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idgiveanythingtosleep
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My Girlfriend Wont Let Me Cyber :{
Posted: 02-15-06 00:52am
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My girlfriend wont let me have cyber sex.
What can I do to convince her to let me
so I dont feel bad when I do it? (i dont
do it but I used to, and told her).
What can I do? I enjoy it alot...We've
been together a year and like 3
quarters,,,,idk I love her, and she should
know that.....But I enjoy having cybersex
with different girls. What can I do????
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shuett
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Posted: 02-15-06 01:30am
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She probably views it as a form of being
unfaithful. I do!
If you are so crazy in love with her etc
etc why would you even want to?
Sandy
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idgiveanythingtosleep
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Posted: 02-15-06 17:05pm
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Idk im 17 shes the only one ive ever slept
with......Second person to ever get head
from........Kinda hard to be locked down
sexually to one girl....Seems we need some
"spice in our sex life" or whatever them
wwebsites/magazines call it...Heh
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~baby~g~
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Posted: 02-15-06 19:54pm
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Hmm, well I would consider you lucky!
If my bf ever did that I'll be mad at
him.
But, he wouldn't because he 'loves' me and
is 'faithful' to me.
So, if your sex life needs more spice or
w/e then break up with your girl and sleep
with all kinds so you can get some
wonderful std's!!
Is that what you want?!
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littlemisstery
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Posted: 02-16-06 04:30am
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If you want to cyber, you might as well
just go ahead and cheat on her with
another girl. The intention to be with
other girls is still there regardless. If
you actually cared about her enough you'd
give up something so simple as text on a
screen that gets you off. I agree that
you're very lucky, because if I knew my
boyfriend was doing that he'd be alone
pretty much instantly.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 02-16-06 11:13am
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How can you get off on a computer
screen.Half the time people wont even show
you what they look like so you could be
having cyber sex with a pig for all you
know. I think thats a stupid idea and you
should grow up. Cyber sex is for losers
who can't get the real thing.If you want
spice, watch some porn!!!
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Crazyness24
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Posted: 02-16-06 11:42am
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | how can you get off on a
computer screen.Half the time people wont
even show you what they look like so you
could be having cyber sex with a pig for
all you know. I think thats a stupid
idea and you should grow up. Cyber sex
is for losers who can't get the real
thing.If you want spice, watch some
porn!!! |
couldnt have said it better myself! :p
how can you get off to that?
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plpsisk
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Posted: 02-26-06 22:16pm
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Ok first of all u are 17!!! Do your
parents know what u do on the computer?!
I think u are a little young to be worried
about all that. Anyways, dont think im so
old person b/c im only 27, but why do u
want to cyber with other girls if u have a
gf? What sense does that make? If u want
to be with other girls then why even have
a gf? How would u like it if she cheated
on u and just expected u to be cool with
it just b/c its some thing that she "likes
to do"??? !!! I dont think so!!!
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lsipes
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Posted: 02-26-06 22:27pm
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| littlemisstery
wrote: | | if you want to cyber, you
might as well just go ahead and cheat on
her with another girl. The intention to
be with other girls is still there
regardless. If you actually cared about
her enough you'd give up something so
simple as text on a screen that gets you
off. I agree that you're very lucky,
because if I knew my boyfriend was doing
that he'd be alone pretty much
instantly. |
exactly!!! Waaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh my
girlfriend won't let me cyber. :( :( :(
get over it! You're lucky you still have
a girlfriend and the fact that you want to
cyber with all sorts of different girls
only shows your lack of respect for the
girlfriend that you supposedly love so
much. Your age is definitely showing.
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Lalee
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Posted: 02-26-06 22:33pm
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| lsipes
wrote: | waaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh my
girlfriend won't let me cyber. :( :(
:(
get over it!
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rofl... I love you.
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hazel82
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Posted: 03-03-06 16:44pm
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If my boyfriend started cybering I would
kick his a$$ to the curb too...You gotta
learn some respect and grow up!
Guys like you make girls sick...Talk about
wanting to have your cake and eat it!!
Your girlfriend should trade you in for
somebody that cares for her and respects
her...
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pinksalter
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Posted: 03-08-06 19:22pm
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To be perfectly honest I think people that
have cyber sex are pretty sad. They say
stupid things to a person who they have
never met. Does sex and love mean nothing
nowadays? I think I would have got rid of
you a long time ago as that is so
disrespectful to your gf. Essentially its
the same thing if you caught her talking
dirty to someone on the phone, would that
not bother you?
When I have a bf he wouldn`t dare
disrespect me like that. It`s different
having a crush on someone famous but not
saddos on a dodgy website. My last
boyfriend never looked at other girls
never mind cybered with them, he also took
down every single poster of a girl he had
on his wall after all he had me and he
respected me too much. Thats true love
and caring for someone. If your only 17
and don`t want to get tied down then go
out and sleep with as many girls as you
like at the end of the day you`ll only
crave what you already have..... A
relationship!
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sandyallen
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Posted: 03-08-06 20:16pm
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Heck, you do not even know this girl, I
could never understand anyone who could
sleep or screw someone without feelings,
next thing you wil be wanting the real
thing and without her. If I were her, I
would just tell you to go to the nearest
prostitute house or pick one up on the
street and not come back because you are
mental!
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Dellion
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Um...yea...
Posted: 04-26-06 08:56am
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That is a form of cheating. Either do it
without her knowing and die in the next 2
years from a horrible electricity accident
or don't do it.
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worrywart001
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Posted: 09-11-07 11:26am
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uh cyber sex in my opinion IS
CHEATING..its not ok and not fair to her,
if you have problems being tied down then
why do you have a girlfriend? If I ever
found out my bf was doing that...o
man...I'd be PISSED, ANYTHING sexual with
another girl..whether it be conversation
about it or actually physical is cheating
to me...you have to draw the line
somewhere, your gf has every right to be
upset
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Whaturmuva
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Posted: 09-26-07 11:03am
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Well I consider this cheating. I would
never think of doing anything like this to
my SO. I mean you say you have a real
girlfriend who is willing to please
you...why would you want to go play with
yourself at the computer when she will do
it for you? And I mean...it's text. In my
experience imagination doesn't come close
to the real thing.
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Marianne0558
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Re: My Girlfriend Wont Let Me Cyber :{
Posted: 09-26-07 11:09am
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| idgiveanythingtosleep
wrote: | | My girlfriend wont let me
have cyber sex. What can I do to
convince her to let me so I dont feel bad
when I do it? (i dont do it but I used
to, and told her). What can I do? I
enjoy it alot...We've been together a year
and like 3 quarters,,,,idk I love her, and
she should know that.....But I enjoy
having cybersex with different girls.
What can I
do???? |
Your girlfriend won't let you cyber
because it's a form of cheating! If you
are getting off with other girls, you are
cheating, period.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 09-26-07 11:09am
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Chatting is cheating. If my dh or I did
this we would consider it cheating. You
said you wanted to spice up your sex life
and sleep with other girls? Then I
suggest you very kindly break up with this
girl and go do so. there is no sense in
denying that she is not the one for you if
you have these feelings. Furthermore, why
string her along if you aren't wanting to
be faithful. Go sow your royal oats and
let her off gently.
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 09-26-07 11:12am
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| idgiveanythingtosleep
wrote: | | Idk im 17 shes the only one
ive ever slept with......Second person to
ever get head from........Kinda hard to be
locked down sexually to one girl....Seems
we need some "spice in our sex life" or
whatever them wwebsites/magazines call
it...Heh |
By the way, at 17, you're too young to be
spicing up anything but food!
If she's the first person you've slept
with, there should be NO problem in the
bedroom.
If you're not liking the idea of being
"locked down sexually" then you need to
break up with your girlfriend. Then you
can bang anyone you want to on the
internet.
By the way, how do you know you aren't
cybering with some 40 yr old bald perv.
I've seen "To catch a predator"
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w0esurrt
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Posted: 09-27-07 23:32pm
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omg that's totally not even cool from a
girls point of view. If you want other
women regardless of it being cyber or like
in person, then why even have a gf.
Seriously. That is just wrong, maybe you
don't see it but it's not anything any
decent girl would want for her man.
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