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Posted: 03-18-06 00:01am

I'm thinking abbyroad is less creative than just plain unimaginative. How many kids have to be named after songs? We get it already. You like the band.
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Posted: 03-18-06 00:05am

Heyjude, .Yellowsubmarine, .Paperbackwriter, .Eleanorrigby, .Obladioblada (i like this one), .Iamthewalrus, .Lucyintheskywithdiamonds... The list goes on. And it is *wonderful*.
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Posted: 03-18-06 00:09am

Unless you are the one plagued with the name. My mom was a hippie and used hippie names for her children *gag* it was obvious who my siblings were. Willow jade, anyone?
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Posted: 03-18-06 00:11am

Haha I got lucky

terra brianne
after my uncles terry and brian lol how fun
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Posted: 03-18-06 00:36am

Thats great your named after dudes. Macys middle name is jade whats wrong with that? As for abbyroad poor kid but I guess she can always shorten it to abby and change it when shes legal know I would
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Posted: 03-18-06 02:06am

Aww macy jade, that's too cute.


You can name my kids when I have them k? :p
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Posted: 03-18-06 02:08am

Umm get ur facts right abby road isnt a song errr!!!! Its a famous road in liverpool 5 thousand tourists go there every day its nothing 2 do wif that tho I think it sounds unique and different even a bit posh penny lanes a song but also a street
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Posted: 03-18-06 02:13am

Why do you wanna name your kids after streets? You can pick unique names without having them sound just... Dumb? I'm not trying to be rude but thats kinda pushing it.
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Posted: 03-18-06 02:14am

And as for lennon ide love my son 2 be names after someone so amazing he belive in peace love and war more then anything no only that he was the best songwriter there ever was I want my son to ask me wat dose my name me and he will be very proud 2 be named after him I dont understand y everytime some one posts stuff on here all use do is bag them do u think it actually bothers me tho if use dont like the names I couldnt care less it matters that I like them and my boyfriend and dont say my kids are gonna get teased or there gonna hate me for it I no I took after my parents in liking the beatles and im sure they will to beats the caca music thats out today with no meaning about drugs and sex
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Posted: 03-18-06 02:17am

Well I don't care either i'm just telling you my opinion.

I guess lennon is ok? But can you honestly picture yourself saying (caps) abbyroad and yelling at her when she's in trouble or something? Or pennylane. Come on lol but whatever u dont care.
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Posted: 03-18-06 02:20am

Its just like penny anne or penny maria same bloody thing pennylane
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Posted: 03-18-06 02:22am

Penny .Lane would be ok, as the first and middle name but not the first names.

But abbyroad is just dumb. Anything with the word "road" in it... Thats just lame


but like I said oh well bc u dont care ;) good luck with trying for your baby.
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Posted: 03-18-06 11:13am

Abby, I *love* the .Beatles. They were a fantastic band who made fantastic music, even if some of their songs *had* to be describing their acid trips. I can think of no other explanation for 'i am the walrus'...

Anyway, I still wouldn't name any of my kids after one of their songs, or a street for that matter.

I bet your kid ends up being called '.Lenin'... :p
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Posted: 03-18-06 11:35am

macysmama wrote:
thats great your named after dudes. Macys middle name is jade whats wrong with that? As for abbyroad poor kid but I guess she can always shorten it to abby and change it when shes legal know I would



must have been a fad my daughters name is elisa-jade
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Posted: 03-18-06 12:31pm

When I was little I had a babydoll named jade cuz thats what I wanted my mom to name my brother b4 we new he was a boy so it just stuck with me
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Posted: 03-18-06 12:34pm

Let me explain something about the attitude of americans (i can comment safely because I am haitian/dominican first and american second). Americans have unteachable spirits. They can not be taught anything and don't like to believe that they can be or ever have been wrong. So instead of accepting a correction about something, they become upset and ask; "who are you to correct me?"

don't anyone jump down my throat for this because I can be the same way sometimes. For the most part though, I would rather be educated on something that i've done incorrectly than become defiant and appear uneducated.
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Posted: 03-18-06 19:02pm

tigresacanela24 wrote:
let me explain something about the attitude of americans (i can comment safely because I am haitian/dominican first and american second). Americans have unteachable spirits. They can not be taught anything and don't like to believe that they can be or ever have been wrong. So instead of accepting a correction about something, they become upset and ask; "who are you to correct me?"

don't anyone jump down my throat for this because I can be the same way sometimes. For the most part though, I would rather be educated on something that i've done incorrectly than become defiant and appear uneducated.


i think for the most part you are right, but I would much rather be corrected than look like a complete fool. I also believe I am wrong quite a bit..Lol.
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Posted: 03-20-06 07:57am

samantham wrote:
tigresacanela24 wrote:
let me explain something about the attitude of americans (i can comment safely because I am haitian/dominican first and american second). Americans have unteachable spirits. They can not be taught anything and don't like to believe that they can be or ever have been wrong. So instead of accepting a correction about something, they become upset and ask; "who are you to correct me?"

don't anyone jump down my throat for this because I can be the same way sometimes. For the most part though, I would rather be educated on something that i've done incorrectly than become defiant and appear uneducated.


i think for the most part you are right, but I would much rather be corrected than look like a complete fool. I also believe I am wrong quite a bit..Lol.


me too, a little embarassment now will save me from abject humiliation later. :lol:
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Re: 18, Single, And Want to Get Pregnant
Posted: 03-20-06 18:49pm

I feel that you shouldnt bring a baby into the world, unless u have a partner and u love on another, and u both ready for a baby, not just sleeping around to get pregnant, also u have ur whole life ahead of you, I mean im 2months pregnant and im 19, 20 when the baby will be born, and my bf loved me, and now he dont wanna be with me, he said I have to get rid if I wanna be with him, if not he dont want me, and well all im trying say is u dont wanna be on ya own, like getting up on the nights, and the baby not having father, im so scared and I jus dont even know what to do about my baby, so many responsibiltys and I was so carfull, on the pill, and well its jus so hard, but I mean if u want baby, that much up 2 u, but isnt all fun n games,
fucia69 wrote:
hi. I am ashly.. I am 18 years old I am a college student in mt..Since I was 8 I was raising my little brother.. I loved every minute of it.. When I was in high school I worked really hard so I could go to college and make something of myself by helping children who really need me.. I want to become a social worker.. However, over the past few months I have been feeling like I want something more out of life.. My friends and mom tell me that I should volunteer.. Or something like that to get this baby idea out of my head.. To me it is not just a baby idea.. I want to bring a life into this world and raise him or her to the best of my ability.. I know what you are thinking.. "you are 18 how do you even know what your abilities are?" and that is what I am trying to explain.. I have thought of every obstacle that I would have to over come and I still want to have a child..

-i am 18 I have my whole life ahead of me... I am willing to give up the partying and craziness..

-financially I still cant pay for myself all the time... I have done all the research and with the help I can get while I am in school.. This baby would have everything he or she would want..
-school.. I am in college and having a baby would make that difficult.. But not impossible.. If I believe in myself I can do it..
-daddy.. Well I am a strong believer that if I have male influences in my childs life.. There will be nothing wrong with not having a daddy right there..
-stress, and sleep deprivation.. I know all the other stuff too.. But I know this is something I want...


I want advice.. I am not sure what the advice will be but.. I am open minded and want to hear what people have to say..
Thank you
ashly :)
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Re: 18, Single, And Want to Get Pregnant
Posted: 03-20-06 19:21pm

fucia69 wrote:
hi. I am ashly.. I am 18 years old I am a college student in mt..Since I was 8 I was raising my little brother.. I loved every minute of it.. When I was in high school I worked really hard so I could go to college and make something of myself by helping children who really need me.. I want to become a social worker.. However, over the past few months I have been feeling like I want something more out of life.. My friends and mom tell me that I should volunteer.. Or something like that to get this baby idea out of my head.. To me it is not just a baby idea.. I want to bring a life into this world and raise him or her to the best of my ability.. I know what you are thinking.. "you are 18 how do you even know what your abilities are?" and that is what I am trying to explain.. I have thought of every obstacle that I would have to over come and I still want to have a child..

-i am 18 I have my whole life ahead of me... I am willing to give up the partying and craziness..

-financially I still cant pay for myself all the time... I have done all the research and with the help I can get while I am in school.. This baby would have everything he or she would want..
-school.. I am in college and having a baby would make that difficult.. But not impossible.. If I believe in myself I can do it..
-daddy.. Well I am a strong believer that if I have male influences in my childs life.. There will be nothing wrong with not having a daddy right there..
-stress, and sleep deprivation.. I know all the other stuff too.. But I know this is something I want...


I want advice.. I am not sure what the advice will be but.. I am open minded and want to hear what people have to say..
Thank you
ashly :)


ashly, please listen to me .V.E.R.Y carefully, having a child right now would not only be the most selfish thing you could do, but also the worst thing you could do at this point in your life. I am 19, my husband is 21, I became pregnant on birthcontrol pills, we now have an 8 month old son, my husband is a college student, we are on food stamps, and medicade, and just barely making it by.... B.A.R.E.L.Y! I know that you are not in the same situation as us... But yours sounds like it would be harder! You just think you want a child... It is only normal for a women to have the urge in her body to want a child, but that does not mean that you should act on that urge. Raising a baby is the most difficult thing I have ever ever ever done. I also raised my little brother and loved it, but... Having my own child is nothing like that was. I know that if this is set in your mind, you are probably going to do it no matter what any of us say, but the least I could do is try to talk you out of it. Some days, I just want to be alone, to relax, but I can't, because I have a son who depends on me all of the time. It's not all happiness and loving to have a child, it's stressful and irratating also. Don't you want to live your life? Get married, be able to give your hudband your first child? Be able to live life with your husband just the two of you for a while? Girl .T.H.I.N.K!! Please! I love my baby.. But if I could change things, he wouldn't be here for a few years. If you need something to love that will love you back, get a puppy!! Do you honestly not think that bringing a child into the world at this point in your life is selfish? That child could have a much better life if he had a mother and father, a stable home with a descent income, and things like that. Do you not agree? I'm sure all of this has already been preached to you... I didn't read the other posts, but im sure. Just remember, that it is only normal for you to have the urge to bring a child into the world... I think that .God but that inside of us.... But he didn't intend on us acting on it until things were right for the baby. Think about it, and then decide on rather or not you want to give a child an okay life or a wonderful life! Good luck with whatever happens and if you do decide to get pregnant, when you look back on this I promise you will wish that you would have listened!
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