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QueenBee2_3

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Posted: 03-14-06 17:04pm

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oh my goodness I wont't be able to believe that if it happened to me. Your all right. I need to go to the dotors and find out whats really going on with me. Maybe I should just get over it and take a test. I know this might sound silly to some of you.. But im alittle shy to go to the dotors and find out with wrong with me because im afraid what they might think. I mean im only 20 yrs old. Some people might think that im out of my mind thinking I wanna have a baby this young. Maybe my dotor is going to feel the same way. I guess I really shouldn't rush things im getting married 11 17 07 maybe I should wait until then. But I know alot of you out there can understand once you found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with its only natuarl to want to start our family. I mean I live with him we are about to buy our first house together.. We both love kids and want to have a little one of us. Im in school to be a hairstlyist and he has a wondful job. Maybe if I could tell the dotor all this i'd feel better. But thanks everyone to take the time out to read whats on my mind. And replying. Do you think I should be scared of telling the doctor I want a baby??



you don't need your dr's permission or approval to have or want to have a baby as long as you're healthy. If your dr disapproves and thinks you're too young or whatever, who cares? He's not paid to care about that, he's paid to care about your health. Your ob works for you, he's not your parents. So get over your worry about what your ob will judge. And if he does judge you or treats you poorly because he disagrees with how you live your life then get a new ob who'll treat you with respect.
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cogoli

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Posted: 03-14-06 17:37pm

Thanks macy.. You made me feel alittle better, but I hate to go back to this but did ou have any of the sytoms I have?? And yes I am going to get a blood test I just have to make an appointment
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Posted: 03-14-06 17:53pm

Im 39 weeks tomorrow I really dont remember my first trimester lol
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Posted: 03-14-06 18:31pm

About the ovulex...It sounds like it could be alright, but you never know. Maybe ask a doctor to see if they've heard anything about it. Or maybe they could reccomend something better to take. How long have you been trying to get pregnant?
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BabyMa19

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Posted: 03-15-06 08:43am

It's funny how some things are so similar. I am 20 and iam 14 wks preggo. I recently bought my home on 10/17/05 and got married 11/17/05. I've had alot of people talk so much crap...But you know what I say they not paying any of my mortgage or any other of my bills so why should they worry? It gets me upset. But who cares. Who can say they've done all the things I have graduted college, have my professional career, have my own home...So girl just do your thing. Don't worry what anyone has to say. My last ob doctor was an old lady and when I went to her for the first time I was scared as hell especially telling someone I didn't know all my personal sexual life style. When I told her how that was my first time going to an ob she made me feel soooo baddd she told me how I wasn't supposed to be having sex, if my mom knew what age I started having sex and how I just don't know what type of diseases are out there and all.. I was so shocked and scared that when I went home I cried... That day she gave me a perscription to get on birth control. She didn't even ask me anything about that, but just gave me it. I didn't take it thank god... Because it wasn't what I wanted... I wanted to be a mom since I started playing with dolls.Lol my husband that i'm with for already 6 years also wanted a little one. So my mom advised me to go to a different doctor. She also gave me the best advice any mother could give their daughter. She told me don't ever let anyone put you down. They don't know your accomplishments and they don't know you! I guess I can give you that advice as well. So good luck with everything and do not get bumbed out if your test come out negative, because it's not when you want, it's when the old man up there in heaven wants and thinks that's going to be the best for you. So leave it up to him. Keep doing your best with it. Don't stress either b/c stressing will make your mind think youre pregnant, since you want to be and you might even start to get symptoms. (it happened to me) so just relax and think of making love to your man not just plain sex to have a baby... And probably your wishes will come true. Good luck!
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cogoli

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Posted: 03-15-06 10:02am

Aww babymac it its a small world bcz thats what happened to me the 1st time I went.. And you know what I did switch doctors and the next did the same thing.. Thats why I think im shy. But I am going to the test 2morrow.<doctor's test> and I guess we'll see what happens.. But believe you and me if I am I will be on here srceaming my head off.. And then im going shopping! I always tell everyone my baby will have everything she/he will need by the time im 6 months.But 4 now im going to play it cool and not get my hopes up... Say a little something for me tonite!
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cogoli

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Posted: 03-16-06 11:50am

Well everyone todays the day I have not been looking forward to. I will just be praying it says yes! But like always.. Everytime of the month when then this happens.. I wont get my hopes up. But like I said before if its a yes excuse me if I dont tell you for a few days i'll be busy shopping! Thanks again everybody and I hope todays the day I find my baby!
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Posted: 03-16-06 16:31pm

cogoli wrote:
well everyone todays the day I have not been looking forward to. I will just be praying it says yes! But like always.. Everytime of the month when then this happens.. I wont get my hopes up. But like I said before if its a yes excuse me if I dont tell you for a few days i'll be busy shopping! Thanks again everybody and I hope todays the day I find my baby!


good luck!!!!!!
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cogoli

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Posted: 03-16-06 17:20pm

Awwwwwwwwwwww man I have to wait 24 hrs. Blood test. But I guess I still have one more nite a hope. Also one more nite of prays.
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cogoli

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Posted: 03-20-06 11:18am

Negative.. Its never going to happen to me.. Sorry i' need to vent
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Posted: 03-20-06 11:45am

Dont stress have sex for fun have sex everyday lol!! Sorry im late to post anyways as far as age goes I got preggo at 19 with my first(i was already married) ppl dont care they like to judge and thats why I have few good friends as for the drs they can go f*ck themsleves unless their is something life threatening prohibiting u to have a child. People are always going to talk its just a matter of ignoring them and being positive!!

I totally wish you luck as much as you want to rip your hair out sometimes I love my kids to death!!

Baby dust your way++++++++++++++
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cogoli

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Posted: 03-20-06 14:34pm

Thanks jess.. I wish it was that easy for me, I have been try'n for almost two yrs. I have an apointment the 28th. I'm just going to put all my cards on the trouble. Whatever they think I just don't care. After this test I gave up try'n on my own.. I have a question though for anyone who will answer..Can a preg test be negative if your bleeding? I went for a run the other day and my period hit me in the middle of it.. All 3 months I still have all my sytoms.. Plus the day I got my period it lasted about a day real heavy with real bad cramps.. Then now I have bearly any blood. Maybe im just try'n to force my body to think im prego. I don't know I guess thats just how much I want it. But I took a test in feb too and that was neg also. Could it still be possible? If not what could be wrong with me? Anyone relate?
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cogoli

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Posted: 03-25-06 14:25pm

Got me a doc app to see whats going on with me.. I posted about hcg levels anyone know if it's low could that be the reason my test are coming up neg?? And does anyone believe in tarot readings?? I had one done yesterday and she said I was either prego or very fertile. She was so excited about it. Everything else she said was dead on. Im knid of if'y about it myself, but what are the chances of me being prego after all!?
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Posted: 03-25-06 17:34pm

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Posted: 03-25-06 17:36pm

We would have no idea what your chances of pregnancy could be. When is your doctor's appointment?
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cogoli

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Posted: 03-25-06 17:39pm

Thursday.. I wasn't ask'n u to tell me if I am... I'm ask'n u what u thought
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Posted: 03-25-06 17:41pm

I wouldn't give you the answer you want to hear. I'd say your chances are slim to none at this point. But i'm not a doctor and I have no idea.
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cogoli

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Posted: 03-26-06 12:03pm

Don't worry about what I want to hear.. Just be honest thats all I was asking..Thankyou for you reply :)
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cogoli

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Posted: 04-18-06 15:33pm

Well I found out I have pcos I started medformin.. I'm hoping everything starts to fall in place.. Im eating right i'm taking my folic acid.. On a good note.. My period was very irruglar but last month I got it on the 17th and yesterday I got it!!! I'm hoping to ovulate!!! If anyone has any advice on the pcos or medformin please let me know!
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Posted: 04-18-06 15:37pm

cogoli wrote:
well I found out I have pcos I started medformin.. I'm hoping everything starts to fall in place.. Im eating right i'm taking my folic acid.. On a good note.. My period was very irruglar but last month I got it on the 17th and yesterday I got it!!! I'm hoping to ovulate!!! If anyone has any advice on the pcos or medformin please let me know!

:)


i don't have any advice but I wanted to wish you luck with the medication. I hope this works out for you!
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