Ok well,today I had protected and
unprotected sex with my boyfriend..*we had
sex using a condom,then once he came he
took it off and we had sex longer..Then
waited about 3 hours or so,and had sex
again,unprotected* thing is,i'm still not
sure if i'm pregnant,cause I haven't gone
to a doctor yet....But,would having
unprotected sex increase it,like..Say I
was,but it's not showing up on
hpt's..Would my having sex today be more
like noticable..I'm probably not making
any sense,but I don't know how to word
it,hopefully someone will know what i'm
trying to say..And be able to give me an
answer...
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HomecomingQueen2003
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2003 Posts: 936 Location: Phoenix, AZ
Posted: 01-02-04 16:34pm
That does make sense hun and no it
wouldn't work like that. You would just
have to wait until you miss your cycle!
Good luck!
Megan
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Lee159
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2003 Posts: 86 Location: Canada
Already Missed Posted: 01-02-04 16:43pm
See,i already have missed my "cycle"....I
haven't had a period since..October I
believe,i've just had some "spotting" once
in novemeber,and twice in december....But
like,on hpt's it just comes up negative,so
I dunno whut'z goin on....
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HomecomingQueen2003
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2003 Posts: 936 Location: Phoenix, AZ
Posted: 01-02-04 16:45pm
Go to a doc and get a blood test hun, its
the only way to know for sure!
Megan
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 01-02-04 16:52pm
Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-01-04 10:44am; edited 1 time in total
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Lee159
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2003 Posts: 86 Location: Canada
Thanx Posted: 01-02-04 16:59pm
Homecoming queen,thanx for tha
advice....I've been trying 2 get into a
doctor for a while,but the b.C clinic
seemz 2 be very busy.... & as for
insurancegirl I think your rude,no
offence..But u sounded very rude in your
post,first of all..You obviously didn't
understand what I was asking,and 2nd you
don't know my whole situation..I think I
know what I need to know about sex,and as
far as knowing stuff about pregnancy,why
do you think i'm on this forum,to get
advice....Oh and,i'm not
"trying/thinkging" to have a baby,stuff
happened..And now i'm just looking for
answers..
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 01-02-04 19:03pm
Honey I know mistakes happen but having
unprotected sex (obviously you've had it
before if you think your pregnant) is
never a good idea unless you want to
become pregnant. You say you made
mistakes but I say the first time is a
mistake, the second time is ignorance and
the third time is called a baby. Best of
luck though and please if your not
pregnant get on the pill or buy a box of
condoms!
Love
tanya
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 375 Location: georgia
Posted: 01-02-04 19:50pm
Lee I dont think she meant any harm im
sorry you got offended you do have the
right to make your on decisions, and if
you choose to have a baby thats your
choice but just look at all the
circumstances that occur when you have a
baby. But take homecomingqueens advice
and go get a blood test. Good luck and
god bless!
Chrystal
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Lee159
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2003 Posts: 86 Location: Canada
Forget I Asked.. Posted: 01-02-04 20:10pm
I'm getting the feeling you all are
looking down on me because I chose to have
sex..And because I may/or may not,become a
teen mother....
*darling* I never said that I made any
mistakes..If I am pregnant,my baby would
certainly not (in caps) be a mistake..And
when I had sex the other time *the time
from which I think I culd be pregnant* we
did (in caps) in fact use something..I'd
be happy if I was pregnant,i'd like rather
to be able to stay in school (even though
i'm not in right now,i will be in
february) and graduate from
highschool..But if I was,i'd love my baby
no matter what the circumstances..And
f.Y.I I was on the pill,but had to be
taken off of it *for reasons that aren't
needing to me mentioned* and I have plenty
of condoms thank you very much..
No offence to any of u,but i'm not liking
this forum very much anymore,i seem to
always get people replying that are either
rude,or look down upon me because i'm 16
and chose to have sex,and now might
possibly be pregnant..I know what comes
along with having a baby,i'm well aware of
everything,trust me,i've looked up a lot
(in caps) of stuff on the net,and in
books..Just in case it ever came to
that..Just because we're teenagers,and
haven't been around as long as a lot of
the rest of u..Doesn't mean we're stupid
or irresponsible..If we're responsible
enuf to have sex,then we're responsible
enuf to handle the consequences that
may/or may not come along with that..
That's all I have to say..
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 01-02-04 20:12pm
Honey I was in no way judging you! I got
pregnany at 16, I just don't want people
to make the same mistakes. I'm sorry you
feel that way. Just raising a baby at 16
is incredibly difficult and if you can
prevent it then you should. Best of luck
love
tanya
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Lee159
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2003 Posts: 86 Location: Canada
I Know, Posted: 01-02-04 20:52pm
I'm well aware it's difficult..But I can't
do anything about it now if I am..
And i'm sry that I freaked out a little on
everyone,i've been really sensitive with a
lot of stuff lately..But I still do kinda
feel that way..But meh
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 375 Location: georgia
Posted: 01-02-04 22:12pm
If I offended you im sorry I never meant
to pass judgement.
Chrystal
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Lee159
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2003 Posts: 86 Location: Canada
It'z Ok.. Posted: 01-03-04 00:17am
It'z alright,no hard feelings....It'z all
good....Don't worri bout it,i've just been
really emotional the past while,no idea
why..But yea,so I get upset over small
stupid things....So don't worri bout it
i'm sry!
Lee,
hey sweetie. All the girls here mean
well. Sometimes, on the computer
especially, you cannot express your words
correctly and it seems that you are being
rude. I truly hope you continue to come
to the board even though it seems people
were rude to you. I'm sure they didn't
mean it.
Love,
chanda
