Make sure that you are drinking more water than you would think is necessary or needed. That is the best way to help get the bloating down, also make sure that you are laying down with your feet elevated 6 to 8 inches. You may find it more comfortable to put the pillow under your knees.
Bloating is normal and preganancy is horribly uncomfortable, (i am a guy so I cannot say it from firsthand experience but watching other ladies and my own wife is enough to know it is not commfy) but with some added care for yourself, you can make it a bit better. If you feel tired, lay down if you are sore, get in a warm tub and relax.
You will only be pregnant a couple times in life, try to make it the best experience you can and if someone wants to pamper you, let them and enjoy it. You deserve it, you have a long tough road ahead and pampering fo mom doesnt happen enough as it is.
Good luck,
brian