Im 20 years old and am a virgin I met a
girl that I am absolutly crazy abut and
last night was our first time really
trying to explore or sexuality togehter.
So anyways she started playing with me and
I would get a little hard but it went away
qucikly however then we tried to have sex
and I couldnt have an erection. I am so
worried this is gonna hurt which otherwise
is probably the best relationship ive ever
had. I have jerked off alot in the past
and usually can get a pretty good erection
tho it isnt probably all what it should be
unless I can get really turned which
sometimes I will and get probably what is
my maximum erection tho that is knida of
strange. The other 2 girls ive been with
both gave me blowjob and but neither time
did I get a realy good erection. I mean
this is like since back when I was 16 when
I first got a blowjob and I still couldnt
get an erection then. I should mention I
am quiet overweight but I can do have
pretty good endurance so it not really the
problem.
This girl has already started questioning
our relationship she says its not because
of this but I really think it is. Please
help me I dont want to throw away what
might be the love of my life.
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hepcat7
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Feb 2006 Posts: 5 Location: Tucson
Posted: 02-28-06 19:52pm
Hey,
you should try to cut the caffeine out of
your diet, eat a lot of fruits and
vegetables, and exercise regularly. Doing
this can help your endurance. I also
would suggest you dont masturbate, this
can make it harder for you to get /sustain
an erection while you're with her. It
also sounds like stress is an issue.
I wish you the best,
-mark
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patch38
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Feb 2006 Posts: 6 Location: eNGLAND
Posted: 03-01-06 10:39am
It sounds as though stress and anxiety are
the major factors here. Well improving
your diet is always a good thing, if you
have no erection probs on your own I would
suggest you take things nice and slowly
with this girl. If she cares about you
and is a decent person she will
understand. Don't go rushing into
anything, take your time. Cover the
bases, so to speak. As crazy as it might
seem - your body and mind are not
comfortable with you and this girl yet.
Your mind will think of worst case
scenarios, peformance anxiety. Hhow do
you get rid of these things? By being at
ease with the person. Don't panic or
rush, you have plenty of time.
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w0rldd0minat0r
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 238
Posted: 03-01-06 12:45pm
Work on foreplay a bit! It can get u so
hard lol anyway lol I hope that stress
thing doesnt actually make u flop cos I
have anxiety and im getting head nxt
weekend :s (first time in a while)
dont think about it too much and ull feel
less anxious about it
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