I have a problem with other girls telling
my girlfriend that they are messing around
me and none of it is true and I cant get
my girlfriend to believe that I never have
and never will cheat on her cause she is
everything that I want and need but dis
problem has happen before with grls but I
never have tryed to talk to another grl
are did anything wit anotha grl but my
grlfriend juss dnt believe me someone help
plz.
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Kittykatus
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Oct 2005 Posts: 89 Location: United Kingdom
It's All In the Object of Trust... Posted: 01-31-06 17:20pm
If you look at the art of love, it the one
thing that ends up breaking it is lack of
trust. Looking back to school and college
times, I have seen many friends lose their
rag with their partner where they have
just not been able to trust their
partners, especially if they are a popular
character, or they end up cheating and
therefore lose trust entirely.
It's almost unbelieveable to you to think
why she would thin thsi I know- for you
boys, the object of trust is vital, and
women is mostly to care. But she has been
given images of you, that all tend to
point to one particular look. You should
really sit her down and talk to her
properly. And I don't mean sit her down
for 5 minutes before you head off to do
somethign else; you need to plan a time
with her, take her somewhere quiet, and
talk. Listen to what she has to say, and
let he speak, and have her say. Once you
get the full story of what she's heard and
listen instead of criticise, perhaps you
should then explain how much you care for
her and that your here with her and noone
else.
Unfortunately, whetehr your male of
female, we all tend to get a lilttle
paranoid about our partners. But think of
it this way boi; if she didn't care about
you, she wouldn't be worried.
