Joined: 23 Jan 2006 Posts: 46 Location: New Jersey, USA
Male Impotence.. Posted: 03-07-06 14:03pm
My Dr. Told me my best chance of
conceiving was monday. I tried to bd with
dh last night but he couldn't perform. We
tried 3 times (10pm, 2am & 6:30 this
morning) things started out o.K. He could
get an erection but it wouldn't last. He
didn't ejaculate any of the 3 times but I
did feel a little of something come out
each time (sorry if this is 2 much info)
do you still think I could get pregnant?
I'm so devasted because I know I was at
the peak of my ovulation. I know it's not
his fault & I don't want to be mad at
him but, aghhh it's so frustrating! He's
had this problem before when he knew I was
ovulating. I think he feels alot of
pressure because he knows how important
the timing is so I don't even tell him
when i'm ovulating anymore. So I don't
think that was the case this time. Is it
safe to use viagra when ttc or does that
effect the sperm?
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scruffles
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 84 Location: new york
Posted: 03-07-06 16:54pm
I know exactly how you feel. Me and my
husband had the same problem.
Don’t tell him you are ovulating.
Basically try to make it romantic and nice
and try to have sex without the added
pressure that you are ovulating. Yes,
keep track of your ovulation but don’t
tell him you are that way its easier and
he feels less stress or less of a burden
and it wont affect his erection.
Last month the same thing happened with me
and my husband, I kept applying pressure
on him because I was ovulating and he
couldn’t do it on the most important
days. Of course, nothing happened last
month. This month was different basically
I just told him what day we would start
trying but didn’t say anything about
ovulation. We were able to do it from two
to three days prior to ovulation all the
way through yesterday, which is great.
Just don’t pressure him and don’t tell
him when you are ovulating.
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lovablepetsworld
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Aug 2005 Posts: 615 Location: singapore
Posted: 03-07-06 23:35pm
I guess the men are stressed. Maybe dun
tell them the motive of sex. Just crawl
on them n seduce them to bed u.
I do that at times, I have to arouse my
husband to get him into the mood. He's
got a thinking and stressful head, I get
scared that the sperm quality might not be
good when the man is stressed up, just
like the woman.
So it's important both of u r enjoying the
sex moment together n not stressing it
out.......
Have a lovely evening with light music,
warm shower for the lady n cool shower for
the man. Man taking warm shower must wait
atleast 30 mins to an hour to cool the
heat, so that the sperm is good. I read
this somewhere...
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smurfsgirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 196 Location: PA
Posted: 03-08-06 00:05am
I agree with the girls above just don't
tell him when you are ovulating. Just
catch him off gaurd and really suprise him
with something sexy. My hubby on the
other hand is more into this whole
ovulating thing than I am ever since we
started ttc, he wants to know all the info
I learn. It is kinda cute but at time
he drives me nuts cuz hes like come on
lets go try to make a baby all the time.
Ahhh I guess I should be happy though.
Here is a website for you ? On viagra.
Good luck **lots of baby dust**
Hmmm. The link won't work anyhow it says
that it is not good for fertility for men
when trying to start a family. But I do
believe this is intended towards men who
use it on a daily basis.
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hopefulin2006
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2005 Posts: 58
In the Mood Posted: 03-09-06 12:20pm
I think that I am fortunate that my
husband is always up for sex. In the
mood is never a problem. The first month
we started trying, however was very
strained. I took things way too
seriously and made the mistake of talking
to my husband about ovulation and what
days would be the best and positions, blah
blah blah. Nothing worse than that for a
mood killer. He basically told me as
nice as he could that he didn't need to
know the motives and reason behind it.
He just needed to know when to be there.
He also requested that we not schedule it
and 'get er done' but to actually get into
it. So, we went back to our normal sex
life and have had a great time since then.
Although he didn't have a problem
performing, I think that when words like
baby, ovulation, fertility, etc. Get into
their head, it is hard for them to
concentrate on just enjoying the moment.
