Please Help!!!!tell Me What Do U Think of My Problem: Posted: 03-12-06 09:31am
Hi guys, this is my problem:
I am almost 15 and I have a crush on a
boy who is 17 but he had gone a year
earlier to school, so next year he will be
studying at college.
He is very mature, funny, sweet, kind and
gentle and we're getting on very well. In
fact I think he's really into me. He's a
very good student he cares about his
studies and he's also very cute.
But I worry about sth: as he is older than
me I wonder if he has already had sex.
And if he hasn't yet(which is more
possible), has he ever read magazines like
:"playboy" and all. Has he watched porn
movies? And if he has does he like all
that stuff?Please tell me!
I mean I find all this normal for a boy at
his age, but i'm afraid if he compares me
with those women. I mean, i'm really
beautiful, but i'm more a teenager than a
woman. I'm really worrying about this.
What if he likes them more than me?
Please help me!!!
Thanks in advance
lots of lovexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
eliana emma
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 03-14-06 11:09am
Guys like to look at that stuff but most
men do not compare their lover to a girl
in a magazine.When you get older you will
understand better.It is most likely
nowadays that he has had sex already but
there is a chance he has not.You need to
sit down and have a talk with him about
how he feels about you,if he has had
sex,been tested and so on.Only then will
you feel better about this!
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penelope67
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 114 Location: NH
Posted: 03-14-06 14:31pm
Definitely..........What she said
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 03-14-06 14:41pm
You know,it's funny people can give others
advise but can't help themselves! Lol
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penelope67
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 114 Location: NH
Posted: 03-14-06 15:38pm
Yeah-everyone is educated in different
areas, thats why I love these forums-you
can learn about many different things you
have no idea about, but you can help other
people who have no idea about what you are
an expert on. And then there are just
idiots. Haha
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Morning_Glory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 207 Location: NE Ohio
Posted: 03-14-06 23:46pm
Lautie, if he thinks your cute just as you
are, I don't think he's comparing you to
some picture he's seen in a magazine.
Your not looking at him and comparing him
to men you see on television, are you?
Most teenage boys that I know are just so
excited that a girl they think is cute is
talking to them that that is enough.
So relax and don't worry about what he's
possibly looked at. He sounds like a
nice guy from what you've posted that you
should try to get to know him and what he
likes that doesn't involve nudity in
magazines, movies or in person.
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Lauttie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 8 Location: Manchester
Posted: 03-16-06 09:51am
Than u a lot guys!!!
I guess you're right-of course I don't
compare him with famous actors. I feel a
lot better now. Thanks a lot!
