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Not Preggo Related But I Need to Vent Posted: 03-15-06 13:53pm
I posted this on the teen board
im really haertbroken I dont know how much
longer I can take of this bs
okay I need to vent and I hope u guys dont
mind
cams doing exceptionally well but this is
the second day there like oh he will be
coming home tommorrow, I dont want to
sound selfish but I want him home now I
dont want him to think that the nurses are
his mothers. So anyways I got my hopes up
cause he was supposed to come home today
and their doing it with me again I want to
cry I feel like I dont have a baby I wake
up at night sometimes and I think im
hearing him cry buts its bs im balling
right now cause I really really miss
him.
My husbands a nurse so it not like we dont
know what were doing and its not our first
child plus I would bring him back if
anything happened again I dont know what
the hell to do im so doing it lost and I
just want to health forum at someone
anyways ive tried to relax had a glass of
wine but its not helping ~~~cry~~~
jess
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matthieusmom
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Feb 2006 Posts: 244 Location: mississippi
Posted: 03-15-06 14:08pm
I'm sorry to hear that. I know you said
he had rsv and was put in icu and you said
they took him out of icu, did they not
give him his own room?? My son had rsv
and was put in the hospital and had to
have help breathing and had tubes all over
him, but once they put him in his own room
I was allowed to stay with him. I hope he
gets better soon so you can bring him home
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kirztensmummy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 326 Location: london
Posted: 03-15-06 14:12pm
Oh jess I understand where you're coming
from...It must be really hard for you and
the rest of your family to be away from
cam :( but I think its better for him to
stay there until he's really well enough
to come home to avoid frequent trips to
the hospital and although abel is an
experienced nurse its still different when
your surrounded by hospital equipment and
they could randomly check cam's
progress.
I know it is frustrating for you not to
look after him but you'll have all the
time in the world as soon as he's really
well.
I and the rest of the castle would always
be here for you.
Luv ya
~anna~
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diamondsz
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Posted: 03-15-06 14:18pm
Anna this is the thing (i know u have med
training too)
it just bloody annoying they said if all
his stats would stay norm for 24 hrs they
would keep him another day just to make
sure and I could bring him home with
prescriptions for ventolin. Anyways its
been about 55 hrs and hes doing fine hes
feeding meeting all the requirement but
peps said we may want to keep him in there
another day and I just found out peps
thought it was best that he does stay in
there so anyways I dont get a choice in
the descion and im really doing it pissed
I want him home and when hubby gets home
there is going to be fireworks hes medical
question pushed me too far now im his
godamn mother its not like hes with cam
all day long what an @$$!
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kirztensmummy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 326 Location: london
Posted: 03-15-06 14:27pm
diamondsz
wrote:
anna this is the thing (i
know u have med training too)
it just bloody annoying they said if all
his stats would stay norm for 24 hrs they
would keep him another day just to make
sure and I could bring him home with
prescriptions for ventolin. Anyways its
been about 55 hrs and hes doing fine hes
feeding meeting all the requirement but
peps said we may want to keep him in there
another day and I just found out peps
thought it was best that he does stay in
there so anyways I dont get a choice in
the descion and im really doing it pissed
I want him home and when hubby gets home
there is going to be fireworks hes medical
question pushed me too far now im his
godamn mother its not like hes with cam
all day long what an
@$$!
i think these are one of the few odd
situations were you gotta put your feet
down on peps the least thing he couldve
done is to hear you out and comfort ya
but back to the hospital business,
normally when its an infant they
especially if its concerning the
respiratory system they keep em for at
least 72 hours when theyre stable just to
be on the safe side and also to save their
a$$es prob if the illness persists they
could easily say that that they have had
observed cams b4 they considered putting
him to oral meds. I know you're having
the ump coz you feel like you're losing so
much time away from him and like your
intuition says you could look after him.
Just give it one more day and if they
start saying they need to keep to them for
another day you could always make a
complaint and take him home at the end of
the day you're his mum.
~hugz~
anna
