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littlemisstery
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I Don't Like It
Posted: 03-20-06 02:25am
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Are there any other women out there that
just aren't fond of receiving oral sex? I
don't know if i'm weird or what, but I
reeeeally just do not enjoy it as much as
regular sex. Everyone i've had sex with
has tried it a few different times, and I
didn't like it much at all. I guess I
like it a bit rougher :d
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luckiU05
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Location: Southern Cali
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Oral Sex
Posted: 03-20-06 02:27am
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I dont like it and either does my friend.
One of my older friends say that all like
it when im older and that all enjoy it
better.
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luckiU05
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Location: Southern Cali
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Oral Sex
Posted: 03-20-06 02:27am
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I dont like it and either does my friend.
One of my older friends say that all like
it when im older and that all enjoy it
better.
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 03-20-06 12:36pm
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Your friends right,i didn't like it when I
was younger but now I do.It can also be
the difference between someone who knows
what they're doing and someone else who
has no clue.
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munky23
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Posted: 03-20-06 20:48pm
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The only reason I don't like it cause i'm
self conscious of having him stick his
head down there. I don't know, its just
weird. I love giving it. Well I love 69
though, I just don't like him doing it and
me laying there.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 03-21-06 07:58am
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I use to be like that too but you know all
girls are self concious of 'down there'.
It is pushed into our heads that its nasty
and smells like fish but if you keep
yourself clean and shave you should have
nothing to be embarassed about.Most guys
love doing that sort of thing and after he
does it a couple of times you will get use
to it and won't trip so much : )
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babe2005
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Even I Did Not Like It Initially
Posted: 03-22-06 16:37pm
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Even I did not like it initially. My
first 2 bf's never gave a head but the
third one was quite fond of it.Initially
it was a lilttle embarassing as melissa
said coz I thought it was not so clean
down there.Secondly it was painful for me
if he spends too much time with my clit.I
asked him one day that how does it feel
while giving head.He said he felt as
normal as any other act of sex,so I became
comfortable but I use to stop him in
between coz of too much sensation or
pain.But now I started enjoying after 5
years.
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sandy78
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Location: Cali.
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Posted: 03-22-06 18:33pm
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I say try doing it, or letting him do it
to you, just after you get out of the
shower. It will let you be less self
conscious about the whole thing. Dont let
him be down there for that long until you
get more used to it. Let him please you
orally for about 5-10 minutes then pull
him up to you for sex. Some other helpful
idea's might be to use something like a
lube so that he can use his fingers easily
on you at the same time then when your
ready for him to stop so you can have sex
you'll be more than ready for it. Not
saying that you wont be super wet from all
that, but just that since your a little
self conscious about it all right now
maybe you wont get "as" excitied, so the
lube will help cover that as well as add a
fun touch to your sex life.
Good luck. Oh and btw, if you choose to
use the lube idea get something that is
color free and fragrance free, I love
ready lube (www.Readylube.Com), since it's
clear and tasteless & ordorless. The
reason behind this is because you dont
want him giving you a kiss after he just
ate you out with some strawberry
scented/flavored lube with red caca all
over his face like a clown :) or have your
vagina smell like cocomut all day long!
Hehehe
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Re: I Don't Like It
Posted: 03-22-06 22:27pm
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| littlemisstery
wrote: | | are there any other women
out there that just aren't fond of
receiving oral sex? I don't know if i'm
weird or what, but I reeeeally just do not
enjoy it as much as regular sex.
Everyone i've had sex with has tried it a
few different times, and I didn't like it
much at all. I guess I like it a bit
rougher :d |
totally the opposite...I love receiving
and giving oral..I've never had a problem
with it..I guess sometimes people dont
like the idea of it because they arent
comfortable with their partner...I use to
be kind of scared..I guess because I
really didnt know my boyfriend(...When we
first got together)..But now that we are
engaged and live together I am very
comfortable and can do anything I want
with him..
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Melissa_20
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Re: Even I Did Not Like It Initially
Posted: 03-23-06 08:51am
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| babe2005
wrote: | | even I did not like it
initially. My first 2 bf's never gave a
head but the third one was quite fond of
it.Initially it was a lilttle embarassing
as melissa said coz I thought it was not
so clean down there.Secondly it was
painful for me if he spends too much time
with my clit.I asked him one day that how
does it feel while giving head.He said he
felt as normal as any other act of sex,so
I became comfortable but I use to stop him
in between coz of too much sensation or
pain.But now I started enjoying after 5
years. |
maybe it hurts from the way he does it? I
know my bf has a couple of different
techniques and one of them is very
uncomfortable if he does it too much or
too hard.
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sandy78
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Posted: 03-23-06 15:41pm
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It's all about communication!
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babe2005
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Re: Even I Did Not Like It Initially
Posted: 03-24-06 13:19pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | babe2005
wrote: | | even I did not like it
initially. My first 2 bf's never gave a
head but the third one was quite fond of
it.Initially it was a lilttle embarassing
as melissa said coz I thought it was not
so clean down there.Secondly it was
painful for me if he spends too much time
with my clit.I asked him one day that how
does it feel while giving head.He said he
felt as normal as any other act of sex,so
I became comfortable but I use to stop him
in between coz of too much sensation or
pain.But now I started enjoying after 5
years. |
maybe it hurts from the way he does it?
I know my bf has a couple of different
techniques and one of them is very
uncomfortable if he does it too much or
too hard. |
sounds true, whenever he does it softer it
feels amazing and whenever its too hard it
feels over exciting or even painful.
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toocrunkfaya05
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Posted: 03-24-06 13:24pm
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I think as starters we are all a little
embarassed about it but like she said u
should try it when u get out of the shower
which is when me and my bf do it the most
but try it then or when u know that u are
clean dont be scared if u know ur clean
then go for it and u will be amazed on how
it feels to u and him if u try it I didnt
like it at first but now I wouldnt turn it
down
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rasuyoung
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Posted: 03-24-06 13:38pm
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I love, love, love it. Then again, some
men really know what they're doing, and
some men have no clue. It's okay to
direct him a little if the latter's the
case! You really have to let yourself go
and just lay back and enjoy it. If
you're too tense and nervous about the
whole prospect, it's hard to enjoy him
going down on you and nearly impossible to
have an orgasm. If you can relax, think
about how good it feels or think of a
fantasy to help put you over the edge.
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littlemisstery
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Posted: 03-25-06 14:10pm
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I love giving it more than I do receiving
it, so I dunno what's going on lol. I
think it's just the fact that he's not so
experienced yet w/ oral. The first guy I
was with that did it actually did it so
much that it hurt, which totally turned me
against him doing it. My bf now does it
so soft that I can barely even feel what
he's doing unless I move forward more or
tell him. I think it just takes actually
talking about it first, or while it's
happening really, then it should get
better :)
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-26-06 02:45am
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Yeah, I felt embarrased about it because
of how it's "supposed" to smell, and
because my mother had always downplayed my
own sexuality. She told me not to get
addicted to masturbation!! I still think
vaginas are pretty gross, but my boyfriend
loves mine so I guess that's what counts
:) I do know that shaving and trimming
down there made me feel much more
confident in myself, because the first
couple of times I wasn't shaved. I didn't
even kow how!!
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