My wife and I are in serious trouble and I
need some advice. It started about 2
months ago when my wife had caught me
sending flirtaous emails to a xgirlfriend
when this happen she felt alone and empty
and a guy at her work showed her interest
and now she has developed and emotional
and physical attraction to him and now
doesn't know if she wants to be with me or
him. We have only been married 5 months
and also we were going to marriage
counseling at the start after she caught
me sending emails and she has been keeping
her feelings for this guy from and the
counselor until I caught her text
messageing him and also calling him. And
still has yet to meet with the counselor.
I am so scared that this may be over and
hope it isn't. She needs time to figure
it out and I am scared that at the end it
will be the end of us , I love her to much
to have this happen. Counseling has been
working for wonderfully and will keep
going
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Morning_Glory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 207 Location: NE Ohio
Posted: 03-20-06 21:24pm
You've only been married a few months and
you were flirting with an ex? Are you
nuts!
It sounds like you and your wife married
for all of the wrong reasons and maybe you
and her need to really look at why you are
together and if you even want to continue
to be together. Its better to end it now
before you get in so deep with kids,
property, etc that its a major deal to
sort it all out.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 03-21-06 12:16pm
Why were you flirting with your x?And
sending her e-mails?
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brako
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2006 Posts: 16 Location: ohio
End It Posted: 03-29-06 17:50pm
Look if both of you are already doing this
what does the future hold?
Do you really love eachother?
Can you two be monogamous?
Dont hurt eachother any more than you have
to that way you can still salvage a
friendship.
Anyway who am I to give advice mine only
lasted 12 years.
Good luck buddy hope it all works out the
way you want it too.
Cyas brako
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 03-30-06 07:57am
Yeah brako but you didn't do anything
wrong.Your awesome!!!!!!!!
