My G/f Might Be Pregnant And I Dont Know What to Do Posted: 03-16-06 22:08pm
Ok first of all im 18 and shes 15, we have
been keepin are relationship on the down
low, and we havent had sex...
About two weeks ago she told me she had
sex with her ex... She sead it was just a
spur of the moment thing and it wont
happen again. But now shes 5 days late
for her period, I have given her test and
they all came up negative except for 1.
This would have been only her second time
havin sex. She told me her first time was
2 years ago in witch she had a
misedcarrage.
I really love this girl and I dont know
what to do. She dosent beleave in
abortion and if she is pregnant she is
goin to get kicked out of the house.
I love her and I want to do every thing I
can to help her..
Plz somebody give me advise
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AshBoBash
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 277
Re Posted: 03-16-06 22:24pm
So both times of the only 2 times she had
sex she got pregnant?
If she dont want to have an abortion and
she wants to keep the baby and you want to
be there for her then it already sounds
like you already have a plan. She'll have
the baby and you'll be there for her.
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sandy78
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 81 Location: Cali.
Posted: 03-16-06 22:50pm
First off you two are really really young
and should not be doing any activity that
you do not know how to handle, esp. The
outcome of it.
Second, I would tell you to get as far
away from her as possible becasue she
seems like trouble. Any girl at 15 should
not be having sex and i'm not trying to
say anything bad about you, however, you
can see the large age gap and in fact it
may be illegal.
I bet there are many problems in the home,
try helping her out that way and not
having sex with someone that seems to be
reaching for help in all the wrong ways.
Good luck!
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 03-17-06 02:33am
Just go with the flow, if she is preggo,
make sure she tells her ex. And he may
want to be a part of it or he may not.
And if he does he may try to get with her
or she might want to get back with him so
you gotta watch out. Shes gonna be very
emotional if she is and might not know
what shes doing. If you love her so much
and she is preggo then be there for her
and if this guy who persay got her preggo
f's off maybe you can suggest being its
adopted daddy?
