What Happens to My Soul .... Posted: 02-11-06 20:26pm
My dad I never met ... I live in a small
town .. Should say lived ... My mom
just commited suicide about 6 months ago
... I lived with my neighbor for a while
.. But he has kids .. And is divorced
and their mom is a psycho .. So I moved
in with this guy ... We started sleeping
together and now I am pregnant ... He
wants me to have an abortion or move out
.... I have no where to go ... What do
I do ?
My dad I never met ... I live in a small
town .. Should say lived ... My mom
just commited suicide about 6 months ago
... I lived with my neighbor for a while
.. But he has kids .. And is divorced
and their mom is a psycho .. So I moved
in with this guy ... We started sleeping
together and now I am pregnant ... He
wants me to have an abortion or move out
.... I have no where to go ... What do
I do ?
The last thing I want to hear is some
cristian telling me not to kill my baby
... Its ok for them theve got houses and
places to live .. Not they would open
their doors to me .. Hipocrites ..I
seriously want to die ... I see no way
out ...
Wish some one would help me ..... I cant
goto foster care and have the baby coz
then I will not b able to finish school
so if I decide to kill myself ... What
happens to me .. Waht happens to my
unborn child ... And what happens to all
you selfish hipocrite mother!Edit who wont
lend a christian hand .. ????
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 02-11-06 22:34pm
Okay first off ..You need to calm down and
not be thinking about suicide I know that
life might seem hard sometimes..But your
not the only one ...When I was 17 my
parents both got killed in a wreck ...And
the night they were buried I found out I
was pregnant ..Scared and shocked ..I
still never thought of abortion..Because
that baby deserved a life just like I
did...My point is I know things get rough
sometimes but we just have to think
positive and try to keep our heads up and
be strong..I know that right now you are
at your weakest and things seem very
messed up ..Which they are but I promise
you things will only get better...Just
give them time...Maybe you should talk
with a doctor and they can get you headed
in the right direction with things...Or if
maybe you just need someone to talk to
..Im here to listen and give you the best
advice and help that you need with your
problem...
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backhome22
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2005 Posts: 195 Location: MN
Posted: 02-12-06 18:36pm
It seems like you absolutely hate
christians, and I know this would be hard,
but have you thought of going to a church
or speaking with a pastor to see if
someone in the congregation would take you
in? I know there are a lot of
hypocritical people out there, but there
are some people who have a heart and would
be willing to help you. May I ask where
you're from?
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jimmyjackers
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006 Posts: 270
Re: What Happens to My Soul .... Posted: 02-17-06 18:49pm
i wanna die
wrote:
my dad I never met ... I
live in a small town .. Should say
lived ... My mom just commited suicide
about 6 months ago ... I lived with my
neighbor for a while .. But he has kids
.. And is divorced and their mom is a
psycho .. So I moved in with this guy
... We started sleeping together and
now I am pregnant ... He wants me to
have an abortion or move out .... I
have no where to go ... What do I do
?
My dad I never met ... I live in a
small town .. Should say lived ...
My mom just commited suicide about 6
months ago ... I lived with my neighbor
for a while .. But he has kids ..
And is divorced and their mom is a psycho
.. So I moved in with this guy ...
We started sleeping together and now I am
pregnant ... He wants me to have an
abortion or move out .... I have no
where to go ... What do I do ?
The last thing I want to hear is some
cristian telling me not to kill my baby
... Its ok for them theve got houses
and places to live .. Not they would
open their doors to me .. Hipocrites
..I seriously want to die ... I see no
way out ...
Wish some one would help me ..... I
cant goto foster care and have the baby
coz then I will not b able to finish
school
so if I decide to kill myself ... What
happens to me .. Waht happens to my
unborn child ... And what happens to
all you selfish hipocrite mother!Edit who
wont lend a christian hand ..
????
suicide will mean an instant one way
ticket to hell.
Killing your child is not an option do not
even contemplate it, look to the future
with hope, women are suppose to be
independent these days, so i'm sure you
will cope.
If you imagine and work to a positive
future it will happen, if you think
negatively, negativity will follow you.
Think like this: you have a challenge; the
challenge is to go forward with hope and
happiness, be happy that you are pregnant
and understand that you have company, you
will never regret giving birth, no one
ever regrets giving birth, people only
regret abortions, and abortions cannot be
undone.
So:
be happy, right now I command you to be
happy.
Talk to your child in the womb.
Make plans to succeed and don't stop until
you become successful.
Everyone has to overcome challenges, do
not turn away from your challenges,
confront them and think positively always.
Remember, many people have been in your
situation and have much harder
circumstances.
So, good luck and god bless.
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lsipes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 325
Posted: 02-17-06 22:17pm
Quote:
suicide will mean
an instant one way ticket to hell.
and you call yourself a christian, eh?
No wonder I abandoned religion...
Quote:
killing your
child is not an option do not even
contemplate
it,
way to give unbiased advise. Sorry to
inform you that it i.S. An option!
Kudos to you.
Quote:
you will never
regret giving birth, no one ever regrets
giving birth, people only regret
abortions, and abortions cannot be undone.
that is so far from the truth and so
unfounded. I know of many people that
regret givin birth. Yes, some of them
keep on keepin' on, but the others are the
ones your hear about throwing their
newborns into dumpsters.
Quote:
be happy, right
now I command you to be happy.
yes, sir... Almighty one.
Quote:
everyone has to
overcome challenges, do not turn away from
your challenges, confront them and think
positively always.
this is the only thing i've ever agreed
with as far as what you've posted.
Unfortunately for you, different people
"confront" their challenges in different
ways.
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Guest Posted: 02-17-06 22:44pm
1st place I am deeply sorry for the loss
of your mom! #2 never let a guy tell you
what to do with your body and life.
Their is help out their for females in
your situation whether you chose to adopt
your unborn baby out, keep the baby or
abort it is your choice and yours alone.
You do not want to die, you just need a
little help, you are too young. Check
out social services, mental health(please
do not take me wrong, I am not trying to
tell you that you are crazy, we all need a
little help sometime in our lives) they
will lead you in the right direction.
Help is there. You do not have to be
religious. Their are a lot of females in
your situation, you are not alone!
The bestto you!
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jimmyjackers
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006 Posts: 270
Posted: 02-17-06 23:47pm
lsipes
wrote:
and you call yourself a christian, eh?
No wonder I abandoned
religion...
no, I didn’t call myself anything.
lsipes
wrote:
way to give unbiased advise. Sorry to
inform you that it i.S. An option!
Kudos to you.
only as biased as your own advice.
lsipes
wrote:
that is so far from the truth and so
unfounded. I know of many people that
regret givin birth. Yes, some of them
keep on keepin' on, but the others are the
ones your hear about throwing their
newborns into
dumpsters.
show me a single testimony of a person who
has regretted giving birth and I will show
you ten testimonies of those that regret
their abortion.
lsipes
wrote:
yes, sir... Almighty
one.
yes sir will suffice.
lsipes
wrote:
this is the only thing i've
ever agreed with as far as what you've
posted. Unfortunately for you,
different people "confront" their
challenges in different
ways.
not true! Hitler dealt with his
challenges the same way you deal with
yours.
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jimmyjackers
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006 Posts: 270
Re: Guest Posted: 02-17-06 23:50pm
sandyallen
wrote:
never let a guy tell you
what to do with your body and
life.
too late, i've told her.
Now i'm telling you: stop being sexist.
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lsipes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 325
Posted: 02-18-06 00:06am
I'm sorry to inform you that my advise is
far from biased. I offer neutral advise
and share experiences. That's about it.
I don't attempt to sway anyone in their
decisions, nor do I tell them that they're
going to hell or anything of the sort if
they choose one way or the other. I try
to help them and support them. You
should take a look at any and all of my
past posts. It won't take very long. I
haven't been here that long. You will
see that what you said is insanely
judgemental and not at all true.
Your advice, however, has proven to be
extremely biased and far too influenced by
your own personal beliefs. Just because
you believe one way, doesn't mean everyone
does. And it's impossible to offer
effective solutions or help to someone
when you're trying to beat something into
their head that they obviously haven't
welcomed.
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jimmyjackers
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006 Posts: 270
Posted: 02-18-06 00:46am
lsipes
wrote:
i'm sorry to inform you that
my advise is far from biased.
then why do you assume your advice is
better then mine?
lsipes
wrote:
I offer neutral advise and
share experiences.
well, I offer positive advice.
lsipes
wrote:
that's about it. I don't
attempt to sway anyone in their decisions,
you are attempting to sway mine.
lsipes
wrote:
nor do I tell them that
they're going to hell or anything of the
sort if they choose one way or the other.
I try to help them and support them.
good for you, but I choose to tell people
that they will go to hell if they choose
one way or another.
I may just have saved her from an eternity
in hell, and that is quite an achievement.
lsipes
wrote:
you should take a look at
any and all of my past posts. It won't
take very long. I haven't been here that
long. You will see that what you said is
insanely judgemental and not at all true.
well, you have just judged me, so you are
a hypocrite.
lsipes
wrote:
your advice, however, has
proven to be extremely biased and far too
influenced by your own personal beliefs.
how else am I supposed to offer advice? I
sure as hell can’t base it on your
beliefs can i?
lsipes
wrote:
just because you believe one
way, doesn't mean everyone does.
i have never said they do.
lsipes
wrote:
and it's impossible to
offer effective solutions or help to
someone when you're trying to beat
something into their head
where have I beaten anyone around the
head? This is an internet forum, what you
accuse me of is impossible to do.
lsipes
wrote:
they obviously haven't
welcomed
where does it say that my advice is not
welcome, and how would I know this unless
first giving the advice?
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lsipes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 325
Posted: 02-18-06 00:51am
You obviously haven't really thought about
anything i've said. Only come up with
snotty retorts that have absolutely no
proactive value. Maybe when I have more
energy i'll reply in depth.
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curious_girl82
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 89 Location: new mexico
Posted: 02-18-06 01:10am
All I have to say is this guy is really
starting to piss me off with his god mumbo
jumbo!!! Does he realize he is very much
a hateful person to be telling people they
are going to his so called "hell"... Damn
christians(or whatever)he is just like
most of em, a hypocrite!!, this is why I
am grateful I can think for
myself....Jimmy, you really have got some
learning to do my friend...You are so
beyond brainwashed it almost hurts...And
holy hell if it is not irratating!!!!
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lsipes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 325
Posted: 02-18-06 01:11am
Forget it. I've got laundry in the wash.
I'll attempt to form my thoughts into
words this late at night. You'll have to
let me know how successful I am.
Quote:
then why do you
assume your advice is better then mine?
where have I insinuated that my advice is
"better"? I only said that I try to be
as unbiased as possible without involving
my own *personal* beliefs because I know
that what I feel is best for me, is not
what's best for all.
Quote:
well, I offer
positive
advice.
i don't feel that your advice is positive.
Of course, that's just my opinion.
Damning other people to hell when that
isn't your job is not positive. Neither
are scare tactics in any form.
Quote:
you are
attempting to sway mine.
how have i, in any way attempted to sway
your opinion? If you can constructive
tell me how this is so, I may own up to
it. I personally don't see it.
Quote:
good for you, but
I choose to tell people that they will go
to hell if they choose one way or another.
I may just have saved her from an eternity
in hell, and that is quite an achievement.
you saying that she will go to hell if she
commits suicide obviously leads one to
believe that you believe in the one
"almighty god". So I feel this is
completely relevant:
1corinthians 4:5
"therefore do not go on passing judgment
before "the time, but wait until the lord
comes who wil both bring to light the
things hidden in the darkness and disclose
the motives of men's hearts; and then each
man's praise will come to him from
god"...
You have no right to tell someone whether
or not they will go to hell. That is up
to y-o-u-r .God
Quote:
well, you have
just judged me, so you are a
hypocrite.
i don't feel that i've necessarily judged
you. I think I made an observation. If
that makes me a hypocrite, then so be
it.
Quote:
how else am I
supposed to offer advice? I sure as hell
can’t base it on your beliefs can i?
there is always the option of offering
advice that has nothing to do with
*anyone's* beliefs, and just be supportive
of someone who's obviously in a very bad
place and in need of comfort.
Quote:
where does it say
that my advice is not welcome, and how
would I know this unless first giving the
advice?
i didn't really say that your advice
wasn't welcomed. I said that you beating
your beliefs into her head (it was a
figure of speech, btw) wasn't welcomed.
The original poster said, and I quote,
"the last thing I want is a christian
telling me not to kill my baby". And
that's exactly what you did. Which you
have every right to do since this is a
public forum and everything goes. But
you could offer your opinion in a more
respectful manner.
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lsipes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 325
Posted: 02-18-06 01:15am
Quote:
you obviously
don't have any real beliefs of your own,
so you might as well use isipes.
lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm
seriously sitting here laughing my edit
off!! I almost shot coffee out my
nose!! I think you and I could be very
good friends. Lol
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lsipes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 325
Posted: 02-18-06 01:16am
curious_girl82
wrote:
all I have to say is this
guy is really starting to piss me off with
his god mumbo jumbo!!! Does he realize
he is very much a hateful person to be
telling people they are going to his so
called "hell"... Damn christians(or
whatever)he is just like most of em, a
hypocrite!!, this is why I am grateful I
can think for myself....Jimmy, you really
have got some learning to do my
friend...You are so beyond brainwashed it
almost hurts...And holy hell if it is not
irratating!!!!
he is the product of organized religion,
love. =)
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jimmyjackers
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006 Posts: 270
Posted: 02-18-06 01:27am
lsipes
wrote:
you obviously haven't really
thought about anything i've said. Only
come up with snotty retorts that have
absolutely no proactive value. Maybe
when I have more energy i'll reply in
depth.
no, just reply when you have something
worth saying.
I don't expect a reply for a long-time.
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jimmyjackers
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006 Posts: 270
Posted: 02-18-06 01:28am
lsipes
wrote:
he is the product of organized religion,
love. =)
millions of homicidal mums is the result
of a lack of organised religion.
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curious_girl82
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 89 Location: new mexico
Posted: 02-18-06 01:32am
lsipes
wrote:
curious_girl82
wrote:
all I have to say is this
guy is really starting to piss me off with
his god mumbo jumbo!!! Does he realize
he is very much a hateful person to be
telling people they are going to his so
called "hell"... Damn christians(or
whatever)he is just like most of em, a
hypocrite!!, this is why I am grateful I
can think for myself....Jimmy, you really
have got some learning to do my
friend...You are so beyond brainwashed it
almost hurts...And holy hell if it is not
irratating!!!!
he is the product of organized religion,
love. =)
he is, and it is very unfortunate....
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lsipes
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jan 2006 Posts: 325
Posted: 02-18-06 01:32am
jimmyjackers
wrote:
lsipes
wrote:
you obviously haven't really
thought about anything i've said. Only
come up with snotty retorts that have
absolutely no proactive value. Maybe
when I have more energy i'll reply in
depth.
no, just reply when you have something
worth saying.
I don't expect a reply for a
long-time.
hahahahahahhahaahaaaaa...................
Hahahahahhahahhahahahhaaa!!!!!!!!!! Ok.
You got me. I have nothing valuable to
say. You're right. You are the
messiah. (in your own world)
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jimmyjackers
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2006 Posts: 270
Posted: 02-18-06 01:36am
lsipes
wrote:
Quote:
you obviously
don't have any real beliefs of your own,
so you might as well use isipes.
lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm
seriously sitting here laughing my a.S.S
off!! I almost shot coffee out my
nose!! I think you and I could be very
good friends.
Lol
yes, laugh because abortion is funny isn't
it?
So you have sex for fun.
You have abortions for convenience.
Then go to abortion forums to laugh at the
whole situation.
