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tonii9999
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Joined: 29 Nov 2005
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Location: philly
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Sex Problems
Posted: 02-10-06 13:33pm
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Well last night me and my man had sex in
the middle of sex he just stops and says
my dick cant stay hard now people tell me
thats telling me I dont turn him on am I
right or wrong please tell me what I
should think
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MissShortie
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Posted: 02-10-06 16:09pm
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Did he say why? Sometimes maybe they just
wernt really excited when they started, or
alot of other things could make him just
not hard at that moment, doesnt mean oh he
thought you didnt look good or something,
but you shoulda asked, are you not turned
on, or just not in the mood, whats up?
Maybe all it coulda taken was a sexy pose
or position he could see you in to get his
blood flowin again, you need something to
get you excited! Don't get to crazy over
it, just talk to him, or forget it, and if
everything goes back to normal then cool,
and if the situation happens again, then
ask him on the spot. Hope I could help in
someway.
Best of luck to you, take care. :)
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not perfect
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Posted: 02-11-06 02:49am
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He could've just been tired. I know when
my bf is tired and ready to go to bed and
I jump on him.. He's willing, but he
doesn't stay hard the entire time. I have
to re-excite it so to say. Also, if he
was drinking that affects things as well.
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Greeneyes23
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Posted: 02-13-06 11:19am
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My bf often can't when he is tired, which
dosn't bother me at all.
But last time I stayed over he couldn't on
the mornin. I put it down to him still
been tired.
But we've had problems the last two times
aswel. He couldn't stay hard after he put
a condom on. I thought it might be
because i'm on the pill and his
subconcious is sayin he don't need it. So
we did it without. The next time we did
it we decided to not use a condom again
and he went floppy then aswel! Although
it was fine after a bit it made me feel a
bit rubbish. I'm really concerned the
same will happen next time.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Posted: 02-13-06 13:53pm
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Maybe he was nervous...Or tired...
You should sit down and talk with
him...Maybe he has a problem that he hasnt
yet told you because he is scared...Just
try to have a normal convo and see what
the problem was!
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penelope67
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Posted: 02-14-06 15:50pm
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If it happens again, the key is to try to
act like its nothing out of the ordinary.
Try to make him feel comfortable, because
odds are the reason it happened is because
he was uncomfortable about something
(tired, stressed, a lot on his
mind-whatever the case may be) and that
will just make him feel worse. Just help
him get hard again, and try try again.
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Greeneyes23
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Posted: 02-16-06 12:00pm
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We did talk and at the time he didn't
know. But he thought about it some more
and said to me it's coz he isn't lusting
after me all the time because we've been
going out a while now and he happy just
hugging. What I mean is it isn't all
about sex anymore, coz it so much more.
So i'm all happy bananas now.
It's probably the same problem for tonnii.
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cortney jones
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Posted: 02-16-06 12:22pm
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Im not gonna say that its not because you
dont turn him on because me being a female
myself if my man told me that or if seemed
like thats what the problem is im gonna
automatically feel like he is not feeling
me or attracted to me the way he makes it
seem. There is nothing wrong with you
feeling that way.Of course if you question
him he will say oh baby its not that".
You have to do things sometimes to get
their attention in a sexual way. Talk
dirty to him, let him know that its his.
Make him know its his even if it means you
need to be in control for a while just to
get things jumping. Call out his name
during sex, tell him you love him during
sex. Men love to see and hear emotions in
a female while they are having sex.Thats
real. Ya gurl right here got skills my
man cant get enough. If your not given
him head that may be the problem to. He
may want you to do that so he will tell
you it wont stay hard.Think about it. :)
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 02-16-06 13:03pm
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| greeneyes23
wrote: | we did talk and at the time
he didn't know. But he thought about it
some more and said to me it's coz he isn't
lusting after me all the time because
we've been going out a while now and he
happy just hugging. What I mean is it
isn't all about sex anymore, coz it so
much more. So i'm all happy bananas now.
It's probably the same problem for
tonnii. |
i'm sorry,your different from me but if my
man told me he wasn't hard for that reson
I would be pissed.I love having sex with
my b/f and if we stopped I would not feel
so good.How long have you guys been
together?
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penelope67
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Location: NH
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Posted: 02-20-06 15:08pm
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Cortney-how old are you-are you sure you
should be talking in this forum when you
have no idea what you are talking about?
I dont think you are helping anyone with
their problems. "ya gurl right here got
skills my man cant get enough" ?!?! What
the medical question is that? You must be
on chemical dependancy
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Moo
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Posted: 02-20-06 15:47pm
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"i dont think you are helping anyone with
their problems. "ya gurl right here got
skills my man cant get enough" ?!?!"
i have to agree with this, it's a very
immature response :?
There are many possibilities as to why he
may have gone flacid during sex, have you
spoken to him bout it? If nt, i'm afraid
its the only way you're gng to know fo
sure - we can give you possible easons but
te truth is that not one of us can know
for sure.
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Greeneyes23
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Posted: 02-23-06 08:13am
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We've been going out for 6 months. We
have a really healthy sex life. My drive
just stronger than his. Havn't had any
problems in ages. It's all good. I'm not
worried.
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cortney jones
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Posted: 02-23-06 16:20pm
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Your mother must be on chemical
dependacies if you dont like what I say
dont f***in read itan opinion is an
opinion so goo mess wit someone else you
dont want to get it started whatever your
name penelope thats making me sick
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Posted: 02-23-06 16:24pm
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| moo
wrote: | "i dont think you are
helping anyone with their problems. "ya
gurl right here got skills my man cant get
enough" ?!?!"
i have to agree with this, it's a very
immature response :?
There are many possibilities as to why he
may have gone flacid during sex, have you
spoken to him bout it? If nt, i'm afraid
its the only way you're gng to know fo
sure - we can give you possible easons but
te truth is that not one of us can know
for sure. |
haha read her thread about baby mamma
dramma...Its hilarious and even
worse...She is horrible!
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cortney jones
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Jillian Has a Crush On Me
Posted: 02-23-06 17:18pm
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Why are you on a new post talkin sh** you
must like me do you want to meet me n
person or something stupid. You being
on a different post talking sh** is
halarious what a little gurl thats
immature to and look where you are from
b**** you are trash ill you probaly dirty
too.
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Miko
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Come On Now Ladies
Posted: 02-23-06 17:31pm
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Ok ladies you dont have to be rude to one
another...Everyone has their opinion and
everyone's opinions are appreciated...Back
to the subject...Sometimes guys cant get
as hard when youre using condoms too. I
was on the pill for 5 years and my bf and
I were used to having unprotected sex, but
recently I got off the pill and sometimes
when we use condoms he wont get as hard as
he would when I was on the pill due to the
lack of friction...Another reason could be
that the female is really lubricated and
he cant feel as much friction.
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Re: Come On Now Ladies
Posted: 02-23-06 18:08pm
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| miko
wrote: | | ok ladies you dont have to
be rude to one another...Everyone has
their opinion and everyone's opinions are
appreciated...Back to the
subject...Sometimes guys cant get as hard
when youre using condoms too. I was on
the pill for 5 years and my bf and I were
used to having unprotected sex, but
recently I got off the pill and sometimes
when we use condoms he wont get as hard as
he would when I was on the pill due to the
lack of friction...Another reason could be
that the female is really lubricated and
he cant feel as much
friction. |
i wasnt being rude.. Never once did I
say anything that wasnt true in my
post...So therefore...The truth hurts and
she had to cuss me out...Haha and no
sweetheart I dont like you...I was just
telling them how you were because they
also called you immature and I just wanted
them to see even worse post...Because what
you said in this one was just the
beginning :wink:
oh yeah did you forget that I was through
posting to your skanky butt!
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cortney jones
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Posted: 02-23-06 21:58pm
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You must do like me you cant stop replying
little 18 year old baby with a baby post
that b****. Lol stop hatin on me that
sounds like jealousy cause my life is
better than yours stay n a childs place.
Me n my homie been told your young and
dumb self to quit posting. You dont know
me and I dont know so keep ya mouth shut.
Im through little gurl now continue to say
stuff that just mean you cant help it.
And miko is right everyone has there own
opinion so u know what I respect your
opinon thats all it is anyway you been
rude since I put my post up but I love ur
responses though bye hun.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 02-24-06 10:37am
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| ~*~jillian~*~
wrote: | | moo
wrote: | "i dont think you are
helping anyone with their problems. "ya
gurl right here got skills my man cant get
enough" ?!?!"
i have to agree with this, it's a very
immature response :?
There are many possibilities as to why he
may have gone flacid during sex, have you
spoken to him bout it? If nt, i'm
afraid its the only way you're gng to know
fo sure - we can give you possible easons
but te truth is that not one of us can
know for sure. |
haha read her thread about baby mamma
dramma...Its hilarious and even
worse...She is
horrible! |
ok,that wasn't her whole response smart
one.Kepp your problem with her in the
other post.This person who posted this
thread needs help,not someone to start an
argument.
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cortney jones
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Location: Ft.Lauderdale, florida
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Posted: 02-24-06 11:30am
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Exactly she is such a kid
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