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Posted: 03-08-06 13:02pm

I'm 20 years old, I had a terrible incident that happened to me when I was only 16 years old. The incident left me infertile..Or so the doctor told me. I am now 4 weeks pregnant and overjoyed that I can conceive but so depressed that the timing is not appropriate in order for me to raise this child it's best. I will be haveing a surgical abortion done in 3 weeks. Not only am I overwhelmed and feeling guilty, but I am scared this will effect my future chances with having children.
I'm looking for somebody with an empathetic heart to relate with meand tell me in all honesty if this is the right decision. I've never been one to ever even consider the idea...But it seems right for now. Looking for reassurance and advice and someone to tell me the side effects of this procedure.
Thank you for you time.
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Re: Sad And Scared
Posted: 03-08-06 13:05pm

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i'm 20 years old, I had a terrible incident that happened to me when I was only 16 years old. The incident left me infertile..Or so the doctor told me. I am now 4 weeks pregnant and overjoyed that I can conceive but so depressed that the timing is not appropriate in order for me to raise this child it's best. I will be haveing a surgical abortion done in 3 weeks. Not only am I overwhelmed and feeling guilty, but I am scared this will effect my future chances with having children.
I'm looking for somebody with an empathetic heart to relate with meand tell me in all honesty if this is the right decision. I've never been one to ever even consider the idea...But it seems right for now. Looking for reassurance and advice and someone to tell me the side effects of this procedure.

Thank you for you time.
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Re: Sad And Scared
Posted: 03-08-06 13:09pm

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Posted: 03-08-06 16:22pm

I ran across your problem while looking for something else. I thought I read right now is not a good time for you to have a child and your thinking about terminating this pregnancy. I'm just asking you to really think hard about this decision before it is made. I know being a mother is hard, I have four. I don't care when you have a child, it never seems like the right time. To me this is a gift from god, especially for people that was not suppose to be able to conceive. As long as the child has your time, love and some good guidance. Just think hard, that is the most precious gift. The love between a mother and child is one can never describe.
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