Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 752 Location: :( N.O. Evacuee now in TEXAS
Sorry I Just Need to Vent... Posted: 02-12-06 19:11pm
Ok so im 17 6 months pregnant and I live
with my sister. She told me it would be
ok to stay with her but now things have
changed. She's back with the father of
her first child and she acts really
different. Like she talks about me behind
my back i've even herd her a few times
while she thought I was sleeping. I have
started taken the test to get my diploma
and then I plan on going to college and
she was saying to her boyfriend that it
took me long enough. He's just doing it
and hes like almost 30. I dont understand
whats her deal we were really cool before
he came and now she makes me feel like im
a no one. She trys to act like everyone
is under her cause she's been working
since she was 15 and has 3 kids and has
done everything by herself and I remember
her living with our mom for a good while
after she had er first daughter. She just
makes me feel like crap because im not
trying and I am. Even if I am trying to
her im not trying hard enough. It really
hurts my feelings even to the point that
im moving back in with my mom. My sister
thinks she's god and I really wish she
would open her eyes and see that she's
not. I mean yeah she has done alot for me
by leting me stay but she throws it in my
face when I forget the smallest things.
Like she'll say can you spell homeless and
dont forget your homeless... And its like
damn if you dont want me here then just
say that. I do everything here ... We
take turns cooking while she's doing
whatever I watch her kids make sure they
have eaten I clean every single day I do
the dishes I dont complain about anything
when she's tierd I do things for her and I
still get like no appreciation. Sorry
this is a little of the subject but I
really needed to vent.... Thanx for
reading..
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MissShortie
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2005 Posts: 146
Posted: 02-12-06 20:24pm
I really don't think its right the way she
is treating you. Have you tried talking
to her about it? I don't know what your
relationship is like with your mother, but
if its any better, maybe you should go
move in with her, the less stress you have
is better for you and the baby. Also
maybe if you leave, your sister will
relize how much you really did help around
the house, and with her own personal
needs, then I bet when shes back to doing
all the chores herself, she will be
wishing she was a bit nicer and you were
still around. Hope you can figure out a
better situation, feel free to post when
you need a listening ear. Take care :)
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