Not Pregnant And Confused Posted: 03-20-06 23:44pm
Iam 18 almost 19 years old and really
upset about the whole pregnancy thing. Me
and my boyfriend have been having
unprotected sex for a long time. I should
be pregnant by now but iam not I dont
think I can get pregnant and I feel really
stupid for complaining about this but I
really want kids and by boyfriend has a
son a 2 year old. But I want to know what
causes me not to get pregnant I useually
think I am take a test and it says
positive and I get really happy but then I
start to bleed. Iam jest really confessed
I hope someone knows whats going on cuz
iam really confused. Now I feel like iam
pregnant again but iam scared its going to
happen again I dont know how much I can
take. Please can someone help :cry:
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 03-21-06 15:07pm
I have unprotect sex with my bf also and
we have been doing it for about 3 months
and nothing.Things just take time! Baby
dust to you~*~*~*~*!
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Moo
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Joined: 20 Feb 2006 Posts: 1046 Location: London
Thanks: 21
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Posted: 03-21-06 15:24pm
It takes time! Most doctors don't
reccommend you see them until you've been
trying for at least a year to get pregnant
without success so just relax and let it
come naturally.
As for getting + tests and then bleding
alot of women have vry early miscarriages
so it isn't unusual.
Good luck
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Morning_Glory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 207 Location: NE Ohio
Posted: 03-21-06 15:44pm
Geeze whats your hurry? Your eighteen.
There are women in their thirties that
have been trying to get pregnant with
their husbands for ten years.
Enjoy your life, enjoy your bf's child,
enjoy being 18. When the time is right,
nature will take its course and you will
have a baby of your own.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 03-22-06 07:51am
Just remember that things happen for a
reason and maybe its just not your time
yet.It will come when its right.
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mongirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 93 Location: Michigan
Posted: 03-29-06 11:46am
I have that worry as well. I am 20 and I
have been having irregular periods for
about 9 mos now and I went to the doc and
she thinks is hormonal but im so paranoid
about my ability to have babies... Does
anyone have anything positive to say to
make me feel better?
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 03-29-06 13:44pm
A lot of times when you are ttc you are
stressing which does not help the
situation, so relax, enjoy it when I gave
up ttc after failing a few times that is
when I became pregnant, so try not to get
preggars, that is when it might happen to
you.
Like the other person replied that you
will get pregnant when it is meant to be,
or something like that.
In the meantime, baby dust to you!
Is that the main reason to have a baby is
because he has one, because to me, that is
not a very good reason.
But good luck with whatver you want
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devilhottie41
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Mar 2006 Posts: 5
Posted: 04-03-06 20:08pm
Thank you for all the support that
everyone has given me I dont really get
that kind of positive reinforsment form
anyone so this has helped me alot I have
been really stressed lately and its been
hard I know my life is tough so maybe
stress is causing this but who knows. But
thank you
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