Rodge
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Posted: 03-14-06 17:58pm
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| macysmama
wrote: | | um no when u pop a kid out
then ill except your opinion
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i have no intention of ever giving birth.
How does this invalidate my opinion?
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:01pm
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I dunno but im 39 weeks pregnant and
really dont like you that much and im in a
bad mood so :p
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:04pm
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What are you even doing on here anyway
rodge? There are guys on here that have
babies, or their girlfriends are pregnant
but you and mr. Burns just seem to like
coming here and making trouble.
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Rodge
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:06pm
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Okay. :)
i do live with children, you know. It's
been just me and mum with the kids since
their dad buggered off. So i've been
puked on and peed on and stayed up all
night. It's just that none of them
emerged from my vagina. :p
good luck with your new baby. We seem to
be having a lot of late ones around here,
don't we?
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rasuyoung
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:08pm
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Congrats to you, macysmama :)
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:16pm
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Oh alright just wondering :p
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Rodge
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:18pm
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I wasn't aware I was making trouble. I'm
just... Disagreeing with some people.
I'll leave if you like, although I do like
it here.
(.P.S: i'm not a guy. :p )
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:24pm
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Ur not a guy? Lol
well its not up to me if u leave lol
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wannababy25
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:25pm
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Wow! I feel so bad for this girl!!! I
would hope that if I were her I would be
able to come here for support. Those that
said she should not have come here if she
didn't want peoples opinions...That's just
wrong. I'm sorry...She came here for
advice because she obviously has no one
else to go to and is afraid. She's
worried that her mother will tear a strip
off of her...So what do some of you do???
You rip into her!! I had sex at that age
(it's legal here at 14 years). I might
have considered the situation a mess too
if I had been pregnant at 15. She
obviously also knows the seriousness of
the situation...And who are we to judge???
She came here for advice...And support.
And btw...Even if she were on birth
control...Pregnancy is still possible.
So...To alex06:
first take a pregnancy test before saying
anything to anyone. Second, as for
abortion...I'm very happy to hear that
you're not still considering it. A lot of
grown women who want to be preggo still
have a fear of it...So that's completely
normal. Thing is...If you ever see
yourself having kids in your
future...You'll almost definitely live to
regret aborting this one. You'll always
wonder what they might look like on their
first birthday, their second, their third
and so on... I was 11 when I practically
raised my little brother. My home life
was terrible and my parents would leave me
to look after my couple month old brother
by myself for weeks at a time(completely
illegal I might add...And not
advisable!!!). His crib was even in my
room and I got up with him every
night...Not my mom. But...I
managed...Even at that age. At 15...With
this being your own baby...You'd be amazed
what you could accomplish and how much
love you could have for this infant.
Someone here mentioned adoption...In my
opinion...This would be even harder for me
to deal with as the years progressed.
Especially when you are ready for
kids...You'd have to live with the fact
that your first child is being raised by
some other family and you'll never get to
see him or her. You never know...Maybe
your mom or your bf's mom would want to
raise the baby until you were ready.
As for telling your mom...It's hard for us
to judge how she might react 'cause we
have no idea what she's like.
However...When a mother says she'd kill
you for getting preggo...She's usually
saying this as a scare tactic so that
you'd take precautions and not let that
happen because she loves you. I wonder
how old she was when she first got preggo?
Might be that she was in your shoes once
and doesn't want you to have to go through
the same?
Whatever you decide ... Let it be your
decision. You should not let anyone tell
you what's wrong or right. This is your
life and your body and you're the one who
has to live with it. I hope it turns out
that your not preggo...But you gotta buy a
test!!! Thing is...When you stress...You
can cause your period to be even later and
at 15...Your periods will not all come on
time. Hormones and many other factors can
affect your cycle at this age. Pills and
dieting can also delay your periods (at
any age). So relax and stop stressin'!!
Take a test and let me know how things go.
I am very sorry that some people jumped
down your throat when you were asking for
help. :( and they say you were the
immature one! Yeah right!
Take care and best of luck!!
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Rodge
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:30pm
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| hcobrunette06
wrote: | | ur not a guy? Lol
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no, really! Unless someone's been lying
to me for a very long time, i'm definitely
female. It's the name, isn't it?
Although I was mistaken for a guy several
times while going under my real name on
another board... :p
my base assumption for internet folks is
that they're girls. I don't know why.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:38pm
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Wow, yeah I definitely thought you were a
guy.
Haha
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:39pm
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Ok well now that I reallize you arnt a guy
(lmao) its a little different because at
least youve had periods and what not lol I
still think if she (or ne one else) wants
to descuss abortion they should go to the
abortion forum im a mommy and another on
the way and I just ahte that people hurt
babies even unborn ones
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Rodge
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:48pm
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Oh, I have periods. I've had periods
since I was nine. Great fun. :-p
it did end up being a debate, didn't it?
Oops.
(i like children, just not the idea of
giving birth to them. I don't really even
like the idea of sex, which probably sorts
out the pregnancy problem. I might
consider adoption or fostering once i've
got my life sorted out- probably older
kids, because generally people don't want
them. Right now, though, being an older
sister drives me nuts. The two youngest
are at that age where they've realised
they can answer back, and .Alexia (the
girl) is behaving like an angsty teenager.
You don't know hilarity until you've
heard a five-year-old flouncing to her
bedroom shouting about how much she hates
this family. And so ends the off-topic
tl:dr.)
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:49pm
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| Quote: | | ok well now that
I reallize you arnt a guy
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haha dani :p
yea I agree, you can probably expect to
get bad opinions on abortion over here, bc
these girls want their babies. :)
i hate the thought of it, if I were a
doctor I know I couldn't do it.
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Jennie25
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:53pm
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| rodge
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(.P.S: i'm not a guy. :p
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well then! Lol you should really put I am
a girl as ur location or something---its
really confuzing lol
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Rodge
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:58pm
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| jennie25
wrote: | | rodge
wrote: |
(.P.S: i'm not a guy. :p
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well then! Lol you should really put I
am a girl as ur location or
something---its really confuzing
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.That do ya? :p *points to location*
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:58pm
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You don't like the idea of sex? :o i've
never had it but I like the idea lol
i'm not a hoe don't worry :p
i think it's great that you want to adopt,
that makes me happy. Lol
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Rodge
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Posted: 03-14-06 19:07pm
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| hcobrunette06
wrote: | you don't like the idea of
sex? :o i've never had it but I like
the idea lol
i'm not a hoe don't worry :p
i think it's great that you want to adopt,
that makes me happy.
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i'm one of those people that think the
erect penis is the funniest sight in the
history of the world. I couldn't have sex
with that! *laugh*
i think I might be asexual anyway. People
are pretty, but... Meh.
Adoption is cool. More people should do
it.
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rasuyoung
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Posted: 03-14-06 19:08pm
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I just wanted to mention that i'm a girl,
too, in case my name on here causes any
gender confusion, haha. I'm rachel, and
i'm 20.
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