Youth Erectile Dysfunction - Please Help Posted: 02-27-06 14:41pm
Hello
i'm 22 years old and ever since I became
sexually active (a year and a half ago) I
have had erection problems. The story is
similar to many of the folks that add
their posts here. I have never really
been able to penetrate a girl. The first
time I attempted to have sex, I was hard,
but large amounts of precum were flooding
my underwear during each make out session.
When we finally got to the sexual
intercourse part, after I have given my
then first girlfriend oral sex, I noticed
that I have lost my erection. After a few
minutes my erection came back, I was able
to penetrate her for about a minute, after
which my erection withdrew again and we
decided to stop. Soon after, we broke up
and I took the situation as a simple cause
of fear and anxiety. Three months later I
started dating another girl. Each time we
would make up, I noticed a pretty large
amount of percum again. About a month
into the relationship, we decided that it
was time to take our relationship to
another level. As unfortunate as it may
be, the situation from my first
intercourse occured once again. This
time, my second girlfriend was
understanding, as she thought I might just
be anxious etc. We tried a few times
afterwards, and each time my penis would
die before any type of oral sex or
intercourse. This lead to our breakup.
Since we were together for about 4 months,
and the only reason for our breakup was my
problem, we've been going out unofficially
since - I wanted to sort of be with her,
but not burden her with my problem.
Nevertheless, during that time I tried to
have sex with one more girl, and I once
again failed.
As mentioned before, i've unofficially
dated my second girlfriend for about a
year now, and we've attempted having sex
many times, as she still wants to help me
with this problem. This is where I would
like to ask anyone on this forum for help.
I have masturbated quite a lot during my
childhood, from about 12 years old around
2 times a day until 21. Once I realized I
had the erection problem I began
masturbating no more than 3 times a week;
nevertheless, this did not help. I tried
using Dr. Lin's method for over
masturbation revival for 3 months. This
helped me a bit, as I regained morning
erections, and my erections became a bit
stronger. Nevertheless, I still can't
have sex. I am able to masturbate and get
hard for a pretty fair amount of time (15
minutes). During masturbation, after
about 10 minutes of excitement, I begin to
ooze out pre-cum. If at that moment I
stop stroking off, I will loose my
erection in around a minute. I also
noticed that during the first few minutes
of masturbation, if I stop stroking off, I
will loose my erection in around 15
seconds (it bounces down pretty fast).
I have tried viagra, which allowed me to
penetrate my girlfriend for about 2
minutes, but later on gave up on me and
caused my erection to withdraw.
Another important sickness which I should
tell you is my acne and overactive thyroid
which was discovered a few weeks ago. The
thyroid and acne are caused by my busy and
stressful lifestyle. I work, go to school
etc and have a lot of things on my mind.
I heard that an endocrinologist which
specializes in andrology could help me,
but I honestly don't want to play with my
hormones at the age of 22. I know there
are many serious side effects to that, and
I would rather heal myself in a
safe-natural way.
Currently i'm attending acupuncture
sessions and take calming chinese herbs to
help me out with my problems. These
definitely help with my stress, as I feel
a bit better most of the time, but don't
really help with my ed.
I'm sorry for writing such an extensive
post, but i'm really frustrated withmy
situation, and I would appreciate any
help, anyone could give me. I would like
to do it not even for myself, but for the
girl that has been hanging with me for so
long, even though i've been having these
problems since she met me.
One more thing which I have noticed is,
when I give her oral sex, I get very red
and my heart goes crazy fast. She told me
that her ex boyfriends would get excited,
but never as much as me; she says my heart
runs wild when i’m intimate with her.
And now the oddest thing, after oral sex,
my acne basically disappears for about 3
hours, only to appear back the next day.
I think, that once i’m able to have real
sex, my other problems will disappear
too...
Thank you very much for your help, and
bless you all for your time and wisdom!
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deborah_smithe
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Apr 2006 Posts: 1 Location: Michigan
Posted: 04-13-06 09:04am
My bf has ed and has had it his whole
life. You should be checked for diabetes
and heart disease as well. Everything you
have described sounds just like him. I
would get checked asap. And don't worry.
If I can be with with my bf with his
condition there will be other women for
you that are understanding and accepting
of your condition, whatever it may be.
Good luck!
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Figaro007
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Feb 2006 Posts: 12 Location: The USA
Thanks For a Reply Posted: 04-13-06 20:56pm
Thanks for the calming words. Can you
tell me how old is your boyfriend? Has he
had any success with overcoming of his
sickness? Is he diabeties - I am
not....
Ever since the post I have been changing
my life quite a bit. I don't stress as
much as I used to, I do acupuncture every
week or so, I eat healthy foods, try to go
outside, play as often as possible. I
think this is greatly helping my mental,
and also, in the end, phisical problem. I
have yet to check it out directly with a
partner....
