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alex06
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I Mite B Pregnant
Posted: 03-14-06 12:49pm
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Hiya every1 im 15 n I mite b pregnant im
reli scared because my mum sed if I eva
got pregnant that she wud kill me. Can
ne 1 help me
cheers :(
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Jennie25
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Posted: 03-14-06 12:56pm
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1) go to the teen preg forum...You might
get a lot less grief for having sex so
young
2) use normal spelling or you are really
going to get critisized
3)what exactly do you want help with??
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michelle1981
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Re: I Mite B Pregnant
Posted: 03-14-06 13:00pm
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| alex06
wrote: | hiya every1 im 15 n I mite b
pregnant im reli scared because my mum sed
if I eva got pregnant that she wud kill
me. Can ne 1 help me
cheers :( |
oh god, not another one!!!
Talk like that over there and they will
eat you alive!!!
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alex06
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:04pm
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Well I want to know how I could tell my
mum because she told me if I ever got
pregnant that hit would kill me im soooo
scared as my boyfriend is 18
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Jennie25
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:10pm
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Good job on the normal english, people
will be alot more willing to help you if
you talk normal like that..Makes ya seem
alot more mature ;)
as for telling you mom...That could be
hard..Maybe you'd be more comfortable
someone was with you..An aunt, a
girlfriend, neighbour..Someone you trust
and can tell frist. If they're there
maybe she won't over-react. And they can
be a sort of unbaised barrier between you
two. Thats what i'd do in your shoes
atleast.
Have you told ur bf yet? And his parents?
If they're more supportive maybe you
could stay there while your mom has time
to cool off and process everything...
Good luck
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alex06
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:19pm
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Yeh thankz. Well I have told my closest
friend and thats it I got to have a chat
with me boyfriend, and ur advice sounds
great. But whats scares me is that me
boyfriend is 18 and ive only just turned
15.
I were drunk though and I have had sex
before and not got pregnant so I didnt
think this time would matter.
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Jennie25
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:24pm
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Well its all in timing and I guess
everything just lined up ..And here you
are. Whats done is done and you've just
got to try and deal with it the best way
you know how. I'm assuming you live in
the us or england?! Am I right? ..Either
way I don't know much about the laws out
there and what will happen with the age
difference between you and your bf.
Maybe somebody else here does?
But before you get totally worked up about
all this..You said you might be preg..Have
you tested or anything? If not, you
should asap just so you know for sure and
you can start taking vitamins and seeing a
doc to make sure everything is okay.
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alex06
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:30pm
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Yeh ur rite I live in the uk, the thng is
is over here its illegal to have sex under
the age of 16 and me bf could get done 4
having under age sex with me. Nope I avnt
tested yet I were thinking of giving me
periods a little bit more time to come
like because im about 1 week late.
But if I am pregnant I dont want to keep
it.
Im jus afraid me bf will finish me if I
tell him.
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Jennie25
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:34pm
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So would you have an abortion if your
preg? ..And I konw some people might jump
on me for saying this....But if you would
have a abortion, could you go w/out your
mom? Would she have to konw? Like you
need permission or whatever???
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alex06
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:42pm
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Yeh definetly abortion is probably my only
way out of this mess. Over here you can
have an abortion without your parents
finding out which is good. I just got to
go to this special clinic and that. Do u
thik it would be selfish of me to have an
abortion?
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:45pm
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| alex06
wrote: | | yeh definetly abortion is
probably my only way out of this mess.
Over here you can have an abortion without
your parents finding out which is good.
I just got to go to this special clinic
and that. Do u thik it would be selfish
of me to have an
abortion? |
i think your best bet out of this "mess"
as you call it, would have been to use
some birth control. Did you ever think of
that? Probably not because you are an
immature little girl. It angers me off
that you call a pregnancy a "mess". You
should be ashamed of yourself. If you
aren't ready for the consequences of sex
then don't do it. Simple huh?
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alex06
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:47pm
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It is a mess im 15 and pregnant come on,
and I usually do use birth control but I
didnt think one time would matter.
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:50pm
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| alex06
wrote: | | it is a mess im 15 and
pregnant come on, and I usually do use
birth control but I didnt think one time
would matter. |
it's your fault that you are 15 and
pregnant, is it not? If you think that
one time won't matter, you obviously don't
know much. Don't have sex.
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alex06
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:51pm
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It is my fault I know it is I aint
denieing that I only came on here for some
support not for people to have a go at me.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:54pm
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You're having an abortion because you
think your boyfriend won't want you if he
finds out your pregnant? That's retarded,
have some responsibility. You don't have
to have an abortion, this was your
decision, therefor it's your fault, don't
use abortion as a way out. That's not
fair.
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alex06
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:56pm
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Why is it retarded and why is it unfair?
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:56pm
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| alex06
wrote: | | it is my fault I know it is
I aint denieing that I only came on here
for some support not for people to have a
go at me. |
well, sorry, but that's just something
you're going to have to deal with. It
annoys me that you are calling it a
"mess". If you are too immature to deal
with the consequences, you are too
immature to be having sex. Am I right?
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alex06
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:58pm
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I always have had birth control so dont
criticise me just because I didnt use
anything this once.
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:58pm
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| alex06
wrote: | | why is it retarded and why
is it unfair? |
it's unfair to the baby that your little
immature @ss created. That's how.
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alex06
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Posted: 03-14-06 13:59pm
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Well I dont care because its my body and
my life
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