Hey... I'm a guy, and I kinda feel
pathetic, but it seems I can't talk to
anyone ab my depression.. Its on and
off, one day ill feel good, the next ill
be down and sleep, eat less and sometimes
even cry. It makes me feel weak.
Theres this girl I was interested in, we
always used to talk, even tho she had a
boyfriend, we went to the movies and such,
I went over to her house a few times to
chill. But her and her boyfriend were on
a break, and she said how much she missed
him, even tho the relationship is
unhealthy. I told her how I felt about
her, and we've been talking a lot less
lately.... She told me she needs time to
figure stuff out, and she doesnt know how
she feels ab me. She started having
feelings for me, so she says, but idk....
I even apologized for telling her how I
felt.... And how shes going through a lot
now, and told her maybe she shouldnt deal
with me for awhile... I think i'm in love
with her, even tho ive know her only for a
month and a half... I feel like I got too
attached way too fast.... She always told
me I was always there for her... And
after the "break" she called me over and
we cuddled all night.... Which was over a
week ago.... Ever since then, it seems
like shes pushing me back.... I have a
hard time not thinking about it.... I
feel like i've pushed her away by telling
her how I felt, even though she told me
she was happy that I told her..... Its
killing me that I dont talk to her as
much.... I feel so alone, I feel like i'm
ready to move on, ive only been in one
relationship which ended a few months
ago.... It lasted 7 months, and the girl
screwed me over. I dont think it has
anything to do with my looks, people
always say im cute and hott.... But
idk.... It seems like i'm always alone,
and I thought I had things going for me...
And now this.... I'm not sure what to
do... I feel so down all the time. I
could use any advice.
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midwest
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Mar 2005 Posts: 96 Location: ,
Take a Break Posted: 03-06-06 20:15pm
I quit drinking but I suggest maybe drink
a beer of your choice or two..
But dont get drunk. Just loosen up a
lil.. A haircut works too..
It will all work out..
:oops:
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cas0514
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 May 2006 Posts: 3 Location: texas
Posted: 05-03-06 11:07am
I personlly think that you need to sit
back and think about you and your future
goals for yourself. I know at this point
its hard to deal with but you need to
remember you just got out of a
realationship and she is still involved
in one. Im not saying you were a rebound
or even on the rebound for that matter,
but relax a bit. Life is a big board
game, and in order to play you need to
remember to bring alot of patience to the
table. You seem like a wonderful man, so
never degrade yourself because it may just
be her. Many people develope feelings
within a few weeks so dont thing any less
of yourself. Yes she may have said thank
you for telling her how you really felt
but dont you remember that saying, " you
want what you cant have"? Now that youve
place your cards on the table theres no
room to blush, all you can do is fold and
wait to see her next move. An believe me
she wont be making a move anytime soon
knowing what you have to offer already.
Women love a challenge!!! I hope all goes
well for you.
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