I Wanna B With Him But At the Same Time I Dont Posted: 02-01-06 21:33pm
Me and my boii have been 2gether 4 almost
a yr now and we get along juss fine...The
only thing is that he lives in cali and I
live in va...He asked me 2 marry him and I
said yes but I dont kno anymore I wanna
have my chances down here but I wanna b
wit him and I dont wanna cheat on him I
really love him...Hes my world and its
juss lke im confuzed and I dont kno
anymore..And 4 the past couple days me and
him have been fytein...1 of his friends I
dont lke..And she talks 2 him all the
time.He talks 2 her more then he talks 2
me and they used 2 go out and I really
dont trust her and im really startin 2
think hes juss in this 2 medical question
me over and b wit her.He says he loves me
and everything its juss I wanna b wit him
but at the same time I dont...I dont kno
anymore plz help me
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Laurie F.
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 9 Location: San Antonio, Texas
Posted: 02-02-06 00:35am
If you are second guessing your
relationship with him and his
faithfulness, you should definately talk
to him about it. It is not good to be in
a relationship where you feel that you
arent sure where his feelings
are...Especially if you are engaged.
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iwant2bme
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Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 9
I Kno Posted: 02-02-06 02:48am
Everytime I bring it up hes gets mad and
is lke u dont love me and all this stuff
kuz I ask him about it its juss lke
blahhhhh :(
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jukesears
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Joined: 02 Feb 2006 Posts: 10 Location: Cambridge
Posted: 02-02-06 12:57pm
Im not sure where cali and va is, im
british, but im guessing this is a long
distence relationship problem. This guy
has asked for your hand in marriage, its
only natural for you to have second
thourght. Making taught choices in life
is a hard thing to do but this is what we
have to do in order to move forward and
xcell, you can however choice to stay
where you are and not moke that move, you
do have the choice, but its these choices
in life that determine where we want to
be. I would go for it girl!!! He loves
you, why would he ask for your hand in
marriage if he didnt? I also think that
the pressure of his question to you and
you being not sure, even tho you know hes
ur world, may be showing to him. In other
words he my be feeling unloved or he my
think you dont care. With the arguing
side of this its a true fact that me argue
with loved ones more than any one why?
Beacuse they care, im a man and ive gone
mental sometimes at my woman because I was
jelues of losing her!!! He my be thinking
the same thing, sometimes when a man
argues with his woman he losses hes tempa
so bad you might think he hates you, but
remember this the angryer he get sometimes
that his way of showing you he cares. I
know that sound stupid but I believe in
it. I hope you make the right choice and
do the right thing... Follow your
heart....
Please let us know the out come, and good
luck
juke
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princessdiana7586
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Joined: 01 Dec 2005 Posts: 49
Posted: 02-02-06 15:53pm
I'm just curious...How did you meet?? And
why do you live so far apart, and for how
long?? It's seems like you would never
see eachother to have a relationship
that's as serious as marriage.
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iwant2bme
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 9
Posted: 02-02-06 20:12pm
Me and him ment a long time ago and I went
wif his best friend and now im goin wit
him now....And hes movin over here as soon
as he finshes skool which is in lke 2mons
so how r we never gonna see each other=|
