Depressed And Want Out Or Hormones?? Posted: 02-10-06 14:28pm
I have a question I could really do some
help with! My husband to be has wind me
up so much I cant stand him any longer.
When I eventually found out I was pregnant
they told me to take it easy as I had
experienced alot of pain. But I couldnt
rest coz he moaned about everything he
didnt want to do nothing. He constantly
raises his voice at my daughter which is
now gettin to me and he just acts like an
old man always whining. I thought this
was posed to be a great experience. Now
the baby is constantly kicking he wants us
to bond again but I cant I vant bear him
touchin me as I feel like u couldnt be
arsed to help me in the beginning when I
was told to rest and now things are
happening he wants to knnow.
When im around him all I can do is cry and
all he can do is get snooty with me and
ive had enough. When im with other people
im my happy self.
Is this hormones or has he gone to far?
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tigresacanela24
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 02-10-06 15:51pm
I'm not sure seems like a lot of us are
having issues w/men and depression right
now. I'm starting to think that they're
the ones who got the hormone imbalance
initially, acted like buttholes and made
us depressed. Maybe it's that couvade
syndrome I read about making them act that
way.... Anyhoo, I don't think you're
overreacting. He sounded pretty self
absorbed at first and at a time when
you're the one who needs help, that's just
inexcusable. If he's okay now, i'd
advise you to try to bond with him the
best you can bcos you won't be pregnant
forever. Who knows, one day he may be
your world again!
