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Sammy001
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Sex
Posted: 03-01-06 10:39am
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I don't know if this is normal or not. I
hate sex right now. I get grosed out at
the thought of it. My baby is almost 11
months old. Hubby is always begging for
it. I love him lots but I don't get
turned on by him right now. I hope it is
just a stage. I would never cheat. The
thought of someone else groses me out even
more!!!
I don't want him to think that I don't
love him.
I just don't feel sexual anymore.
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 03-01-06 10:42am
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I have that issue but im pregnant so I
blame it on that
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Sunflower_pie81
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Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 03-01-06 16:12pm
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I have posted before that I am not really
into sex and I hate that. I am preggers
and it does hurt a little because
everything is out of wack down there. I
am swollen and my husband can't go all the
way in. It just really hurts. And I
dont' want have it right now anyway..I do
really want it to go away. Hopefully it
will soon...Just hope it dosn't get worse
after the preganacy.
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BabyMa19
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Posted: 03-02-06 12:18pm
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Hey ladies,
wow yes it may seem a little crazy for the
person who I used to be not to be into it
anymore. But I used to begg my husband
for it and he used to be like no no not
right now, then I thought it was me. But
it's soo funny because now I tell him no
no not right now. I am 13wks at the
moment and everytime I try it feels
bad...It sucks because I used to love
being a freak in bed. I hope like you
said it's just a phase...Because ladies,
just b/c we pregos don't mean we can't do
it... Show your man you want it as much
as you don't and believe me he'll still be
head over heels for you..
Ps- you don't have to do it everyday...
But lets just say once a week put some
lingere and get wild...He'll appreciate
and still feel loved. Thats what I do and
it works great! Then he'll know you would
do it, if you felt good but he'll have
more of an understanding.
Good luck to all! :d
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Sammy001
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Posted: 03-06-06 20:22pm
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It just seem like more of a hassle than
anything... And after wards..The cum
running out of me....Too grose.
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Lalee
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Location: South Carolina
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Posted: 03-06-06 23:15pm
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| sammy001
wrote: | | it just seem like more of a
hassle than anything... And after
wards..The cum running out of me....Too
grose. |
lol sometimes, if i've just come home from
work and it's late and I feel like he's
going to want some, all I can think is,
"god, I don't want to have to get up
afterward and go to the bathroom."
lol I feel so bad, but it's the truth.
Like you said, it's a hassle.
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 03-07-06 12:52pm
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Wow,you guys are scaring me,stop it!
No,really though,i want to have kids some
day but I don't want to lose my sex drive!
Aaaaaaaah!
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diamondsz
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Posted: 03-07-06 15:22pm
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Hun could be a phase or ppd, postpartum
can come anytime in the first year, go
see ur dr could be your hormone levels are
low or you just being stressed, make a
night where you relax away from the lil
one and have a good glass of wine/beer/
gin etc to help loosen up abit if that
doesnt work talk to your dr!! Postpartum
affects everyone in a different way loss
of sex drive is one of them!!
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michelle1981
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Posted: 03-07-06 15:36pm
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When I was pregnant and for a few months
after, I absolutely hated it.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 03-07-06 15:45pm
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So your sex drive came back after a while
michelle?
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sandyallen
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Posted: 03-07-06 15:53pm
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Hi! I am sure it can be a phase,
especially being heavily pregnant, we are
all different, a lot of men do not want
sex while his wife is pregnant because he
is afraid that he might hurt the fetus and
if you have to work and are pregnant it
can be rough, I was always the opposite,
pregnant, working, it did not matter, I
wanted sex.
I agree with diamondsz especially after
the pregnancy and I do realize that you
get tired of taking care of the baby and
or working all day, it never hurts to ask
the Dr.
Good luck!
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michelle1981
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Posted: 03-07-06 16:02pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | so your sex drive came back
after a while
michelle? |
now, i'm always horny lol
my poor hubby lol
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 03-07-06 16:04pm
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Aaaah,you made me feel a little
better.Thank you!
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michelle1981
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Posted: 03-07-06 16:33pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | aaaah,you made me feel a
little better.Thank
you! |
glad I could help ease your mind lol
just keep in mind everyone is different!
A friend of mine couldn't get enough sex
when she was pregnant!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 03-07-06 16:34pm
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That makes me feel more better,keep it
comin! Lol
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michelle1981
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Posted: 03-07-06 16:37pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | that makes me feel more
better,keep it comin!
Lol |
lmao
you'll only know when it happens :)
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Bridget
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Posted: 03-07-06 16:39pm
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Last time I was pregnant I couldn't get it
enough. I was insatiable. This time
around I don't want anything to do with
sex. I'll do it every few days though
just to keep my fiance happy. I don't
want him to think it's him.
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yellow ribbon
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Posts: 5554
Location: FL
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Posted: 03-07-06 21:27pm
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I wanted it with macy but not with liam so
ive decide its my own gender determiner
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Melissa_20
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PeRsEy17
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005
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Location: Washington
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Yep....
Posted: 03-08-06 16:46pm
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Don't worry, im not even pregnant and I
don't really like to have sex anymore with
my husband, and we have only been married
for 2 months!! I don't know maybe we just
wore it out before we got married! :) I
feel bad for him!!
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