i'm a 17 year old guy, student in the last
year of my a-levels.
I have a girlfriend, and before I got with
her I was a virgin. She's had a serious
boyfriend before me, and is pretty
experienced when it comes to sex.
We've only had sex once, about a week ago.
Being my first time, naturally it didn't
last very long for me lol. But now i'm
nervous that it's guna be like this a lot
until I get into the swing of it, and
because of this i've obviously taken a hit
to my confidence, and so because of that
i'm thinking i'm not guna be any good next
time etc... Basically it's a pretty
vicious circle lol.
Basically, was just hoping anybody could
give me any advice or tips to:
a) become more confident in the bedroom
b) stop myself from cumming so quickly!
Any help would be cool!
Tj
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dfbarnes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Feb 2006 Posts: 18 Location: florida
Posted: 03-10-06 16:59pm
Don't worry about it, my first time lasted
about 10 seconds. Two good things:
1. It lasts a little longer every time
you do it
2. You can do it shortly after your
finished, and the second time lasts a long
time
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junkyard_dog30
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Mar 2006 Posts: 8
Posted: 03-11-06 00:22am
It's perfectly normal to be nervous in the
bedroom when you're just starting out.
You can feign confidence but they can
smell your fear. Lol... My best advice
is to not try and hide your concern but
instead show her that you're trying: use a
thicker condom (or a condom, if you're not
using one), give her lots of foreplay
attention with your fingers and, if you're
adventerous, your tongue... After 15 or
so minutes of that, do your thing.
Practice makes perfect. :)
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Kiemister
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 136 Location: ,
Listen Up Posted: 04-03-06 23:24pm
Just cum during foreplay. By time ur
ready to get in the sack, you will be hard
and will go for a long time. Works fore
me 100% of the time, guarenteed or your
money back!
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cmilah
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2006 Posts: 33
Posted: 04-04-06 20:48pm
dfbarnes
wrote:
1. It lasts a little longer every time
you do it
wrong.
If your short endurance continues, take
these following pieces of advice into
consideration:
exercise
eat well
kegel exercises
drink water
have confidence
foreplay
jerk off before you know you will have
sex. No less than 15 minutes before sex,
no more than 2 hours. Just like kiemister
said to do. It will definitely help
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Kiemister
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 136 Location: ,
Posted: 04-05-06 23:02pm
cmilah
wrote:
dfbarnes
wrote:
1. It lasts a little longer every time
you do it
wrong.
If your short endurance continues, take
these following pieces of advice into
consideration:
exercise
eat well
kegel exercises
drink water
have confidence
foreplay
jerk off before you know you will have
sex. No less than 15 minutes before sex,
no more than 2 hours. Just like
kiemister said to do. It will definitely
help
yeah I should have mentioned 15 mins b4.
Umm... 2 hours? Thats kinda long. Try
within 15-45 mins. Plus, the longer the
foreplay, usually the more intimate the
experience. If u want some tips on some
great foreplay, u can do what I do! It
can be summed up in two words, whipped
cream.... =-) spray it from the crease of
her breasts all down to in her inner
thighs. If u need more in depth detail
about my tricks add me on aim, kiemyster
or msn, kiemis
ter@hotmail.Com.
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