I'm 54 and never could even
get a date! I've had to hang it up and
accept the fact that I will be alone for
the rest of my life... I've never been in
a relationship, I've always been the nice
guy who is "just like a brother" to all
females I've ever known. I figure if
nothing has happened yet, it probably
won't. Not getting any younger. Don't let
this happen to you. Trust me....you DON'T
want to end up like
me!
There is always a reason why a man don't
get to have women after. I dated
particulary I dated men in the lates 30's
who has never been married and i was able
to understand why they didn't had gf's.
They were not bad people at all but some
were very unatractive physically (and
physical beauty it's a lot you can do
about it e.g. if you are overweight then
you can loose weight, get a nice hair cut
and so on..) Other were attractive
physically but then had a weird
personality, other impotency issues and so
on. I just want to make you aware of that
because when a girl oh you are so nice but
no thanks for a relationship there is
something she doesn't like about you and
she is not going to tell you the thruth to
not offend you.
Guyz. I ve got the solution to your
misery. look for David De Angelo Dating
Guru. You ll get more women than you can
handle!
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New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 20 Location: Duval County, FL USA
Lol Posted: 06-26-07 21:00pm
Oh Honey, I alreayd know I'ma be single
FOREVER AND ETERNITY! I'm a 14 yr old with
an 8mnth old kid. I'm in my senior eyar of
highschool, homeschooled and don't relaly
amke alot of friends anyways ebcause no
one wants to tlak after they find out I
have a daughter. Imagine me having a
boyfriend (or girlfriend, i swing both
ways) who would accept me for me and love
my daughter like their own. I doubt it
will ever happen. But you have good
qualitites, and you shouldn't be so
nervous.
I don't know what your prefences are, but
you should see past beauty and look for
someone who's smart and lvoes you. Because
you cna always fix things when you're
considered unattractive, but bad
personality is in the soul, and a leapord
cannot change it's spots.
All I cna say is, have faith and good
courage. If you like a girl, take a deep
breathe and just tell her so. The worst
she can do is say no, and then just mov
eon. There's alot of other women out
there, and eventually you will find one
perfect for you, who meets your standards
and you meet theirs.
-Maleyah ; "Babigurl"
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lmv7777
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2007 Posts: 4 Location: florida
This Used to Be Me Posted: 06-27-07 02:26am
i know exsactly how most of the posters
felt on this forum. i had never even
kissed a girl until i turned 18 and that
kiss was a sham it ended up the girl was
using me to make someone jelous. i was
really shy didnt really go out much.
stayed at home playing video games and
kept to myself. i felt as if i was never
going to find love or even a relationship.
i am now 21 and i feel a renowned
confidence when i approach someone. you
cannot let women who are not attracted to
you keep you down and you cannot let a
group have so much control over your
emotions. a long time ago i felt the same
way. like no girl would ever go out with
me these feelings heightened by my first
relationship. but you cannot let bad
experiences ruin your life. no girls used
to want to talk to me. i was the "freak" i
was overweight and unhealthy. i was the
least popular kid in school and i was even
teased and known for being it. and one day
my life changed. i woke up one morning and
told myself that i would change. not for
anyone else but because i wanted to make
my life better. i lost over 80 lbs with
diet and excersize over the course of 6
months and i began going out more. take a
group of friends. or anyone that you know
and just take a day to go out and have
fun. the more you think about whether or
not you are going to be in a relationship
the more it is going to consume your life.
and you have self control. you the most
control of your emotions and if you
continue to feel like your life is
meaningless without someone to share it
with you need to think again. there is no
replacement for companionship but this
should not be an excuse to sulk. its only
going to make the situation worse. i took
one day and i decided i would better
myself. and if the situation presents
itself and you have chance to make a new
friend do it. the water gets colder if you
are wading in. next time just jump! not on
emotions and dont go too crazy lol but
keep in mind that theres a lot of people
in the world and if someone is not
interested move on. i know its hard like i
said ive been there myself. i have felt
almost in love with a lot of girls that i
meet only to learn they are not interested
in me but think about it. who cares? with
your personality she is the only one
missing out. i used to think that i
coulnd't live without a girlfriend and i
do admit it is depressing thinking that
you will never be with someone. but is it
really worth beating yourself over? no. i
dont think so. opportunities come once in
a blue moon and being shy should not be
the reason you lose mrs right. i know by
experience i'm pretty sure ive missed
plenty of opportunities. just keep your
head up and keep in mind that you live
your life for yourself. theres always
people that are going to be influential
along the way but ultimatly you are the
one that is going to benefit. all you have
to do is believe in youself and you can do
anything. (iknow its from a movie lol) but
its the truth. realizing that i needed to
change is the best thing that ever
happened to me but you have to want to
change. no one can do it for you
