Hi everyone...I am into a relationship
which is very sweet and loving. I really
care for my girlfriend and she also loves
me like anything. We both had good times
with each other, but now I am in different
country and I am facing problems of so
called long distance relationship. I am
very protective and possessive about her.
She is one of the beautiful girl in her
office and place where she lives. I have
become very possessive and this creates
problems between us. She yells at times
because she is very frustated by me and my
behaviour. I am really afraid to loose
her. Can anyone please help me.
I dont like her wearing revealing clothes.
As I cannot see her, I have no idea what
she does and I often tend to ask her, so
she gets irritated. She has promised me
that she wont do anything that will hurt
me but I never believe. I also dont like
anyone coming close to her or touch her
when she is out travelling or going out
with anyone. I sound immature, but I
really love her and I value her touch to
me. Please, its a request if you can help
me.
How to avoid this possessiveness about
her? How to stay with her and let her do
all she likes?
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diamondsz
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Posted: 03-20-06 16:18pm
Bite you tongue if you cant stop being
posseisive(telling your girlfriend how to
live) she will leave you a relationship is
based on trust and your not putting your
50% in so I would sit down and tell her
how you feel in a nice way but she doesnt
have to follow any of request I actually
find them quite retarded im married and if
my husband ever told me what to wear I
would tell him to go f*ck himself!
Get some help maybe counselling, cause
your relationship is defiantly going to
end if you keep acting the way you are,
if my husband hugged another woman I
couldnt care cause I trust him enough not
to push hi limits and he know what they
are cause we made basic rules the night
before we got married. I told him he
evers cheats hes out the door and if he
ever hits me I deck him back and kick him
out lol!! If you push any woman too far
you will learn that they do retaliate!
Sorry to be a health forum but I hate
control freaks!
