A girl from my boyfriends past has come up
saying the child she had may be his. This
came up a few months ago and the girl gave
us the number to her lawyer, we called to
try and find out about a dna test being
done, the lawyer said she had put the
other possible father down as the father
so he wouldnt worry about it because she
had not even told him of another possible
father of the child. After that we kind
of just let it go, well, she had come up
again still sayin there is a possibility
of my boyfriend being the father. Im so
scared of what the results are going to
be, my boyfriend hasnt even been able to
figure out how/where to have a test done,
so I dont know how long thats going to
take, then once its done I dont know how
long it will take for the results to get
back, I dont want to wait for months to
figure this out, this determines our
relationship because ive told him already
that I will not be with him if its his.
If anyone has any info. About who to
contact or how long a the test results
will take...Please let me know.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 02-14-06 16:51pm
Why would you break up with your man if
the kid is his? You said yourself the
girl is from his p.A.S.T.Do you not care
about your man enough to let the past go?
How would you feel if he didn't want you
anymore b/c you had a kid? I think you
should chill out,get your priorities
strait and let it go.If the kid is his,its
his and there is nothing you can do about
it.
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 02-15-06 19:52pm
I'm not really sure exactly where they
have them done, but I think they do it at
some hospitals. I don't remember where my
brother got his done though. It all
depends. Contact a hospital or health
department to find out. And, it took 6
wks. For my nephews to come back. Good
luck!
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Kel67
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2005 Posts: 19
Posted: 02-16-06 21:41pm
Well...Forgot to include..Im 17 im not
dealing with that baggage, I care about
him, alot but I got my life ahead of
me...Im 17...Once again...Im going to
college and I want to have my own
kids...Not someone elses before I even
have my own...Oh yeah...Did I mention im
17?...Thanks though to babyg
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w0rldd0minat0r
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 238
Posted: 03-02-06 18:44pm
So girls have kids at 14
u need to decide whether you can deal with
that.
It should be his choice as to whether he
sees it not urs
this topic is about deliberation were not
very sure if hes the father or not so I
wouldnt get too hyped up about it
