oh my gosh... I know exactly what you mean did you have the sono that showed the brain,kidneys etc for down syndrome because I had one also. I was a complete reck the dr std that everything looks good I also had the blood work done everything came back good but there is always that what if I myself cant help but to worry I need to have another sono when I am 18 wks to check the spine I am hoping that everything goes well how far a long are you???

I know what you mean about the worrying... And i'm sure everyone does it. I think all the time, "what if my baby is born with some sort of defect or problem?" it doesn't mean i'd love him/her any less or regret having him/her, just that we all want our children to be as healthy and happy as possible.

I'd imagine it's only natural to worry about those things.

another thing that also bothers me is that I dont know if it is because I wonder about it so much that I had a bad dream about having my baby at 4mths and somehow the baby lived but he had 4 arms and could not sit or anything as he got older he had to be strapped to a chair it really scares me I know it sounds crazy!!(what do you think)

Everyone has freaky baby dreams. I'm at 24 weeks and last week I dreamed that my baby was born at 24 weeks and the baby wasn't going to make it without some kind of donation from my husband but I couldn't find him anywhere. Hmmm come to think of it, never mind, it probably was worry that gave you the freaky preggo dream. Now that I analyze mine, it definitely corresponds with a worry that I have

I haven't had any of the weird dreams yet, but I read (i think somewhere on this forum) that someone dreamed they had puppies. Lol that's a little weird.