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kirztensmummy

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005
Posts: 326
Location: london
Absolute Cr@p
Posted: 02-18-06 18:37pm

I was reading most of the posts here and most concerns rgdg pregos are ignored just because some w@nkers neglect their little ones or people havin a go @ someone just because she dislikes kids (not defending her tho) and pursue tons of attention here...All im sayin is its time for some people here to grow up and if these people can't help themselves or dont give a editon our impression in em then why should we. It just aggravates the issue.

I know im gonna get violent reactions with my post but I dont give a edit im also entitled to how I feel and my opinion after all the most irritating bunch here insists that whenever theyre criticized.

Try to be fair on others that need urgent help and ignore those who just sit their sorry edit infront of the pc all day just to get sympathy and make silly excuses if confronted with results.

I dont want a raw...Im just edit of...F all of you are most welcome to have a go @ me and I wont give a edit!

to all genuinely pregnant women please look after your lil one, to those who just give birth congratulations on your lil bundle of joy, and lastly to those who are on ttc good luck to ya'll
that's it i'm done ranting and jess sorry if im being a edit again just couldnt help it
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Lalee

Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006
Posts: 991
Location: South Carolina

Posted: 02-18-06 23:34pm

I honestly don't exactly know what you've said here, but I think I get the idea. And if i'm right, I totally agree with you.

Everyone is entitled to their opinions... Each person might be trying to help in a different way... But when people start a spitting contest with someone else who posted in a thread with some controversial opinion, we end up straying from the point that brought us here in the first place.

The people who post with problems don't want to watch us bicker, they want us to help. And that's what we should do.

I take no issue with anyone's opinions. I might not agree with them, but it's never my place to tell them they're wrong. And as long as no one is rude to me or anyone else here (and doesn't act like the moral authority on everything), I will continue to read and shake my head or grit my teeth or have any other range of reactions that are kept to myself and not broadcast rude remarks I might come up with in my head.

If I say that grass is purple, please don't call me a blind person and tell me that anyone with three brain cells can clearly see it's green. Tell me you think it's green... And move on.
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Cambion

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Joined: 08 Nov 2005
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Posted: 02-19-06 01:12am

I know the one particular topic in this forum went totally off the original topic because people were disputing an opinion I had included. I seriously do my best to not make it seem like I am forcing my views on others, but I simply present my opinions. But then you get the people who think their opinions are facts and must be seen as such - otherwise, the person with opposing views is wrong, evil, etc.

We're all entitled to our opinions. Lalee said it well - it's perfectly fine to claim what your opinion is, but it's most always going to ruffle some feathers if you pass your opinions off as being indisputable facts.

And to anyone who was reading the topic I spoke of previously, I apologize for fueling the bickering - I didn't think the argument over opinions being "wrong" would have gone on that long.
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wannababy25

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jan 2006
Posts: 262
Location: Near Ottawa, ON

Posted: 02-19-06 09:15am

Lol! I'm sorry. Isn't this topic exactly the thing you are ranting about???!!!
Lol! Now...Everyone will come here and respond to this.
Sorry...I just find this funny. :)
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AlliE_18

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Joined: 20 Dec 2005
Posts: 2129
Location: uk

Posted: 02-19-06 11:36am

Kirztensmummy if you dont like what someone has to say then dont read it, simple as. Everyone has a right to say what they want (within reason), and their opinions on all posts. If you dont want everyone replying to something you post then send it to someone privately instead. It's pathetic to complain about that.
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diamondsz

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Posted: 02-19-06 12:39pm

Anna dont worry, there will always be someone who will contradict something , allies right in a way if we dont like it we have a choice not to read it but at the same time if someone is gonna sit their and push their openion down our throats than I dont believe that is acceptable. An example of pushing an opinion is oh you did that so ur a child abuser or you need ur child removed that incredibly immature.. Anyone should be able to give their advice and opinion without question fo who they are, background race etc so im leaving it at that

hugz all~!
Jess
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~*~Jillian~*~

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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA

Posted: 02-19-06 13:28pm

Allie you are very correct...Because its the internet and there are going to be people that dont have the same beliefs as you or see things eye to eye with you..And the best thing to do is be mature about the whole situation and exit out of it...Yeah some people come here for answers and advice and people make it into something else ...Well that will happen its a forum and like you said people have their opinions...And therefore people are going to post the way they feel ...So all I have to say about your post is ...That if you or anyone else who post on here doesnt want to read post going against what they what or are doing...Then dont post a thread because more than likely one or more people are going to be against it ..Its life and you just have to deal with it.
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kirztensmummy

Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005
Posts: 326
Location: london

Posted: 02-19-06 14:10pm

Like wot I said on my I just needed to vent and yea everyone's entitled with our own opinion I just dont think its fair for others here that are in real dilemma to be caught behind someone whose been on the same issue for eons ago and was given the same advise by a 1000 different users. Btw im not pertaining to just one issue. Its easier for ya'll to say not to read the posts but if you just registered here you feel like everything's interesting. When was the last time I posted on the issues that I think was completely rubbish anyway?
If you could check my recent posts im just replying to queries that needed genuine advise.
And like what you said allie if you dont like it dont read it and everyone's entitled to his/her opinion right? If its really pathetic you shouldnt have replied to this thread and instead pm'd me coz its like you admit that you're one of thos people.
And I wont pm anyone coz I dont really wanna waste my time on silly queries and I know that you could look after yourself and you just dont want to.
Jessica I just needed let it out my system...I dont mean to start anything and like what I said I did apologise to jess coz I dont want her to misinterpret what I put. You know what im like that's why we get along with each other lol.
Jillian thanks anyway I understand what youre saying and prob this is my last post in this thread.
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~*~Jillian~*~

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Joined: 01 Feb 2005
Posts: 1759
Location: Tennessee, USA

Posted: 02-19-06 18:34pm

Your welcome...Not meaning to be rude it was just the truth :wink:
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