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cutie_gurlie4
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Joined: 19 Feb 2006
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Location: england
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I Think Im Pregnant!
Posted: 02-19-06 19:07pm
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Hello everybody im new and im 13. I no I
shouldn't of bin having sex but I did and
I think im pregnant. My mum says if I
got pregnant she would kick me out. My
boyfriend doesn't care he wants the baby
but I dont think he realizes how hard its
going to be. Im 80% sure im pregnant I
took a pregnancy test and it said I am but
it wasn't an expensive or very good one.
My boyfriend thinks he knows all the
answers and that its not going to be
difficult. I cant stop crying because I
know my mums side of the family will never
want to see me again. Please give me
some help I have no idea what I am going
to do
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 02-19-06 19:20pm
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1st cheap ones work just as well as
expensive ones so congrats. 2 yes your
family will be upset but they will get
over it trust me. My grandpa had alredy
paid for my college and expected a lot
from me and right now im not even
finishing high school (not cuz I got
pregnant but that didnt help) and 3 yes
babies are hard work but lucky 4 u the
government offers enough assistance to
make it possible. U need insurance so if
your family doesnt have any get on
medicaid you should also get on wic even
if u stay with your mom just to help out
some (thats what my sister in law does and
she 24!) if u really want your baby then
im sure u can do it and this forum is a
great place for support good luck and dont
wait to tell your mom the more u prolong
it the worse the reaction is gunna b
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michelle1981
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Posted: 02-19-06 19:26pm
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If the test read positive, then you're
pregnant!
13 is a very young age, but you need to
talk to someone who can help you figure
out what to do next. I know you're
scared, but please speak to someone you
trust and in position(like a teacher,
counselor, doctor) to be able to help.
Maybe rethinking the whole "sex" issue
will also help.
Best of luck!!
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AshBoBash
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2006
Posts: 277
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Re
Posted: 02-20-06 01:15am
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Ok hi i'm 13 also and I am due june 29th
with a little girl. I told my mom just
about righte after I found out cause I was
so scared I just couldn't keep it a
secret.
Do you have a email address I can email
you at?
Ashlee
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Jolie_3110
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Joined: 04 Dec 2005
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Location: Essex, England
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Posted: 02-20-06 05:01am
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| macysmama
wrote: | | 1st cheap ones work just as
well as expensive ones so congrats. 2
yes your family will be upset but they
will get over it trust me. My grandpa
had alredy paid for my college and
expected a lot from me and right now im
not even finishing high school (not cuz I
got pregnant but that didnt help) and 3
yes babies are hard work but lucky 4 u the
government offers enough assistance to
make it possible. U need insurance so if
your family doesnt have any get on
medicaid you should also get on wic even
if u stay with your mom just to help out
some (thats what my sister in law does and
she 24!) if u really want your baby then
im sure u can do it and this forum is a
great place for support good luck and dont
wait to tell your mom the more u prolong
it the worse the reaction is gunna
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cutiegurlie if you live in england you
will not need any insurance all your
medical care is free on the n.H.S.
If your pregnancy test says postitive then
you are pregnant, false postitives are
very rare.
I know it is hard but you must tell your
mum, she will be angry but she cant stay
like that forever! I think alot of
parents say they will kick there children
out if they get pregnant just to try to
prevent them from doing so!
Be brave, 13 is very young and you will
need her support.
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 02-20-06 12:01pm
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Sorry didnt realize u live in england lol
I guess I should have looked since alot of
ppl on here are
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cutie_gurlie4
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Joined: 19 Feb 2006
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Location: england
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Posted: 02-20-06 14:47pm
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Thanks everyone for your surport!!Xxx
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DaliciaLynn
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Joined: 29 Jul 2005
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Location: Missouri
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Posted: 02-21-06 00:11am
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Jesus christ what is the world coming to?
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yellow ribbon
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Location: FL
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Posted: 02-21-06 06:00am
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Lol dalicia I no how old were u when u had
sex for the first time? I can personally
say I was really stupid had sex like 3
weeks after my 14th b-day and it was
unprotected jsut lucky I didnt get knocked
up back then
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Roxiefox
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2006
Posts: 257
Location: England
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Posted: 02-21-06 11:27am
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Ppl shouuldn't think lik that, but think
about wat they are doing when they have
sex for the first time
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AshBoBash
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2006
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Posted: 02-21-06 15:47pm
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Well I am 13 also and pregnant and no
offense but this is the teen pregnancy
board I dont think a teen expects to get
criticizsed about her age on a board thats
made for teens ya know
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DaliciaLynn
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Location: Missouri
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Posted: 02-21-06 15:51pm
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I know how old I was too macy, and I
should of kept my legs closed, it would of
saved me a lot of pain and heartache in
the long run.
I wasn't 13 when I lost my virginity, 13 I
wasnt even thinking about sex. If she
was my daughter, i'd tie her legs together
with a condom & lock her in her
room.
This is why everyone is so against teen
pregnancy, because little girls keep
getting knocked up. At 13 you can't even
get a job, you can't even get your permit
here until you're 15. Basically her
mommy is going to be supporting her and
her kid which is beyond sad...
And macy, that's just loosing my
virginity, not getting knocked up.
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Bridget
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Posted: 02-21-06 16:00pm
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I'm not putting anyone down or anything, I
just can't get over 13 year olds having
sex. I can't even imagine having sex at
13. I think I was still reading fear
street books then and watching full house.
But that was a long time ago and I guess
things have changed since then.
Good luck to all of you.
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yellow ribbon
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Location: FL
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Posted: 02-21-06 16:11pm
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I couldnt agree more dalicia the guy I
lost my virginity 2 was a total ass and
just made for lts of heartache. I played
barbies til I was like 12! I wasnt
critizing ashbobash it just hard for for
me to imagine me at 13 havinga baby I
wasnt even in high school yet and believe
me I was a total dork til like 10th grade
(wow im really glad I got out of high
school) im not gunna go one about how my
life got screwed up cuz I could write a
book (hey maybe I will I bet I could be
rich lol)
as for tiieing your daughters legs w/a
condom that might ba lil extreme and I
dont no where you are gunna find a condom
big enough lol
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DaliciaLynn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005
Posts: 2322
Location: Missouri
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AlliE_18
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Joined: 20 Dec 2005
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Location: uk
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Posted: 02-22-06 03:30am
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Yea its too young I think. My best friend
started having sex with this 19yr old when
she was only 13. I was shocked but its
like neither of us really understood
everything about sex, and he was just
using her. He made her think it was ok to
do it at 13.
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NeedHelp45
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2006
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Hey Is Ok I Am In the Same Boat
Posted: 02-22-06 20:32pm
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You should read my message and leave me a
comment on what you think. And congrats
to you. I am soo scared we should keep in
touch.
Needhelp45
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DaliciaLynn
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Location: Missouri
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Posted: 02-22-06 21:38pm
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| allie_18
wrote: | | yea its too young I think.
My best friend started having sex with
this 19yr old when she was only 13. I
was shocked but its like neither of us
really understood everything about sex,
and he was just using her. He made her
think it was ok to do it at
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he'll think it's okay when he's in cuff's
for rape.
13 and 19 is doing it disgusting.
Grosssssssss.
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ineedhelp16
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Location: pennsylvania
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Posted: 02-23-06 18:23pm
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I'm sorry babe that you're pregnant...It's
so easy to get in a situation where you
want to have sex. Things can progress so
fast. Me and my boyfriend were just
making out and then before I knew it I had
lost my virginity! And that was something
that I totally hadn't planned on doing til
I was married. It was a big lesson for me
and this is probably a huge lesson for you
i'm sure. Well good luck with everything
and I hope that everything turns out ok!
:-)
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 02-24-06 14:25pm
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And it's soooo easy to put on a condom.
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