Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Extreeme Stress!! Posted: 02-10-06 14:00pm
Everyday I tell myself that i'm not going
to scream or get riled up and everyday
somebody has something to say to me to
rile me up anyways!! I end up screaming
and then crying because all I want to do
is avoid any situation that involves
getting worked up.
Of course when I start srying..The other
party wants to reconcile and not get me
upset...But guess what..It's too
late....
I got into an altercation this
morning...Bright and early and now it's
been a while since i've felt the baby
move....She's not responding to my
stimulation and just doesn't want to
move....
I've even been drinking cold water to
stimulate her and nothing...I'm just
really terrified that all of my stress has
finally caught up with her!! What if she
has like a heart attack because i'm all
worked up?!?! I know my yelling isn't
physically hurting her ears due to the
vernix built up in them and the fluid
along with the thickness of my
uterus...But i'm just really
concerned!!!
Should I be paranoid...And how to I avoid
situations when I have no support to help
stop these arguments.....My fiance tries
to make others shut up and end the
arguments before I get hyped up..But they
don't listen!!
I need help!!!!!
Sarah
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tigresacanela24
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Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 02-10-06 15:58pm
The same thing happens to me. This is
going to sound really stupid but try a
warm bath (to relax) with bubbles and
candles. Don't think about the baby
moving until you've settled down some.
After that see if she moves. If not try
a little bit of coke. If the baby still
isn't moving call the doc.
She could just be resting/sleeping
herself. How far along are you? I
don't remember.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 02-10-06 18:13pm
Well I called the Dr. After trying to
relax for a couple of hours....
They told me to drink some coke and that
the little one would be just fine...
I ate lunch and waited and waited and she
kicked me a couple of times...But nothing
to be excited about...Ya know??
I'm 29 weeks preggy and she normally
answers to my stimulation...So this is
kind of weird...I didn't drink any
coke...She'll be fine I guess.
Like you said..She's prob. Just
relaxing...I think that in this time
during pregnancy threy don't move as much
as they normally do....Or at least thats
what the week by week thing pointed
out...Hopefully it's just my paranoia...
I wouldn't be so paranoid if people
wouldn't instigate petty arguments!! Like
nobody gives 2 shlts that i'm carrying
another human being inside of me!!
Oh I totally understand you...Normally I
am not so easily worked up but my dog was
being bad today and wasn't listening and
so I was like screaming at her to get down
the stairs and she was growling and
snarling at me (lol she's from an abused
home, so she doesn't like being in
threatening situations) which just ended
up making me madder...Gah! I am 36 weeks
today and I dunno just with the last
couple days i've been getting really
stressed easily. I've been stressed this
whole pregnancy with issues due to the
father but normally when I am on my own I
am fine...Then I totally freaked myself
out that I was hurting the baby :( she
didn't really move for a while, she's
getting so big I can prod her now and
usually make her move (hehe it's so cute)
that was about half an hour ago and she is
just starting to move around a bit...I
just don't know how to keep my cool :( and
I am not normally a screamer...Especially
to a dog...Not to mention my abused
dog...Cause I know that will get me no
where with her (lol she didn't end up
going downstairs she went and hid under a
sofa finally). Blah it just makes me more
stressed and worried thinking about it
hurting the baby...It's a vicious cycle...
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 02-10-06 22:49pm
Babymagic0506 just realize that when you
are pregnant that your hormones can caause
you to be more out of control. If you do
not have to be around those people that
are upsetting you then don't be, ignore
them, shine them on, go to the other room
if you can, they obviously haave nooo
respect for you for the way they are
treating you while you are pregnant!
Kimmeh, don't hurt your dog or your baby,
just remember, it is the hormones kicking
your butt!
I'd never hurt my dog or my baby...Lol I
didn't hit my dog I was just yelling at
her and getting really stressed out
because she wasn't listening and she knows
better.
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Kimmeh Posted: 02-11-06 00:03am
I hear ya! I am just an animal lover!
I also realize what stress can do to you
and the bundle of joy! I think my
animals have me trained(lol).
The best to you and yours!
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 02-11-06 09:07am
Babymajic0506 u feeling better today??
And when the doc says to have a coke, if
you don't want to have coke, have
something very sweet---popsicle,
chocolate, something and it's to get your
bean up and moving again.
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tigresacanela24
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Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 02-11-06 11:37am
I feel you completely about the dog thing.
I have never had so much trouble with my
dogs as i'm having now. They're my
babies but it seems like they know
something is up cuz they don't want to
listen to me. This morning I really
screamed at my dogs which is so not me and
then they ran and hid and I felt like such
a loser. It's getting harder and harder
for me to take care of them tho, I may
have to give them to a relative to keep
until after I have the m&m, they're
destroying my house (eating furniture,
pottying on the floor, tearing up trash)
and I can't really clean up behind them
too well because of the issues i'm having.
I have to wait for someone to come and
help me. They know better but they've
been psyco lately. I don't want to take
any chances that they'll be jealous of the
m&m and hurt him.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 02-11-06 12:30pm
My dr told me to have a glas of wine when
I was at a point of no return which was
once, im not going to lie but it did
wonders and it helped me cope with what
was to come cause I was able to relax that
one night. Alot of people dont believe
in it but talk to ur dr get his input on
it or if there something else you can
try......Dont think about baby moving
drink a coke (have chocolate/apple/orange
juice and just sit down ull feel the lil
been just be mellow!!
Take care!
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tigresacanela24
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Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 02-11-06 14:16pm
Yeah it seems like the more you stress the
less they move, then you stress about
that, it's a vicious cycle. Sorry i'm so
blah today, I feel evil. :evil:
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 02-12-06 18:59pm
Hey guys...I'm good now..I've had a talk
with the person who seems to irritate me
the most. My dogs don't seem to want to
listen to me either!! Lol...Normally they
are the most obideient (sp?) dogs in the
world....But now they won't listen to save
my life....I don't get overwhelmed by them
though...I just whip them....Anyways....
I got to take a trip yesterday to angola
prison so see my brother in law and it
took a lot of stress off of my mind...
After going to angola I got to go to my
godchild's 1st birthday party....It really
helped!
I made a pact with my unborn baby that I
would never yell or should I say get wound
up again!!
It seems sometimes that she's the only one
on my side...The day I got upset she
wasn't moving much...But yesterday..She
wouldn't stop!! Lol...All day long she
was kicking,puncking, and flipping. It
was sooo reassuring to feel her all day
long!! Today is the same...Normally she's
pretty predictible....But she's been
breaking the cycle!! Lol...
Thanks for all yalls concerns and
suggestions!!! They really helped as
well!!!
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