My boyfriend and I have been together for
almost 7 months and are very serious.
(our relationship progressed fast). Now
at the beginning of this month he started
college part-time on top of working
full-time. He has no time for me. My
weekends are free, but he uses the
weekends for homework and catching up on
work. I see him once a week now, on
weeknights for a hour or so. I'm very
depressed because we used to see eachother
every day! We still talk every day, but
our relationship is in his hands now.
It's up to him when he has time to see me.
And that frusterates me. What can I
do???
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
I Know How You Feel! Posted: 02-01-06 02:08am
My bf used to always seem so busy, always.
He went to school, worked & was in a
band with practice everyday! It was like
where was the time for me? We always
talked every night but it was getting to
the point where he didn't get home until
after 12-1 in the morning & had to be
up for school in 6 hours, so I got to talk
to him for 30mins. Or so. What I did was
told him my feelings and reminded him I
was there, I know he's busy but i'm still
here. Let him know that you understand he
has other things going on in his life but
he needs time for you also. If he doesn't
have time then you guys just need to take
a break until he gets his priorties (sp?)
straight. That may sound harsh, but
that's what I told my bf. He doesn't have
his job at the moment, so I get a little
bit more time then what I used to. I just
miss him when i'm not around him & i'm
sure you feel the same way. Heck, even if
he just called me after school to tell me
he loved me would make my day. Things
will get better, they are with my bf &
i. It just takes time and a lot of
communcation!
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littlemisstery
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 95
Posted: 02-16-06 04:48am
My boyfriend and I see each other once a
week, usually one day during the weekend.
Both of us go to school during the day and
night, but he goes four days a week to my
two. Lately we've had a good amount of
arguments because of the short amount of
time we have to even talk to each other,
but in some ways you should see the time
you have with him and appreciate it. No,
it's not everyday, but it's more than no
time at all right? It gets frustrating
with me too, because i'm alone three days
a week while he's at school, but I always
think of the time we will get together
rather than the time we don't. It makes
things a little easier.
