will never have
one, so why bother. I have never had a
man get me off except my current boyfriend
of three years-he has a couple times, but
I always have to use self stimulation. If
you get her a vibrator, she can relax and
let it do all of the work, and then she
wont get discouraged and frustrated. And
after that, I guarantee she will either be
addicted to vibrators or try it herself,
and it will be much more enjoyable. And
by the way viper means that only 31% of
females can climax by intercourse alone.
The doing it rest of us have to work for
it :lol:
