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backhome22
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Curious Girl...
Posted: 02-12-06 13:48pm
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I would like to know your reasons to why
you believe a person who is raped and puts
the baby up for adoption is "a sick
individual", as you posted earlier.
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curious_girl82
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Posted: 02-12-06 18:02pm
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Holy s**t, did I say that? I cant find
where it was posted, but I believe I may
have worded my thoughts wrong. I
apologize if anyone was offended. :) as
of right now, I admit I am stuck..... I
will get back to you on that, maybe. And
no, I do not think if you are raped and
get pregnant and then put the child up for
adoption makes you a sick person.. That
would be a very intense decision to
make....
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backhome22
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Posted: 02-12-06 18:31pm
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It's posted under "women's rights 2", the
18th post down.
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Posted: 02-12-06 18:50pm
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I do not think it is sick at all to put a
baby up for adoption. But being forced to
put a rapists baby up for adoption (if
abortion is illegal) would be very very
sick.
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curious_girl82
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Posted: 02-12-06 23:51pm
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Ah ha! I found it. I was saying
basically, for people who tell a woman
(who has been impregnated by a man who has
raped her) that it would be wrong to get
an abortion, are sick.. Not the woman
herself,even if she chooses to carry
through with the pregnancy.
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backhome22
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Re: Curious Girl...
Posted: 02-15-06 21:49pm
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| bahahahahahaha123
wrote: | | backhome22
wrote: | | i would like to know your
reasons to why you believe a person who is
raped and puts the baby up for adoption is
"a sick individual", as you posted
earlier. |
you do realize that rapists have rights to
the child born, right? So if he
refuses to give his consent to adoption,
what then? She can give him the child
to raise and then be forced to pay child
support for it. You anti choicers are
edit. |
no way!!! They do?? I think rapists
should die already... And now they have
rights to a child they made out of hate
and greed and power-lust, a baby made
while harming the mother!?
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Re: Curious Girl...
Posted: 02-16-06 16:59pm
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| bahahahahahaha123
wrote: | | eiri
wrote: | | no way!!! They do?? I
think rapists should die already... And
now they have rights to a child they made
out of hate and greed and power-lust, a
baby made while harming the
mother!? |
yup. Just because they rape women
doesn't make them bad
fathers. |
please if i've read this wrong but are you
saying that men who rape can be good dads?
How can they be good dads when they think
it's ok to rape? Any man who thinks that
can not bring up children to be loving
caring adults are mad!!!! Men who rape
have no respect for women full stop!! So
they will show there sons it's ok to
disrespect women and their daughters that
it's ok for men to hurt and use you.
If my rapist thought that he had a right
to tell me what to do with the child he
left inside me then he is an ass as much
as anyone who thinks he has a right!!!!
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Posted: 02-16-06 22:01pm
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I actually read something a while ago
about this. In a nutshell, it said that
any woman that became pregnant as result
of a rape, had to put an ad in the paper
stating her desire to have an abortion and
wait to see if the rapist/father replied
within a certain time. If no response,
she was "allowed" to abort. incredibly
ridiculous. It isn't a law, but it was
being considered.
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Re: Curious Girl...
Posted: 02-16-06 23:24pm
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| sadness
wrote: | | bahahahahahaha123
wrote: | | eiri
wrote: | | no way!!! They do??
I think rapists should die already...
And now they have rights to a child they
made out of hate and greed and power-lust,
a baby made while harming the
mother!? |
yup. Just because they rape women
doesn't make them bad
fathers. |
please if i've read this wrong but are you
saying that men who rape can be good dads?
How can they be good dads when they
think it's ok to rape? Any man who
thinks that can not bring up children to
be loving caring adults are mad!!!! Men
who rape have no respect for women full
stop!! So they will show there sons it's
ok to disrespect women and their daughters
that it's ok for men to hurt and use
you.
If my rapist thought that he had a right
to tell me what to do with the child he
left inside me then he is an ass as much
as anyone who thinks he has a
right!!!! |
no, she was being sarcastic actually. It
doesn't come off over the net very well,
but i've been here long enough to know her
sense of sarcasm.
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sadness
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Posted: 02-17-06 06:50am
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Ok curious girl
i just get mad when people say that a
rapist has rights to tell me if I
terminate his baby. When you've been
raped the last thing you need is to have
to face the b*****d again and ask him if
he minds you terminating his child!!!!
It's a joke to think they have a right!!!
They don't think of you when they are
hurting you at that moment so why should
we think about them when we have to face
again what they have done to us. It's
taken me nearly 2 yrs to be able to go out
without being scared I will see him again.
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sadness
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Re: Curious Girl...
Posted: 02-17-06 06:58am
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| bahahahahahaha123
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| sadness
wrote: | | if my rapist thought that he
had a right to tell me what to do with the
child he left inside me then he is an ass
as much as anyone who thinks he has a
right!!!! |
regardless, he has parental rights. You
can't take them away because you don't
like him. |
how does he have parental rights? He had
no right to be asked if I should terminate
or not!!! He took my soul from me the day
he raped me!! I would love for him to
come to me and tell me I had no right to
terminate the child!!! I would terminate
him too
i have one question for you
bahahahahahaha123:
if you was raped and then found out you
was carrying his child would you ask him
if you could terminate it?
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Posted: 02-17-06 08:54am
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Sorry if seemed like I was personnally
attacking you but I get really upset about
this
hope we can be ok
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Posted: 02-17-06 10:53am
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| skar
wrote: | | sadness
wrote: | sorry if seemed like I was
personnally attacking you but I get really
upset about this
hope we can be ok |
sadness don,t worry hun in our country the
rapist has no parental right he is done
for a sex offence therfore he would be
classe4d as a moral danger in our family
courts :wink: |
your country being... Not america I
assume? Are you one of the women from
britan? :) I definately don't think that
law should be on the boks in america, it's
sickening.
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Posted: 02-17-06 10:57am
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The trouble is when people talk about a
"rapist" and getting pregnant from rape,
they have in mind a stranger in an alley,
or a woman being attacked. But a lot of
women who are raped, it's by men they are
in a relationship with, or even their
husbands. That's what happened to a
friend of mine when she was a teenager.
They started having sex, doing either
pull-out or using condoms, and one day he
just said he wanted to do it without one,
and not pull-out, and he just held her
down. She got pregnant. That was rape,
even if she didn't go to the police or
whatever, but after that she had an
abortion and never spoke to him again.
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Posted: 02-17-06 11:07am
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Something like 90% of rapes are done to
women (or men) by people they already
know. It doesn't make it any less rape,
and it doesn't give the man any more
rights to the life of that child, just
because he happens to be dating the woman
he raped. From the sound of your post,
you agree with me.
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No Tolerance
Posted: 02-17-06 15:34pm
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Personally you guys, I have no tolerance
whatever for any man who can easily rape a
woman...Same goes for molesters and so
fourth...Those are sick editand do not
have a god damn right to anything as far
as I am concerned, much less to father a
child....No a rapist does not have any say
so to his victims unborn child...The
editneed to be put away..Or how about line
em all up and give em a taste of their own
incredibly medicine? And if it is
rape/molesting by a friend or family
member, well, same goes for
them>>>line em up!
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Re: No Tolerance
Posted: 02-17-06 15:42pm
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| curious_girl82
wrote: | | personally you guys, I have
no tolerance whatever for any man who can
easily rape a woman...Same goes for
molesters and so fourth...Those are sick
edit and do not have a god damn right to
anything as far as I am concerned, much
less to father a child....No a rapist does
not have any say so to his victims unborn
child...The edit need to be put away..Or
how about line em all up and give em a
taste of their own incredibly medicine?
And if it is rape/molesting by a friend or
family member, well, same goes for
them>>>line em
up! |
well, despite the fact that I agree with
you, it doesn't change the fact that the
law is on the books of a few states.
Even you stead-fast pro-lifers can agree
that a rapist should never have any say in
what the woman does with her body and the
fetus?
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curious_girl82
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Posted: 02-17-06 15:53pm
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It is disgusting and sickening what people
can get away with... That editmakes my
heart hurt and my skin crawl....
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