QueenBee2_3
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jan 2006 Posts: 194 Location: CT U.S.
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Posted: 03-14-06 17:04pm
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| cogoli
wrote: | | oh my goodness I wont't be
able to believe that if it happened to me.
Your all right. I need to go to the
dotors and find out whats really going on
with me. Maybe I should just get over it
and take a test. I know this might sound
silly to some of you.. But im alittle
shy to go to the dotors and find out with
wrong with me because im afraid what they
might think. I mean im only 20 yrs old.
Some people might think that im out of my
mind thinking I wanna have a baby this
young. Maybe my dotor is going to feel
the same way. I guess I really shouldn't
rush things im getting married 11 17 07
maybe I should wait until then. But I
know alot of you out there can understand
once you found the person you want to
spend the rest of your life with its only
natuarl to want to start our family. I
mean I live with him we are about to buy
our first house together.. We both love
kids and want to have a little one of us.
Im in school to be a hairstlyist and he
has a wondful job. Maybe if I could tell
the dotor all this i'd feel better. But
thanks everyone to take the time out to
read whats on my mind. And replying.
Do you think I should be scared of telling
the doctor I want a
baby?? |
you don't need your dr's permission or
approval to have or want to have a baby as
long as you're healthy. If your dr
disapproves and thinks you're too young or
whatever, who cares? He's not paid to
care about that, he's paid to care about
your health. Your ob works for you, he's
not your parents. So get over your worry
about what your ob will judge. And if he
does judge you or treats you poorly
because he disagrees with how you live
your life then get a new ob who'll treat
you with respect.
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cogoli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 149 Location: Mass
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Posted: 03-14-06 17:37pm
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Thanks macy.. You made me feel alittle
better, but I hate to go back to this but
did ou have any of the sytoms I have??
And yes I am going to get a blood test I
just have to make an appointment
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yellow ribbon
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
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Posted: 03-14-06 17:53pm
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Im 39 weeks tomorrow I really dont
remember my first trimester lol
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SamanthaM
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Joined: 15 Dec 2005 Posts: 2079 Location: Mishawaka, Indiana
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:31pm
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About the ovulex...It sounds like it could
be alright, but you never know. Maybe ask
a doctor to see if they've heard anything
about it. Or maybe they could reccomend
something better to take. How long have
you been trying to get pregnant?
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BabyMa19
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Feb 2006 Posts: 24
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Cogli,
Posted: 03-15-06 08:43am
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It's funny how some things are so similar.
I am 20 and iam 14 wks preggo. I
recently bought my home on 10/17/05 and
got married 11/17/05. I've had alot of
people talk so much crap...But you know
what I say they not paying any of my
mortgage or any other of my bills so why
should they worry? It gets me upset. But
who cares. Who can say they've done all
the things I have graduted college, have
my professional career, have my own
home...So girl just do your thing. Don't
worry what anyone has to say. My last ob
doctor was an old lady and when I went to
her for the first time I was scared as
hell especially telling someone I didn't
know all my personal sexual life style.
When I told her how that was my first time
going to an ob she made me feel soooo
baddd she told me how I wasn't supposed to
be having sex, if my mom knew what age I
started having sex and how I just don't
know what type of diseases are out there
and all.. I was so shocked and scared
that when I went home I cried... That day
she gave me a perscription to get on birth
control. She didn't even ask me anything
about that, but just gave me it. I didn't
take it thank god... Because it wasn't
what I wanted... I wanted to be a mom
since I started playing with dolls.Lol my
husband that i'm with for already 6 years
also wanted a little one. So my mom
advised me to go to a different doctor.
She also gave me the best advice any
mother could give their daughter. She
told me don't ever let anyone put you
down. They don't know your
accomplishments and they don't know you!
I guess I can give you that advice as
well. So good luck with everything and do
not get bumbed out if your test come out
negative, because it's not when you want,
it's when the old man up there in heaven
wants and thinks that's going to be the
best for you. So leave it up to him.
Keep doing your best with it. Don't
stress either b/c stressing will make your
mind think youre pregnant, since you want
to be and you might even start to get
symptoms. (it happened to me) so just
relax and think of making love to your man
not just plain sex to have a baby... And
probably your wishes will come true. Good
luck!
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cogoli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 149 Location: Mass
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Posted: 03-15-06 10:02am
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Aww babymac it its a small world bcz thats
what happened to me the 1st time I went..
And you know what I did switch doctors and
the next did the same thing.. Thats why I
think im shy. But I am going to the test
2morrow.<doctor's test> and I guess
we'll see what happens.. But believe you
and me if I am I will be on here srceaming
my head off.. And then im going shopping!
I always tell everyone my baby will have
everything she/he will need by the time im
6 months.But 4 now im going to play it
cool and not get my hopes up... Say a
little something for me tonite!
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cogoli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 149 Location: Mass
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Posted: 03-16-06 11:50am
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Well everyone todays the day I have not
been looking forward to. I will just be
praying it says yes! But like always..
Everytime of the month when then this
happens.. I wont get my hopes up. But
like I said before if its a yes excuse me
if I dont tell you for a few days i'll be
busy shopping! Thanks again everybody and
I hope todays the day I find my baby!
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SamanthaM
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Joined: 15 Dec 2005 Posts: 2079 Location: Mishawaka, Indiana
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Posted: 03-16-06 16:31pm
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| cogoli
wrote: | | well everyone todays the day
I have not been looking forward to. I
will just be praying it says yes! But
like always.. Everytime of the month
when then this happens.. I wont get my
hopes up. But like I said before if its
a yes excuse me if I dont tell you for a
few days i'll be busy shopping! Thanks
again everybody and I hope todays the day
I find my
baby! |
good luck!!!!!!
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cogoli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 149 Location: Mass
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Posted: 03-16-06 17:20pm
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Awwwwwwwwwwww man I have to wait 24 hrs.
Blood test. But I guess I still have one
more nite a hope. Also one more nite of
prays.
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cogoli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 149 Location: Mass
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Posted: 03-20-06 11:18am
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Negative.. Its never going to happen to
me.. Sorry i' need to vent
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diamondsz
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Posted: 03-20-06 11:45am
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Dont stress have sex for fun have sex
everyday lol!! Sorry im late to post
anyways as far as age goes I got preggo at
19 with my first(i was already married)
ppl dont care they like to judge and thats
why I have few good friends as for the drs
they can go f*ck themsleves unless their
is something life threatening prohibiting
u to have a child. People are always
going to talk its just a matter of
ignoring them and being positive!!
I totally wish you luck as much as you
want to rip your hair out sometimes I love
my kids to death!!
Baby dust your way++++++++++++++
jess
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cogoli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 149 Location: Mass
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Posted: 03-20-06 14:34pm
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Thanks jess.. I wish it was that easy for
me, I have been try'n for almost two yrs.
I have an apointment the 28th. I'm just
going to put all my cards on the trouble.
Whatever they think I just don't care.
After this test I gave up try'n on my
own.. I have a question though for anyone
who will answer..Can a preg test be
negative if your bleeding? I went for a
run the other day and my period hit me in
the middle of it.. All 3 months I still
have all my sytoms.. Plus the day I got
my period it lasted about a day real heavy
with real bad cramps.. Then now I have
bearly any blood. Maybe im just try'n to
force my body to think im prego. I don't
know I guess thats just how much I want
it. But I took a test in feb too and that
was neg also. Could it still be possible?
If not what could be wrong with me?
Anyone relate?
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cogoli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 149 Location: Mass
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Posted: 03-25-06 14:25pm
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Got me a doc app to see whats going on
with me.. I posted about hcg levels
anyone know if it's low could that be the
reason my test are coming up neg?? And
does anyone believe in tarot readings?? I
had one done yesterday and she said I was
either prego or very fertile. She was so
excited about it. Everything else she
said was dead on. Im knid of if'y about
it myself, but what are the chances of me
being prego after all!?
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cogoli
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Mabel
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Posted: 03-25-06 17:36pm
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We would have no idea what your chances of
pregnancy could be. When is your doctor's
appointment?
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cogoli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 149 Location: Mass
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Posted: 03-25-06 17:39pm
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Thursday.. I wasn't ask'n u to tell me if
I am... I'm ask'n u what u thought
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Mabel
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Posted: 03-25-06 17:41pm
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I wouldn't give you the answer you want to
hear. I'd say your chances are slim to
none at this point. But i'm not a doctor
and I have no idea.
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cogoli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 149 Location: Mass
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Posted: 03-26-06 12:03pm
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Don't worry about what I want to hear..
Just be honest thats all I was
asking..Thankyou for you reply :)
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cogoli
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 149 Location: Mass
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Update
Posted: 04-18-06 15:33pm
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Well I found out I have pcos I started
medformin.. I'm hoping everything starts
to fall in place.. Im eating right i'm
taking my folic acid.. On a good note..
My period was very irruglar but last month
I got it on the 17th and yesterday I got
it!!! I'm hoping to ovulate!!! If anyone
has any advice on the pcos or medformin
please let me know!
:)
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Mabel
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Re: Update
Posted: 04-18-06 15:37pm
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| cogoli
wrote: | well I found out I have pcos
I started medformin.. I'm hoping
everything starts to fall in place.. Im
eating right i'm taking my folic acid..
On a good note.. My period was very
irruglar but last month I got it on the
17th and yesterday I got it!!! I'm
hoping to ovulate!!! If anyone has any
advice on the pcos or medformin please let
me know!
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i don't have any advice but I wanted to
wish you luck with the medication. I hope
this works out for you!
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