Possibly Relapsing??? :s !!!! My Gran Is Dying Posted: 03-21-06 15:40pm
I was kicked out by my mum over a month
ago
im living with my gran
she is very ill and has no prospects of
recovering she is heavily depressed
herself and talks to me sometimes about
"wishing she wouldnt wake up" her death is
inevitable but recently I have noticed a
sudden decline in her health she has been
a smoker for 50 years and she cannot walk
for more then 10 paces without having to
take a seat and catch her breath back.
She is an asmatic (sorry about the
spelling) and its making me depressed with
the prospect of her dying and the fact
that I cant make her happy.
She refuses to go to a nursing home and to
a doctor or the hospital but she really
needs to get some help she continues to
smoke and I feel powerless to stop her.
I can see wheres shes coming from now its
too late and quitting would make her
unhappy so might as well die mildly
happy.
Im so stuck with what to do I have many
other problems going on for me at the mo
which I will post underneath as a link cos
I cant get from here but I was hoping you
might be able to help me out.
Im basically her carer at the moment as
well as being at college
and im really worried because she is
agrophobic and im really worried that I
will find her dead on the couch.
Because I have spent so much time with her
recently I have got really attached to her
and I will really miss her if she dies
what can I do!!!
