Ok, here's my question, and I hope it
makes sense...
When I give my fiance oral, I know when
he's cumming and all and I know i'm
supposed to stop moving since things get
sensitive. Now once he starts to cum is
it all going to come out if I stop moving?
Does that make sense? Like, if I stop
moving too soon is only a little going to
come out and the rest will stay in and
he'll be backed up, or once he starts to
cum I can stop moving and it will all come
out? I never really know when to stop. I
hope this made sense.
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cobrakid
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Joined: 29 Jan 2006 Posts: 29
Posted: 01-30-06 15:51pm
Well I think I would like a girl to keep
going when im about to cum, that
sensitivity for me while masterbating has
a very pleasurable feeling to it.
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teach486
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Posted: 01-31-06 07:30am
The best advice for you is to just ask him
what he would like for you to do. What
feels good to one person doesn't feel good
to another. Some men enjoy the woman to
continue sucking a bit after he has
climaxed, while others are just way to
sensitive to even have any touch at all
after climaxing.
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Bridget
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Posted: 01-31-06 11:01am
Thanks, but that doesn't answer my
question. My question is (and i'm having
such a hard time wording it for some
reason), when he starts to cum does it all
come out whether i'm still sucking away or
not? If I stop too soon (after he's
started cumming), will it all come out or
will the rest stay backed up? Or once he
starts to cum there's no turning back and
it all comes out no matter what?
Does this make sense to anyone?
He's never complained, he always gets off.
I'm just wondering for guys in general.
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reddragon0519
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Joined: 29 Jan 2006 Posts: 4
Posted: 01-31-06 19:17pm
I know exactly what your talkin about.
For me at least, if the girl stops sucking
as soon as im about to come not as much
will come out as if the girl continued at
a nice steady pace. It feels much better
for the guy if the girl continues, it's
after the orgasm is completely done that
everything becomes super sensitive and
shouldn't be messed with. I guess it all
depends on whether you want to let the guy
come in your mouth or not.
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juicy
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Joined: 25 Jan 2006 Posts: 18 Location: birmingham
Posted: 02-10-06 06:16am
Use a condom if you that scared.
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Bridget
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Posted: 02-10-06 13:43pm
What does that have to do with anything?
I let him cum in my mouth, I have
absolutely no problem with it. My
question had nothing to do with being
scared or using condoms. I just wanted to
make sure I wasn't short changing him by
stopping too soon (after he came), I
wanted to make sure it was all going to
come out. And now I just go for like 3
seconds longer than I used to and he seems
satisfied. So thanks to reddragon, who
gave me the response I was looking for.
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Surrender
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Joined: 24 Nov 2005 Posts: 128 Location: canada
Posted: 02-10-06 13:49pm
..When u talk about backing up...Do u mean
like 'blue balls'? Because that doesn't
exist--a guy won't actually get backed up
if he doesn't cum. When a guy becomes
sexually aroused blood flows into his
penis and testicles. “if he ejaculates,
the blood flows out of his genitals more
quickly than if he doesn’t, says ivana.
The discomfort goes away fairly quickly...
So idk if this helps
but I think if he's gonna cum its all
gonna come in one shot-->.<
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furrytail
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Posted: 07-22-08 19:44pm
Bridget, my advice is to not stop sucking
when he is about to cum. You should keep
going until he explodes. As you are okay
with swallowing cum, as am I, then this
should be very easy. Once he starts to cum
just keep your lips firmly, but not too
tightly wrapped around his penis. Let him
pass all the cum out and then just lightly
lap up the rest from the head and finish
with gentle kisses. This is what I do and
I've never had complaints.