Alright, i've gone through this one time
already with her and thats because the
condom had slipped off inside of her and I
had rushed to the store with her and we
picked up the "morning after" pill. It
gave her insane side effects and no child.
I was with my gf yesterday and usually
she gets her period around the 4th -- and
she hasn't.. Is there a reason to panic?
I've looked up all the symptoms and she
says she only had 1 about a week and a
half ago (the urination one, although she
says she drank a lot of water) I am going
to have her take a pregnancy test soon and
I really need to know if theres any
options I would have? (without anyone
other than us knowing ex. Parents) I
mean, neither of us are ready for a child
and we somewhat favor abortion, but we are
in love with each other more than
anything. I know its wrong to do that,
but we really can't do it! I know I
shouldn't have had sex with her
unprotected.. (although I never climax)
what are the chances that she is pregnant
and is there anything we could do to
prevent a baby from happening and if you
could please leave details on how to do
that and the cost (need-be) it would be
the best. Ty. -steve (i'm 18 - she's
17)
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Glamorgirli
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Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 193 Location: Michigan
Posted: 02-06-06 16:23pm
Any time you have sex w/her there is a
chance she can get pregnant! Is she on
birth control?
Maybe its just a little late.....I didn't
have a pieriod one month, and I wasn't
preg!
Anything can throw off a menstural cycle,
has she lost weight? Is she under stress?
There are many other things that can
throw it off.
But she could be preg! Its not the worst
thing in the world to come clean with your
parents, they might actually be able to
give you some good advice.
If she is preg, its both of your guys
choice what to do with the baby, make sure
shes totally comfortable with the
abortion, and she should get counsuling
after it!!! An abortion can be extremly
emotional!
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Carifairy
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Posted: 02-06-06 16:27pm
New york does not require parental consent
for an abortion, so you are okay there.
The morning after pill can whack out your
periods a bit, so definately have her take
a test. I actually work in abortion
clinics, and I have had an abortion, so if
you need anything let me know. :)
if you want to know what abortion clincis
are available check out
click on new york.. It will give you
lists of clinics in your area,a nd prices.
They also give free pregnancy tests.
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AmazingSteve
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Joined: 06 Feb 2006 Posts: 19 Location: NY
Posted: 02-06-06 17:13pm
How much do birth control pills cost? And
how can we obtain them?
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AmazingSteve
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Joined: 06 Feb 2006 Posts: 19 Location: NY
Posted: 02-06-06 23:25pm
You had said that the morning after pill
can throw it out of whack? What do you
mean? I'm saying that she took the pill a
number of weeks ago and her last ... You
know.. Time was around the 4th.. Can it
still mess with the times she gets them
even if it was a few weeks ago?
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Glamorgirli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 193 Location: Michigan
Posted: 02-06-06 23:42pm
Some gynos give out free bc! My ob/gyn
gave me seasonal, anough pills to last me
for 9 months all for free! I was
suprised!
The price really depends on the pill you
take, and wither or not her health
insurance pays for it! For ortho lo I
only had to pay $10, cuz my dads insuance
covers it, but I had to pay full price for
it one time because I lost it somewhere
and I had to pay $45!
I think planned parent clinics give it out
for free, but i've never been to one so
i'm not absolutly positive!!
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Carifairy
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Posted: 02-07-06 02:58am
Lets say your period was 2 weeks ago, and
you take the morning after pill now. You
may have some bleeding in a week, and then
not bleed again for another month because
that bleeding was your "period". The
morning after pill does cause bleeding
irregularities.
Planned parenthood sells birth control
from anywhere from say 5$-20$ a pack..
They offer it to teens for free at many
locations.
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AmazingSteve
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Joined: 06 Feb 2006 Posts: 19 Location: NY
Posted: 02-07-06 07:14am
So your saying that even though she took
the pill a while back that it still might
change the times? How do I find out where
planned parenthood clinics are for birth
control? I live in buffalo ny (well a
suburb of it) and price isnt a big deal to
me.. Because when it comes to having a
child or not.. 25 bucks is perfect to me.
What you think the chances of her being
pregnant are?
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AmazingSteve
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Joined: 06 Feb 2006 Posts: 19 Location: NY
Posted: 02-07-06 07:20am
I was wondering, since I am currently not
pregnant and never going to be (i'm male.
Lol.) this question is for all the
females who are pregnant or have been
pregnant - what were the usual symptoms
you had and when did they start/last and
whatnot.. Any really early signs?
Also, what are the symptoms of birth
control? I had talked it over with my
girl and she is still wavy because she
isn't sure of the side effects (i'm going
to assume it's mainly because she doesn't
want the feeling of the 'morning after'
pill everytime she takes a birth control
pill) could any1 give me their personal
response to this topic and this question?
Ty.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 02-07-06 14:47pm
The morning after pill is a very large
dose of hormones indeed, so side effects
are very very common! There are very
low doses of birth control such as nuva
ring, which is the lowest dose of hormones
around, and many many women tolerate it
very well.
this is the official website of planned
aprenthood of buffalo..They tell you how
to qualify for free services etc... Even
if women do not qualify for free services
they still pay a reduced amount.
