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babygirl87911
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2006
Posts: 5
Location: toledo,ohio
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Am I Pregnant? Who Fathered My Baby?
Posted: 02-23-06 15:18pm
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Im freakin out idk what to do im thinkin I
might be pregnant but the worst part of
all is idk who the father is bc the only
guy who has slept with me had raped me a
few months ago! Someone pls give me some
advice!!!!!!! I need help bad!
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Posts: 7892
Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 02-23-06 15:20pm
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Did you miss your period since the
raping??
Did you notify the local authorities that
you were raped and have them do a rape kit
on you to find pubic hairs or human
secretions?
How old are you? Do your parents know?
Sarah
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 4580
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Posted: 02-23-06 17:07pm
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I am very sorry to hear about your
situation, I do agree with the poster
above, if you ar young, you need to talk
to your parents and if you are older talk
to your Dr. You really need to do
somthing and we are here for you but you
do need to talk to a responsible adult
because if he feels that he can get away
with it with you than he will feel that he
can get away with it from others. It is
not your fault!
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babygirl87911
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2006
Posts: 5
Location: toledo,ohio
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Re: Omg Im Freakin Out!!!!
Posted: 02-23-06 17:42pm
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| babygirl87911
wrote: | | im freakin out idk what to
do im thinkin I might be pregnant but the
worst part of all is idk who the father is
bc the only guy who has slept with me had
raped me a few months ago! Someone pls
give me some advice!!!!!!! I need help
bad! |
im almost 18 and no I
havent missed periods but they have been
short and light, no I havent told my
parents, I dont live with them I live with
an aunt and uncle no I didnt report the
rape and I havent had a pregnancy test
done yet
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Mommi2Bee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005
Posts: 123
Location: Arizona, USA
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Posted: 02-23-06 19:57pm
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You should really get a pregnancy test,
and you should've went and got checked
after this all and at least take a morning
after pill.... That way at least this
could all be avoided. Im really sorry to
hear what happened though. I hope things
only get better..
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Sunflower_pie81
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 5041
Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 02-24-06 11:47am
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Hun you should really do a pregnancy test
and make sure you are not pregnant. It's
never too late to report it, it's just too
to late to have a rape kit done or take
the morning after pill. I was raped too
when I was young and I didnt' report it
and it has haunted me the rest of my life
as I don;t know if I let him get away with
it how many other people has he raped
because I didn't report it. You still
have time to report it hun.
Also you need to talk to your dr and/or
aunt and uncle as you need to be tested
for stds. Please, please get checked for
stds, if you are pregnant hun, you need
to make sure you are not carrying a
illness you may be able to pass on to your
little one.
Being pregnant aside (even though it's
scary) watch out for yourself and get
checked for stds
i am soo sorry to hear of your story. I
will be praying for you. Keep us
informed...We are here to talk to you and
give you all the support we can give
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babygirl87911
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2006
Posts: 5
Location: toledo,ohio
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Posted: 02-25-06 13:31pm
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Thx for all ur support and advice I am
getting tested for pregnancy but idk where
to go about getting tested for stds I dont
have a dr yet
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Sunflower_pie81
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 5041
Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 02-28-06 09:24am
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You can go to any clinic to be tested for
both pregnancy and std's. You can call
around for this information.
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babygirl87911
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2006
Posts: 5
Location: toledo,ohio
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Posted: 02-28-06 16:48pm
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Thx I will do just that. But I have one
more big problem I havent told my bf that
I might be pregnant and his first thought
will be that I cheated on him I love him
so much how am I gonna tell him what
happened? I dont want to lose him pls
help!
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yellow ribbon
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005
Posts: 5554
Location: FL
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Posted: 02-28-06 19:58pm
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Just tell him you didnt and if he doubts u
he can geta paternity test when the baby
comes and leave it alone if he wants to
argue over it dont it will just make u
look like u are trying hard convince him
that u didnt just b straight forward and
confident cant argue with someone who wont
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Sunflower_pie81
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 5041
Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 03-01-06 16:19pm
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If he loves you and you are ment for each
other he will understand. It will really
be a test of your love for each other and
if he stands by you then you will know
that you are to be with him. Kinda look
at it as a test of his caring for you.
I would find out if you are pregnant
before you open a can of worms that can't
be closed. If you aren't preggers there
isn't a need to tell him. If you are
clean of stds too then there isnt' a need
to tell him either. I would be very
careful about having sex until you are
tested for stds. I know that I keep
stresssing the stds but you have the rest
of your life to live with this and you are
better off knowing that the sob didn't
give you anything.
The best of luck to you sweetheart...Keep
us informed.
Genipher
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babygirl87911
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2006
Posts: 5
Location: toledo,ohio
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Thx Everyone
Posted: 03-03-06 15:25pm
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No problem about stressing on the std's
sunflower, it makes me feel less alone and
I think you are a great friend im glad you
all have helped me through this, I know
its not over and I don't plan on telling
him till I know for sure about it all and
I am not and will not be having sex with
my boyfriend hes in nc right now and im in
ohio so lol nothings happening in that
department. Hey sunflower do you have yim
I think we would be good friends and I
need a good friend like you right now, if
you do have yahoo messenger let me know
and ill give you my screen name so maybe
we can talk more :-) I feel so much better
because of all of your support thanks so
much all of you and I will keep you all
informed :-)
crystal
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Sunflower_pie81
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006
Posts: 5041
Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 03-03-06 15:44pm
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Yeah I do have im on my phone. I don't
have a comp at home right now but I do
have it on my phone and I can give you my
e-mail address @work, (ican't get it at
work.) I will be happy to give it to you
too.
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shygirl11987
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2006
Posts: 16
Location: Maryland
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Posted: 03-03-06 23:48pm
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Hey I just wanted to say i'm sorry that
happend to you....The same the happend to
me...I'm 18 and currently 32 weeks
pregnant....Due to a rape(and I took the
morning after pill which didnt work).If
you want any support or someone to talk to
please feel free to contact me. I know
how hard it is especially when rape is
involved....Also I know how hard it is to
have to tell your boyfriend about it
especially when its not his baby.
Unfortunately for me it didnt go over too
well my boyfriend ended up not being able
to talk to me or even look at me because
he was so hurt. Just know that anyone who
really loves you will be there for you no
matter what.( I also loved my boyfriend
alot but I guess at this age sometimes
they are too immature and too easily hurt
to deal with situations like this)
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