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sunshine424

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Re: Curious Girl...
Posted: 02-19-06 08:59am

bahahahahahaha123 wrote:
sunshine424 wrote:
and your an fool. Go to bed.


how are the death control pills going, christian?


sunshine424 wrote:
find me proof that the majority of rapists are allowed to see "their" babies. I highly doubt that inspector gadget.


did I say a certain number or "majority" are given rights? No? Dipshit. Go back to tell your child how god didn't make your tits good enough to feed it.


is there a particular reason you are obsessed with my "tits"?
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Posted: 02-19-06 09:02am

[quote="sadness"]
jimmyjackers wrote:
curious_girl82 wrote:
look you edit
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!! Why dont you go tell that to some poor little 13 year old girl who has been raped...Raped by her uncle..??...Or her father perhaps...?? You bug man!!



jimmyjackers wrote:
because millions upon millions of infants are killed due to abortion


for starters they are not infants. An infant is a child over 1 yrs old.

jimmyjackers wrote:
to justify all these deaths because of one or two, is an insane justification.


one or two!!! Women get raped ever day and who's to say they don't all get pregnant? No women who has been raped should not be given the chose of terminating the pregnancy.

I am fed up with the small minded people on here who can't see a bigger picture than women aborting a pregnacy!!!!

Rape victims have to live a life of hell after, why should we have to bring up an evil mans child? I knew that I would never be able to love that child or even treat it good so I did it for the child just as much as for myself. I could of given it up for adoption but then I think it's not nice or right to give the child away and then when they look for you, you have to tell them there dad is a rapist.
Maybe in your eyes i'm just selfish but I had my childs interests in mind and I did the right thing!!!


an infant is not a child over one year old.
Infant:
a child in the earliest part of life, especially before he/she can walk.
Newly begun or formed.
A person under the legal age of majority, a minor.

Based on this definition, there could be many interpretations of the word "infant".

Http://www.Thefreedictio nary.Com/infant
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lsipes

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Posted: 02-19-06 22:25pm

[quote="sunshine424"]
sadness wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
curious_girl82 wrote:
look you edit
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!! Why dont you go tell that to some poor little 13 year old girl who has been raped...Raped by her uncle..??...Or her father perhaps...?? You bug man!!



jimmyjackers wrote:
because millions upon millions of infants are killed due to abortion


for starters they are not infants. An infant is a child over 1 yrs old.

jimmyjackers wrote:
to justify all these deaths because of one or two, is an insane justification.


one or two!!! Women get raped ever day and who's to say they don't all get pregnant? No women who has been raped should not be given the chose of terminating the pregnancy.

I am fed up with the small minded people on here who can't see a bigger picture than women aborting a pregnacy!!!!

Rape victims have to live a life of hell after, why should we have to bring up an evil mans child? I knew that I would never be able to love that child or even treat it good so I did it for the child just as much as for myself. I could of given it up for adoption but then I think it's not nice or right to give the child away and then when they look for you, you have to tell them there dad is a rapist.
Maybe in your eyes i'm just selfish but I had my childs interests in mind and I did the right thing!!!


an infant is not a child over one year old.

Infant:
a child in the earliest part of life, especially before he/she can walk.

Newly begun or formed.

A person under the legal age of majority, a minor.


Based on this definition, there could be many interpretations of the word "infant".


Http://www.Thefreedictio nary.Com/infant


either way, the point is that it isn't "infants" that are aborted.
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sadness

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Posted: 02-20-06 07:49am

[quote="lsipes"]
sunshine424 wrote:
sadness wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
curious_girl82 wrote:
look you edit
\
!! Why dont you go tell that to some poor little 13 year old girl who has been raped...Raped by her uncle..??...Or her father perhaps...?? You bug man!!



jimmyjackers wrote:
because millions upon millions of infants are killed due to abortion


for starters they are not infants. An infant is a child over 1 yrs old.

jimmyjackers wrote:
to justify all these deaths because of one or two, is an insane justification.



one or two!!! Women get raped ever day and who's to say they don't all get pregnant? No women who has been raped should not be given the chose of terminating the pregnancy.

I am fed up with the small minded people on here who can't see a bigger picture than women aborting a pregnacy!!!!

Rape victims have to live a life of hell after, why should we have to bring up an evil mans child? I knew that I would never be able to love that child or even treat it good so I did it for the child just as much as for myself. I could of given it up for adoption but then I think it's not nice or right to give the child away and then when they look for you, you have to tell them there dad is a rapist.
Maybe in your eyes i'm just selfish but I had my childs interests in mind and I did the right thing!!!


an infant is not a child over one year old.


Infant:
a child in the earliest part of life, especially before he/she can walk.


Newly begun or formed.


A person under the legal age of majority, a minor.



Based on this definition, there could be many interpretations of the word "infant".



Http://www.Thefreedictio nary.Com/infant


either way, the point is that it isn't "infants" that are aborted.


thank you isipes for seeing my point
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sunshine424

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Posted: 02-20-06 08:54am

[quote="sadness"]
lsipes wrote:
sunshine424 wrote:
sadness wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
curious_girl82 wrote:
look you edit
\
!! Why dont you go tell that to some poor little 13 year old girl who has been raped...Raped by her uncle..??...Or her father perhaps...?? You bug man!!



jimmyjackers wrote:
because millions upon millions of infants are killed due to abortion


for starters they are not infants. An infant is a child over 1 yrs old.

jimmyjackers wrote:
to justify all these deaths because of one or two, is an insane justification.



one or two!!! Women get raped ever day and who's to say they don't all get pregnant? No women who has been raped should not be given the chose of terminating the pregnancy.

I am fed up with the small minded people on here who can't see a bigger picture than women aborting a pregnacy!!!!

Rape victims have to live a life of hell after, why should we have to bring up an evil mans child? I knew that I would never be able to love that child or even treat it good so I did it for the child just as much as for myself. I could of given it up for adoption but then I think it's not nice or right to give the child away and then when they look for you, you have to tell them there dad is a rapist.
Maybe in your eyes i'm just selfish but I had my childs interests in mind and I did the right thing!!!


an infant is not a child over one year old.



Infant:
a child in the earliest part of life, especially before he/she can walk.



Newly begun or formed.



A person under the legal age of majority, a minor.




Based on this definition, there could be many interpretations of the word "infant".




Http://www.Thefreedictio nary.Com/infant


either way, the point is that it isn't "infants" that are aborted.


thank you isipes for seeing my point


point? Which point? There isn't one.
You feel better to abort because the term infant doesn't apply to it?
How about we apply the appropriate term to those "things" you are destroying and killing.......Humans. Therefore--that makes people who abort their children killers. And unless there is some extreme circumstance (i.E...Medical), they are killers. To kill takes a certain mindset and person.....Especially to kill your own baby. That's pure disgust right there. Way to go.
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Jolie_3110

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Posted: 02-20-06 09:06am

lsipes wrote:
i actually read something a while ago about this. In a nutshell, it said that any woman that became pregnant as result of a rape, had to put an ad in the paper stating her desire to have an abortion and wait to see if the rapist/father replied within a certain time. If no response, she was "allowed" to abort. incredibly ridiculous. It isn't a law, but it was being considered.


that is terrible! Its like giving the rapist all the power all over again!

No offence but this is one time i'm glad I live in england! :)
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Posted: 02-20-06 11:04am

[quote="sunshine424"]
sadness wrote:
lsipes wrote:
sunshine424 wrote:
sadness wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
curious_girl82 wrote:
look you edit
\
!! Why dont you go tell that to some poor little 13 year old girl who has been raped...Raped by her uncle..??...Or her father perhaps...?? You bug man!!



jimmyjackers wrote:
because millions upon millions of infants are killed due to abortion


for starters they are not infants. An infant is a child over 1 yrs old.

jimmyjackers wrote:
to justify all these deaths because of one or two, is an insane justification.



one or two!!! Women get raped ever day and who's to say they don't all get pregnant? No women who has been raped should not be given the chose of terminating the pregnancy.

I am fed up with the small minded people on here who can't see a bigger picture than women aborting a pregnacy!!!!

Rape victims have to live a life of hell after, why should we have to bring up an evil mans child? I knew that I would never be able to love that child or even treat it good so I did it for the child just as much as for myself. I could of given it up for adoption but then I think it's not nice or right to give the child away and then when they look for you, you have to tell them there dad is a rapist.
Maybe in your eyes i'm just selfish but I had my childs interests in mind and I did the right thing!!!


an infant is not a child over one year old.




Infant:
a child in the earliest part of life, especially before he/she can walk.




Newly begun or formed.




A person under the legal age of majority, a minor.





Based on this definition, there could be many interpretations of the word "infant".





Http://www.Thefreedictio nary.Com/infant


either way, the point is that it isn't "infants" that are aborted.


thank you isipes for seeing my point


point? Which point? There isn't one.

You feel better to abort because the term infant doesn't apply to it?
How about we apply the appropriate term to those "things" you are destroying and killing.......Humans. Therefore--that makes people who abort their children killers. And unless there is some extreme circumstance (i.E...Medical), they are killers. To kill takes a certain mindset and person.....Especially to kill your own baby. That's pure disgust right there. Way to go.


yes, they are killers... I do believe that pro-choice has conceeded to this point over and over again. It obviously isn't the point, in our opinion.
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sadness

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Posted: 02-20-06 11:17am

[quote="eiri"]
sunshine424 wrote:
sadness wrote:
lsipes wrote:
sunshine424 wrote:
sadness wrote:
jimmyjackers wrote:
curious_girl82 wrote:
look you edit
\
!! Why dont you go tell that to some poor little 13 year old girl who has been raped...Raped by her uncle..??...Or her father perhaps...?? You bug man!!



jimmyjackers wrote:
because millions upon millions of infants are killed due to abortion


for starters they are not infants. An infant is a child over 1 yrs old.

jimmyjackers wrote:
to justify all these deaths because of one or two, is an insane justification.



one or two!!! Women get raped ever day and who's to say they don't all get pregnant? No women who has been raped should not be given the chose of terminating the pregnancy.

I am fed up with the small minded people on here who can't see a bigger picture than women aborting a pregnacy!!!!

Rape victims have to live a life of hell after, why should we have to bring up an evil mans child? I knew that I would never be able to love that child or even treat it good so I did it for the child just as much as for myself. I could of given it up for adoption but then I think it's not nice or right to give the child away and then when they look for you, you have to tell them there dad is a rapist.
Maybe in your eyes i'm just selfish but I had my childs interests in mind and I did the right thing!!!


an infant is not a child over one year old.





Infant:
a child in the earliest part of life, especially before he/she can walk.





Newly begun or formed.





A person under the legal age of majority, a minor.






Based on this definition, there could be many interpretations of the word "infant".






Http://www.Thefreedictio nary.Com/infant


either way, the point is that it isn't "infants" that are aborted.


thank you isipes for seeing my point


point? Which point? There isn't one.


You feel better to abort because the term infant doesn't apply to it?
How about we apply the appropriate term to those "things" you are destroying and killing.......Humans. Therefore--that makes people who abort their children killers. And unless there is some extreme circumstance (i.E...Medical), they are killers. To kill takes a certain mindset and person.....Especially to kill your own baby. That's pure disgust right there. Way to go.


yes, they are killers... I do believe that pro-choice has conceeded to this point over and over again. It obviously isn't the point, in our opinion.


am I a killer then?
I was raped and then terminated my pregnancy!!!
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Posted: 02-20-06 13:01pm

Long thread but there is something on the first page of this which i'd just like to point out. Rapists would not have any rights to their biological child (unless married to the women, otherwise she would have to agree to give him those rights which, undoubtedly, she wouldn't.) thankfully here (in england).

I'm new and pro-choice btw :wink:
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Posted: 02-20-06 13:11pm

Welcome, moo!
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Posted: 02-20-06 13:12pm

Sadness, i'm going to be the first to address your question. And i'm going to try to do it eloquently.

The circumstances of your becoming pregnant were grave, yes. But that doesn't change the fact that you ended your pregnancy. I totally support your decision, but in the end, you did what everyone else that has had an abortion did: terminated the pregnancy.
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Posted: 02-20-06 13:31pm

To be quite honest, if I had been in her(sadness) shoes I would have done the same thing...And I am one chick who wants a kid more than anything ...As I am pro choice, I do believe it really does depend on the circumstance when abortion is in mind, ya know? And she had a .D.A.M.N good reason for wanting to terminate the pregnancy.. I do not blame her one bit..
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Posted: 02-20-06 13:33pm

Oh, and welcome moo!!! :)
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Posted: 02-20-06 13:46pm

curious_girl82 wrote:
to be quite honest, if I had been in her(sadness) shoes I would have done the same thing...And I am one chick who wants a kid more than anything ...As I am pro choice, I do believe it really does depend on the circumstance when abortion is in mind, ya know? And she had a .D.A.M.N good reason for wanting to terminate the pregnancy.. I do not blame her one bit..


thank you for that curious_girl82
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sadness

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Posted: 02-20-06 13:47pm

Welcome moo
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lsipes

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Posted: 02-20-06 14:55pm

Curious girl, that's essentially what I was trying to get at. I would've done the same, most likely.
But her question was "am I a killer" because she was raped and had an abortion. If you consider people that have had abortions killers, then it doesn't matter what the circumstances are. Kwim?
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Posted: 02-20-06 17:39pm

Ah.. I was just stating my own opinion.. It wasn't in regards to your post(isipes).. :)
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Posted: 02-20-06 20:39pm

Welcome moo!


Sadness, I feel you are not a killer, you terminated a pregnancy, to me their is a big difference, it was not alive and living on it's own, I probably would have done the same thing, I totally understand. It is not your fault!
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Posted: 02-21-06 06:24am

" it does still make you a killer none the less"

in your opinion, thankfully not in the eyes of the law/most people in this country. There's a hugen difference between killing a person and terminating a pregnancy/killing a fetus.
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Posted: 02-21-06 13:14pm

Sadness, sweets, you are .N.O.T a killer! Did you walk up to a man and put a gun to his head? Or stab some poor lady to death? No!! What you did was terminate a buch a cells that were forming within your body, which some bast*** put in you. Do not listen to what some of these people say, they dont know any better. :) no worries love :)
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