Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 52 Location: Nova Scotia
Single-baby-school Posted: 08-11-03 10:50am
Any advice on what I should do: im 16, my
long term boyfriend left me and 2 weeks
later I found out im pregnant. Is
abortion right or should I keep this kid?
~thanks
ok i'm gonna add this to the bottom b-cuz
people are getting the wrong idea. Im 16
hes 19. We had been together for 3 years.
I gave into him "harping" at me to have
sex with him, and a lil while later he
broke up with me over me going out to the
movies with my bestfriend. And 2 weeks
later like I said early surprise im
pregnant and we used protection ....That
obviously didn't work!!! Anyway i'm
putting my child up for adoption, once its
born and have a wonderful family already
interested!! :d
Last edited by Misty on 08-13-03 08:15am; edited 1 time in total
|
Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 08-12-03 15:15pm
16-long term boyfriend is an problem
lately- beautiful son sean
i don't believe in abortion and I think
that if you are old enough and mature
enough to lay down and spread your legs
that you are old enough and mature enough
to deal with the responsibilty...I hope I
don't sound like a health forum I am only
being real...
Teen mother-
stacie
aol sn: mesmerizeu15
|
HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-13-03 00:33am
Yes if u were brave enough to have sex and
get pregnant, u'd be brave enough to have
a baby!
Though I dont like abortion, but I am
pro-choice, it's ur choice, there is no
right or wrong about that.
Think it thru like if you will be
financially ready or can u get help?!
Get this 16 year old jerk to pay for child
support!
And are u gonna still go to school?
School and child, very difficult unless u
have help
and do you think with ur knowledge on life
and education, would u be able to give ur
child a balanced childhood? Would u be
able to give ur child the right mind set?
Would u be able to bare the pressure, the
stress??
Really think it thru...No one can tell you
whether u should or should not get an
abortion because u are a woman, u have a
choice, but if you decide to do it, dont
regret it
|
Amanda
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2003 Posts: 3 Location: Louisville
Think B4 U Do Something Posted: 08-13-03 01:10am
You should keep ur baby and if u cant take
care of him or her then have an
adoption...All I can say is think about
what u are doing b4 u go off and do it...I
mean "think"!!! You had sex now take the
responsibility that came w/ it...You dont
need the babies daddy 2 help u but get his
ass for child support! Just remember
think!!!!
|
lhileman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2003 Posts: 79 Location: Griffin, Ga.
Stop Putting Her Down Posted: 08-13-03 10:04am
I think alot of these girls come on here
for advide, not criticism, they probably
get enouth of that from thier parents, so
please, why can't everyone just admit,
everyone makes mistakes, no one is
perfect, so I think everyone should stop
being so judgemental, and just be a
friend.
Lhileman
|
HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Re: Stop Putting Her Down Posted: 08-13-03 15:43pm
lhileman
wrote:
i think alot of these girls
come on here for advide, not criticism,
they probably get enouth of that from
thier parents, so please, why can't
everyone just admit, everyone makes
mistakes, no one is perfect, so I think
everyone should stop being so judgemental,
and just be a
friend.
The site is not a replacement for professional medical opinion, examination, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the advice of your medical doctor or other qualified health professional before starting any new treatment or making any changes to existing treatment. Do not delay seeking or disregard medical advice based on information written by any author on this site. No health questions and information on eHealth Forum is regulated or evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and therefore the information should not be used to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease without the supervision of a medical doctor. Posts made to these forums express the views and opinions of the author, and not the administrators, moderators, or editorial staff and hence eHealth Forum and its principals will accept no liabilities or responsibilities for the statements made.
Schizophreniahealth
This page was last updated on June 11, 2008