tigresacanela24
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Bad Husband Bad Father
Posted: 03-06-06 15:42pm
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Okay I am sick to death of my husband.
I told you guys that we are separated
right now bcos we've got a lot of issues
going on and i've essentially been staying
on my own for the past 2 mos of my
pregnancy. My husband came to stay with
me last week and help me out. Things
were going fine and first and he was
actually being helpful. I started to
think that things were going to work out
with us and then this blockhead *beep*
*beep* starts right back to his old ways
putting everything and everyone before his
family. Grrrr! Needless to say he's
gone again and I don't think that he's
coming back again! Bcos I don't think
i'll let him. Sorry, I just needed to
vent.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 03-06-06 16:35pm
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I am sorry to hear of your and your
hubby's problems, hun, but you have to
look at it this way....What is best for
your little skoot's future? If your
husband is going to not be there for you
during this time...The hardest time of
your pregnancy, is he going to be there
for your little one?
I will be honest with you...My husband has
all the sudden gone haywire in the last
two weeks. And I dont' know if he is
going to straighten up soon. My husband
has been making promises to me about doing
things with me and then not doing
them....Because of someone else. His
friends want to do stuff....But me????
All I want to do is be normal. We were
so used to the night life and because I
have stopped wanting that lifestyle he has
gotten board and goes out with our friends
without me.
I have to tell myself that if he doesn't
straighten up I am going to have to leave
him because when he does that to our baby
I am only going to blame myself.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-06-06 16:56pm
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Yeah that's part of hubby's problem.
Friends, job, everything comes before me
and the blue m&m. I'm sick of it.
I don't understand how any one person
could be that selfish. I'm his wife and
he acts like it's unimportant, you know?
Grrrr!!! Sometimes I wish that I had
never met him at all!! But then again I
wouldn't be having the blue m&m....Oh
well, from every bad thing comes something
good I guess...
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michelle1981
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Posted: 03-06-06 16:56pm
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That's terrible! How are you doing on
your own?
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-06-06 17:02pm
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I'm a little depressed and a whole lot
tired, but other than that i'm doing
pretty good. I have work to keep my mind
off of things, plus i'm doing everything
in the baby's room myself (making picture
frames, crocheting blankies, painting
trim, stitching bibs, etc). That
definitely helps me to not think about it
so much. Plus he does send me money to
buy things for the baby (not a lot but it
helps). Plus i've got my dogs! They're
better company than my husband anyway.
:lol:
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 03-06-06 17:12pm
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Lol bout the doggies ya he sounds like a
real butt and it would really suck for him
to b in and out of your lil m&ms life
cuz thats confusing for lil kids. Im sure
youll do awesome w/o him!
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-06-06 17:14pm
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I really hope so. I'm just supremely
angry at him for being such an @$$ (oops,
sorry). I just really wanted him to be
a good father for the m&m and now I
figure out that he's really a pathetic
loser. He was always selfish but I
didn't think that he could ever be this
selfish before. Maybe i'll beat him up!
:lol:
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michelle1981
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-06-06 17:25pm
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| michelle1981
wrote: | | you go girl
lol |
yeah i'll go, probably straight to jail if
I try to beat him up, but hey, I can
always claim pregnancy psychosis :wink:
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michelle1981
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Posted: 03-06-06 17:35pm
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| tigresacanela24
wrote: | | michelle1981
wrote: | | you go girl
lol |
yeah i'll go, probably straight to jail if
I try to beat him up, but hey, I can
always claim pregnancy psychosis
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lmao
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sandyallen
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Posted: 03-06-06 17:35pm
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I am sooooo sorry things are not going so
well in your relationship and all some men
are just boys, it is just that their toys
are more expensive when you get older.
It is bad enough that your hormones are
out of wack with being prenant and all but
puttimg up with that stuff too is
terrible, hopefully, he will wake up and
smell the coffee before it is to late
because a baby needs both of you, I do not
care what anyone says! I do not like to
de a pregnant mother-to-be under all of
this stress as she is under enough
already, it is not good for you or the
baby to-be.
Please take care and breathe!
We are here for you!
It is o.K. To vent, I have big
shoulders!
What kind of dogs do you have?(i am an
animal lover)
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-06-06 17:46pm
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Yeah I figure it's better to vent than to
sit at home seriously depressed, ya know?
You ladies are the greatest support
system (much better than my non pregnant
friends who have no idea what i'm going
through right now physically and
emotionally). I'm glad that I found this
site! Thanks so much you all for letting
me vent and responding to my freak
session, all this understanding makes me
feel a little better about the whole
situation. Knowing that somebody
understands how hard it is just to be
pregnant, let alone dealing with colossal
marital and work stress is really
gratifying. Okay, i'm getting all
emotional now...Sniff. Hugs and kisses
to all my efriends!! :)
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michelle1981
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Posted: 03-06-06 17:49pm
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*group hug*
i'm here :wink:
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sandyallen
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Posted: 03-06-06 17:53pm
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I still want to hear about your dogs,
after all they are your children too!
Thank goodness we do not have to give
birth to them but we are just as
responsible for them.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-06-06 18:00pm
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| sandyallen
wrote: | | i still want to hear about
your dogs, after all they are your
children too! Thank goodness we do not
have to give birth to them but we are just
as responsible for
them. |
i have one amstaff mix and one pure
amstaff (pits). They are my babies!!
I've had the oldest one (2yrs 1 mo old)
since she was 6 wks. They are the
greatest things that ever happened in my
life!!! They know when i'm sad, or when
I need to play. They are so sensitive to
my moods. My girl will climb up to stand
on my lap when i'm crying and lick my face
(it's yucky but it always makes me smile)
and then she'll lay down right beside me
and whine until I stop and hug her. It's
like me feeling bad makes her feel bad
too. My boy dog is such a trip. He
knows how to give kisses so he'll do that
if I cry and then chase his tail so i'll
laugh at him. Then they'll get their
rope and bring it to me to play three way
tug of war...
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yellow ribbon
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-07-06 08:21am
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Yeah, they're my first real babies.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 03-07-06 09:36am
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| tigresacanela24
wrote: | | yeah that's part of hubby's
problem. Friends, job, everything comes
before me and the blue m&m. I'm
sick of it. I don't understand how any
one person could be that selfish. I'm
his wife and he acts like it's
unimportant, you know? Grrrr!!!
Sometimes I wish that I had never met him
at all!! But then again I wouldn't be
having the blue m&m....Oh well, from
every bad thing comes something good I
guess... |
i know how you feel, my hubby was so
wonderful at first and sooo supportive and
now he does everything for everyone else.
I do know how you feel. Although mine
still lives at home but I have to worry
about him not coming home or staying out
all night. Again I know how you feel.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-07-06 16:06pm
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Babies turn some men into supreme jerks.
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