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luksyx6
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 16
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-26-06 21:50pm
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Sounds like ya need to grow up already.
There's a child involved and that should
be the parents first concern not you or
weather or not you can cope with them
talking to each other. They have a child
and that will keep them connected forever.
So I guess you should just deal with it
or hit the road. Why do you want some guy
with baggage anyway?
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 02-27-06 09:10am
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Just bc he has baggage don't mean
anything.She does not have a problem with
them talking,she does however have a
problem with the baby mama tryin to get
back with her man.He don't want to be with
her,its just that simple.I wish you people
would read the real problem instead of
going off on tangents. . .
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cortney jones
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2006
Posts: 52
Location: Ft.Lauderdale, florida
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Know What You R Talking About Before You Respond
Posted: 02-27-06 12:29pm
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Thankyou but no thankyou for your response
I have nothing to say please dont respond
to my post keep movin to the next please
your brain must be really small it has
nothing to do with the baby and actually
they dont have a connection anymore his
only connection is with his child from
her, his fiance (me), and his new baby
which is from me so thankyou anyway and
you can hit the road with dumb response
lol another fool.
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luksyx6
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 16
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-27-06 14:34pm
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Lmfaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
ooo!!!!!!!!!!! If your so secure with him
then why even give her a 2nd thought?!!
Must be just a little insecurity there!!
Good luck with it all!! And now moving
on!! :wink: :roll:
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Melissa_20
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Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 02-27-06 14:42pm
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| luksyx6
wrote: | | lmfaoooooooooooooooooooooooo
ooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!! If your so
secure with him then why even give her a
2nd thought?!! Must be just a little
insecurity there!! Good luck with it
all!! And now moving on!! :wink:
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would you want some chic trying to pick up
your man? I think not.You,no matter how
much you trusted your man or how secure
with yourself you are,you would feel the
same way unless you have no brain and
can't see what going on.No girl wants her
man to be messed with
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cortney jones
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2006
Posts: 52
Location: Ft.Lauderdale, florida
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I Love My Haters
Posted: 02-27-06 14:53pm
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Thank you it seems like there are some
really not smart females on here thats
worrying about telling others about they
selves when in all actuallity they need
help theirselves in these areas. Thankyou
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luksyx6
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 16
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-27-06 14:54pm
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Sorry I guess this shows our age
difference. I could care less who tries
to come on to him. There's always been
someone out there doing it..I look at it
this way...I'm flattered they all want him
but he's mine. Hahaha!! I have no
worries they can try all they want. And
if he ever strays they can keep him!!
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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I Get That
Posted: 02-27-06 15:02pm
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How old are you?I understand where your
coming from cause sometimes I think the
same way.But doesn't it bother you that
the same female is always hounding your
man?There does come a time when I think
enough is enough,get me? Don't you feel
like you need to say something to her
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cortney jones
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2006
Posts: 52
Location: Ft.Lauderdale, florida
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Posted: 02-27-06 15:11pm
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Exactly I understand where you r comin
from but we r not the same no one is the
same and I know for a fact there are alot
of people who agrees with me exspecially
those who know the situation you r
entitled .Lol holla
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luksyx6
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 16
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-27-06 15:12pm
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...I went thru this with my daughter...Her
b/f's ex kept calling (over and over) and
showing up..Leaving notes on his car etc.
My daughter had lots of confrontation with
her. Finally I told her.. Each time you
do that your fueling it, giving her
ammunition to come back with. So finally
they both just ignored her altogether and
she's finally backed off knowing she's
not getting their attention. He even
changed his phone number. But in
cortney's case her b/f can't do that cuz
of the child. Definately not a cut and
dried thing here since there's a baby
involved. He's always going to have
contact with her and that's just the fact.
She's just got to the be the bigger
person and if he knows she's not jealous
and insecure he'll stay with her no matter
what some other girl does or says.
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cortney jones
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2006
Posts: 52
Location: Ft.Lauderdale, florida
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Posted: 02-27-06 15:29pm
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I understand that but the issue I have
with her goes beyond him like before he
even got into the pic ive let that drama
go but she has more hes not worrying about
it though he defends me at all cause
against the issues with her I dont let him
having a baby by her get in the way of
what we have he is all about me
vise-a-versa if I was insecure I would
have not accepted the fact that he has a
baby by her I didnt care about that I love
him with or without a baby and im 21 im
not a kid I been through worse than you
would ever know. But I do get where you
are coming from. That was the issue I
had not that he had a baby with her my
issue was just with her trying lil crazy
stuff to get him to her place or talking
me down and getting upset when in the one
who is being defended instead of her. If
you knew her you would understand. She
very much knows he doesnt want to deal
with her or be with her he told her he
just wants to deal with his baby and thats
what he means he dont go near her
anymore.That would aggravate anyone
exspecially now that he cut off contact
with her she goes through his family thats
aggravating.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 4580
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Cortney Jones
Posted: 02-27-06 16:48pm
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As the stomach churns, aye, sort of like a
soap opera only in real life.
It does sound like you are starting to
accept things, such as her having his baby
first but that was then, this is now,
kicking her arse is not going to prove
anything, you cannot try to take him away
from his other child, you just need to
accept the part that it is his baby move
on and now you are having his baby and you
need to calm down as stress is not good on
any pregnancy and that is what you need to
concentrate on.
As far as certain people on here, I am not
going to mention any names but I am sure
you know who I am talking about, just
ignore them, they are not worth your time,
your hormones are bouncing around enough.
I agree some should be banned.
Good luck to you and yours!
Keep us posted!
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luksyx6
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006
Posts: 16
Location: illinois
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Posted: 02-27-06 16:56pm
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I really feel sorry for the child...What a
mess it's in the middle of here.
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cortney jones
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2006
Posts: 52
Location: Ft.Lauderdale, florida
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Thankyou Sandyallen
Posted: 02-27-06 17:55pm
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Yeah you r righ about everything you said
thankyou and I will keep yall posted
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 02-28-06 11:57am
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| luksyx6
wrote: | | i really feel sorry for the
child...What a mess it's in the middle of
here. |
i think thats enough,you can cut it out
now...Your dragging it out a little too
much
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cortney jones
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Feb 2006
Posts: 52
Location: Ft.Lauderdale, florida
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