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I Feel So Incredibly Sad And Pathetic Posted: 02-09-06 15:07pm
Thought I would give an update and ask for
advice again. Things did go well with my
boyfriend meeting my mom. She loved him,
as I felt that she probably would. He's
very charming. He did, though, call at 8
the morning of the dinner, said his house
had been robbed, and told me he would call
me later to tell me if he could still
come. Half an hour before, he still
hadn't called, so I called him, and he
didn't answer the phone. I called my mom,
told her it would just be the two of us
(was very upset), and got ready to leave.
Anyway, right before I was about to leave,
he showed up. Oh, got to love inadequalte
communication. I went over to his house
for the superbowl on sunday too and
evrything seemed great.
Talked to him on and off this week, but I
think I made a fatal error last night.
Two recently broken up friends of mine
wanted to go out this weekend, but before
I scheduled with them, I wanted to know
what was going on with my m. So I called
him and asked him what was up for the
weekend. He seemed suprised that I would
expect to see him over ther weekend, which
shocked me. If I didn't, it would be over
a week without seeing him without any real
reason for it. The conversation
degenerated into my feeling unloved, him
being non-commital, and my explaning to
him that if I wait to hear from him about
the weekend, I will not be able to make
other plans, and could end up spending the
weekend in the law library. He agreed to
my coming up there friday, but we didn't
agree on a time. I feel like I forced him
to see me. I just have never been with
someone before whom I had to push to get
together. I would see him all the time if
I could, but I don't push that angle. I
just don't understand how he can go over a
week and not even really miss seeing me.
So, I know I was annoying (and probably
pathetic) sounding. The calling issue is
that now I will just feel even more
annoying on friday when I call to tell him
what time I can come.
I am totally aware that I want alot more
contact than he does, but I don't think
that 1-2 nights a week is too much to ask.
In this case, it would only be one night
in a week. That seems sparse to me.
I must be the most anal person alive.
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trishabunny
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Reply Posted: 02-09-06 16:00pm
Hi
ok im not trying to start an arguement
or anyting.
But it seems like hes a bit of a jerk dont
you think? Like if he really cared
about you he would be with you more than
1/2 days a week and he wouldnt act like
its a problem whenever you want to meet up
with him.
And if he really did care about you he
would be there with you spending time with
you and telling you how much he loves you
and how beautiful you are etc. I dont
know you are anything but I honestly I do
think that you could do better than that.
And I think that you deserve better than
that.And dont feel bad its not your fault
hes a jerk. And you will be suprised how
many of those are in the world. But I
think that you should break it off with
him and find somone who cares about you
and shows it
you know what I mean? But ultimatly it is
your choice.But just remember that
happiness is also a choice if you need
anyone to talk to im here
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