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teenpreggers
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Can the Doctor Tell On Me?
Posted: 02-02-06 21:52pm
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My dad is taking me to the doctors tomorro
morning for my first papsmere. Tomorro
itll be 14 days after the time that me and
my boyfriend had sex and he busted in me.
Which I think is the time of the
conception. Will the doctor kno if im
pregnant tomorow or is it too early? And
if I am. Will she tell me dad. Im 15 and
my friend said since im under 18 that the
doctor can tell my dad. Is that true?
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Mommi2Bee
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shuett
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Posted: 02-02-06 22:20pm
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I don't think a doctor can diagnose a
pregnancy through just doing a pap smear -
especially when conception was/might have
been only a fortnight ago.
Unless of course you dad has asked her to
check for pregnancy.
Sandy
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madeoursaturdays
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Posted: 02-02-06 22:38pm
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| mommi2bee
wrote: | | i hope she does...
:) |
me too.
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 02-02-06 23:06pm
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I had a pap with one of my pregnancy's at
5 weeks they said I wasnt preg. But at 7
weeks he knew I was, with same baby. So
there is something that they can see, but
in my case not til after 5 weeks.
Good luck
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Kimmeh
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Posted: 02-02-06 23:12pm
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Sometimes if they're looking they can tell
if your uterus is enlarged, which if it is
it could indicate pregnancy...My friend
had to get a pap test and she thought she
may be pregnant...So she took a preg test,
but the doctor felt her uterus and said
that it was still small so she doubted it.
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 02-02-06 23:29pm
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Well... I knew I was pregnant and I told
the dr I was--so he was looking for it,
but since I dint pass the urine tests
until 7 weeks he said I wasnt preg and
gave me shot to make my period start.
Thank .God it didnt work. Came back 2
weeks later and passed urine test.
Now this example is just me(everyone is
different)--but I do know in my case I was
over 5 weeks before dr could "see"
evidence of pregnancy.
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Lilypad
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Re: Can the Doctor Tell On Me?
Posted: 02-03-06 00:05am
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| teenpreggers
wrote: | | my dad is taking me to the
doctors tomorro morning for my first
papsmere. Tomorro itll be 14 days after
the time that me and my boyfriend had sex
and he busted in me. Which I think is
the time of the conception. Will the
doctor kno if im pregnant tomorow or is it
too early? And if I am. Will she tell
me dad. Im 15 and my friend said since
im under 18 that the doctor can tell my
dad. Is that
true? |
i think your parents should know and I
hope she does tell them if you are. But
if you are not get on some birth control
asap!! And use condoms until it kicks in
all the way.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Posted: 02-03-06 19:59pm
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Well as for being able to tell if your
pregnant by paps..Its possible because
thats how my bestfriend found out she was
pregnant..The doctor knew right
away..Because the discharge and swelling
of her vagina...Dont ask me but I was
there and heard every word..So some
doctors can tell right away..Others might
not pay attention..
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chrissy721
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Posted: 02-03-06 20:37pm
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A website I went to once said that your
cervix will be tinted a purplish color and
that could mean your pregnant. I don't
know if it's true though.
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lsipes
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Posted: 02-03-06 20:44pm
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Doesn't that violate doctor/patient
confidentiality... No matter what the
age?
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diamondsz
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Posted: 02-03-06 23:11pm
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They can tell cervix has a different
feeling to it as for telling your parents
I hope you do that asap but no the dr
cannot tell ur parents like isipes said
patient confidentiality here its at 16 and
some places 14
good luck!!
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not perfect
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Posted: 02-04-06 03:44am
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Where I live, if you are 16 or under,
parents have to know so the docs tell
them.
Look at it this way, if you are pregnant
and the doc finds out and tells your
parents.. That's one big thing out of the
way. Plus with the doctor there telling
them, you're safe lol.
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Lilypad
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Posted: 02-04-06 07:01am
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If you are pregnant you will have to tell
them sooner or later anyway.
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matthieusmom
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Posted: 02-08-06 15:56pm
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Okay as far as the doctor telling the
parents, I know in mississippi, if you are
above the age of 12 and pregnant the
doctor can't release any information to
anyone with out the patient saying that
it's okay. So in another words the doctor
could get into real big trouble if u r
pregnant and he/she tells ur parents.
Wish u all the good luck
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
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Posted: 02-08-06 15:59pm
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If there is some chance that you are
pregnant and they do find out.. They have
to tell your parents because u are under
the age of 18. Its funny tho cause my mom
is a nurse ( rn ) and my sister was
pregnant for her first daughter at 18 and
she hid it threw her whole pregnancy but
we lived in a small town so the ob she
went to see also worked in the hospital
that my mom did. And they came up to my
mom one day at work and was like
congradulations grandma... Hahah and muh
mom was like what the hell !!?!!? He he
... But yeah they have to tell ur
parents..
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 02-08-06 16:49pm
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The law veries from state to state. You
need to look at the laws on your state if
you are worried about being preggers.
You need to talk to your dr while you are
in the room alone with him/her. I really
dont' think that they will allow your dad
in the room during your pap. (my dad
didn't want in there anyway, what dad
would???) so anyway if you are worried
talk to the nurse or the doctor and they
can tell you if you are or arent and then
they will talk to you about talking to
your 'rents' with you there. Just advise
your dr that you want to be around
whenever they tell your rents... Ck the
laws first so you are aware of what route
to take with your doc
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orlylover15
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Re: Can the Doctor Tell On Me?
Posted: 02-08-06 18:25pm
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| teenpreggers
wrote: | | my dad is taking me to the
doctors tomorro morning for my first
papsmere. Tomorro itll be 14 days after
the time that me and my boyfriend had sex
and he busted in me. Which I think is
the time of the conception. Will the
doctor kno if im pregnant tomorow or is it
too early? And if I am. Will she tell
me dad. Im 15 and my friend said since
im under 18 that the doctor can tell my
dad. Is that
true? |
i think he/she couldn't even though ur
under 18 isn't there that doctor/patient
rule?? I'm not sure but u'll have to tell
him smtime neway.
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QueenBee2_3
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Posted: 02-09-06 10:28am
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I take it that you don't plan to tell the
dr you're pregnant either? You really
need to tell the dr, even if she can't
figure it out on her own, so that she can
treat you properly. Whether you want her
to tell your father or not. Your parents
should know so that they can help you make
the best decision for yourself and that
baby. If you decided to terminate, they
still need to know so that they can be
sure it's done the safest possible way by
the best professionals. If you keep the
baby, you'll need to be sure to get
prenatal care for yourself as well as the
health of the baby.
So, that's my long way of saying that it's
a moot point if the dr can tell your
father or not. You should be telling
your father.
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