Hi...Ive been lingering around here for a
bit since I had what I guess I could call
a pregnancy scare about a month ago..Had a
few pos tests followed by a few neg
ones..And a very ignorant doctor. But
yeah, im pregnant. About 15 and a half
weeks along they said. Im going in for a
scan as soon as I can make an appointment
I suppose.
My problem is not telling my parents about
this..They will support whatever I do..Im
a freshman in college..18 years old. My
problem is im terrified about telling my
boyfriend. Its a long distance thing when
im at school, and im crazy about him. I
got pregnant on birth control so I know he
will prob be totally shocked...And
honestly I dont think he will be happy. I
know we both arent at the right time in
our lives to deal with this but its too
late for that now. So..Any tips on
breaking the news to him?
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yellow ribbon
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
Posted: 03-14-06 10:15am
Easters coming up maybe a lil baby bunny
or something. If you seem happy maybe he
wont be quite as upset. I think if he
thinks your freaked out then he will freak
out so you have to be the calm one.
Congrats and im sure it will all work out.
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Jennie25
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Ontario
Posted: 03-14-06 13:05pm
I think macymommas idea is cute! And I
also agree...Don't be all freaked out
around him. I'm sure if he really loves
you he'll support ya no matter what. Good
luck
and congrats?!
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diamondsz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Oct 2005 Posts: 3173 Location: , Candyland-Canada
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:10pm
I dont know what to say im married and
hubby wanted kids I didnt at first but you
love them when they come out, he more
than likely will be schocked and may be
terrified but he will grow on the idea
that he is having a kid you have to
remeber you didnt get preggo on ur own.
Well I wish you luck and hopefully the
news blows over well!!